They should switch to smaller instances to help distribute the load and avoid situations such as this one when LW is probably attacked because it is the most populous server.

Alternatively, you can look up for smaller instances (use the 1m column for active users in 1 month): https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list

I personally prefer to use Lemmy as the federation with Kbin can still be a bit clunky at the moment

It is literally the first thing you see in the sidebar

Is Liberapay an option? They don't have processing fees: https://en.liberapay.com/about/faq

So, just for me to understand, are you going to edit rule 2, or are you going to remove this post?

So true

Great!

Rule 6

You are welcome, have a good day!

You are free to ask them wherever you want. What I was saying is that you should already be able to find some answers from that thread

Thank you for your work!

Nice one