Here is a nice write-up with one perspective on the matter :)

https://web.archive.org/web/20220812095131/https://tricycle.org/article/joy-meditation/

Yes! Gatekeeping is dumb and terrible.

"He ain't shit" is... Promoting matriarchy? Like, taking one dude down a notch is hateful and subjugating to all men? Nah. Some men ain't shit, which is something you've surely discovered yourself as a gay man. Some women also ain't shit.

You seem like your goal is simply to stir up trouble. I hope you find a community that appreciates that.

Guys what the fuck. Locking this. Take a breather.

Edit: problem user removed. Carry on.

Absolutely. Bury it next to a stream on a new moon, dig it back up on the full moon, then take it to a spa day with you for a full massage and sauna.

The wreaths summon her. No additional effort required.

Yo, I have my misgivings about major corporations like Google and all... But Google Lens is a pretty great tool.

I'm glad that things worked well for you and that you've been able to carve out a good life!

Perhaps it would be worth considering that there are reasons a person might try to do things the same way as you and still fail to achieve the same level of comfort and success.

Not everyone has adults in their life poised to guide them well.

A major medical event in America can put someone into a financial hole that is incredibly difficult to escape.

Just by virtue of the year you enter the workforce, you can suffer long-lasting effects that ripple forward through your whole life.

You might be born stuck with a lousy local school system for the first 12 years of your education. Even excelling here, let's say you get a full-ride scholarship to an ivy league university, what if you can't leave home because your disabled parents need you?

There are so many things that can contribute to people falling behind, or never making any headway to begin with. Personally, I've been pretty lucky and I'm faring okay among my peers. I own a house and a car, I don't have to check my bank account before I buy groceries or gas to see how much I can afford. But the system is filled with pitfalls and relies so much on pure luck for any given individual. The idea espoused by older generations that young people get more conservative as they get older basically relies on an "I got mine" attitude, which is one I personally cannot abide by.

I feel like this is technically a good thing in the grand scheme, but the fact that it's in response to the government trying to combat COVID and election misinformation makes me... uneasy, to say the least.

Were you born a greedy little pigboy? Or did you have to learn how to be?

See also: me frantically summoning all relevant images from my hard drive, in order to populate the community.

This is all terribly engaging!