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submitted 2 years ago by Amicchan@lemmy.ml to c/esperanto@sopuli.xyz

Tiu estas tre uzindan!

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Amicchan@lemmy.ml to c/conlang@lemmy.ml

transafiŝita el: https://lemmy.ml/post/837623

Simple:

  • Patr'o: ĝeneralseksa patro.
  • Patr'in'o: ina patro.
  • Vir'patr'o: vira patro.
  • Vir'patr'in'o: interseksa patro

Instru'ist' enhavis viran sencon; sed nun tio enhavas ĝeneralseksan sencon.

Simply:

  • Patr'o: for parent
  • Patr'in'o: for female parent
  • Vir'patr'o: for male parent
  • Vir'patr'in'o: for intersex parent

Instru'ist' used to have a male sense; but now it has a unsexed sense.

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Amicchan@lemmy.ml to c/esperanto@sopuli.xyz

Simple:

  • Patr'o: ĝeneralseksa patro.
  • Patr'in'o: ina patro.
  • Vir'patr'o: vira patro.
  • Vir'patr'in'o: interseksa patro

Instruist' havis viran sencon; sed nun tio havas ĝeneralseksan sencon.

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Amicchan@lemmy.ml to c/venting@lemmy.ml

so, it turns out my sibling, after college, they became fearful for their (and our family's) life and started pressuring my family. They are controlling me, my grandmother, and my mom.

Recently, I've seen this manifest in their confrontations.

  1. They says something ridiculous (usually about leaving the door unlocked for 10 secconds; not looking behind enough; ).
  2. I prove them wrong;
  3. They gets mad and insist being right.
  4. I slowly get angered when they keeps insisting I'm wrong
  5. then I get uncomfortable and angered so I request to end the conversation and they refuse and insist on me "listening to them" (repeat, multiple times)
  6. I enforce my boundaries (usually when I get harassed).
  7. They harass and try to assult me (they broke the door in my room).

This happened in the past few months…

Well, my mom (a "mental health" therapist, ugh) is basically not doing a thing to fix their problems (anger management therapy); my mom instead just coddles them and blames me for starting them up, when they are pressuring me and our family. (Why am I surprised? Christian liberal-supporters who haven't read the bible, get mad when their children curse (but nor anyone else), and overstock on food; turn out to be garbarge parents and enablers…)

My aunt went on about how "I need to bond with my family and work together" (which really just means "do as they say").

Grandmother cant do a thing about it; because she's weak.


Also, I'm thinking about signing out for good; if I keep posting; I might actually dox myself.

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Amicchan@lemmy.ml to c/reddit@lemmy.ml

The fuck is OP's problem? He cooked for himself, not you; and he didnt pester you to cook.

Also, naan bread requires cooking… so either he cooked it or ordered it. Either way, who cares?

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Mi nesuprizis ke malkontraŭkoloniistajn burĝarojn disdiras tiajn malverojn pri Esperanto.

Ankaŭ, esperanto fondata sur kunigeblaj vorteroj. esperanto ne fondita sur afiskoj.

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Amicchan@lemmy.ml to c/esperanto@sopuli.xyz

Kial ne uzu vorton "oni"?

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[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I got curious about what the Bolsheviks would have done so I searched.

Interestingly enough, the Bolsheviks seemed to have went for no fixed or constant age of consent; instead, they used the presence of puberty as a primary factor for the age of consent. Courts would use medical testing to determine if a person was going through puberty.

In the 1922 RSFSR Criminal code of article 166 and 167:^[https://docs.cntd.ru/document/901757375]

4. Преступления в области половых отношений

  1. Половое сношение с лицами, не достигшими половой зрелости, карается - лишением свободы на срок не ниже трех лет со строгой изоляцией.

  2. Половое сношение с лицами, не достигшими половой зрелости, сопряженное с растлением, или удовлетворение половой страсти в извращенных формах, карается

4. Sexual offences

  1. Sexual intercourse with persons who have not reached puberty is punishable - by deprivation of liberty for a term not less than three years with strict isolation.

  2. Sexual intercourse with persons who have not reached puberty зрелос, involving corruption, or the satisfaction of sexual passion in perverted forms, is punishable - by deprivation of liberty for a term not less than five years.

Same for the 1926 RSFSR Criminal code:

  1. Sexual intercourse with persons who have not reached puberty, involving corruption or satisfaction of sexual passion in perverted forms, - imprisonment for a term of up to eight years.

Sexual intercourse with persons who have not reached puberty, committed without the specified aggravating signs, - imprisonment for a term of up to three years.

  1. Debauchery of minors or minors committed by means of debauched acts against them, - imprisonment for a term of up to five years.

  2. Sexual intercourse involving physical violence, threats, intimidation or using the victim's helpless state by deception (rape) - […]

  3. Entering into marriage with a person who has not reached the age of marriage, - imprisonment for a term of up to two years. Entering into a marriage with a person who has not reached puberty , or forcing him to enter into such a marriage - the measures provided for in Article 151 of this Code .

So, for example,

  • If there was a 16 year old teenager and they had not gone through puberty, they would technically be considered a minor and thus lack age of consent.
  • If a 15 year old teenager had initiated puberty and there was no coercion, they would have consent.

Of course this is for the RSFSR; I don't know what the other soviet republics did.

Surviving socialist states

The current surviving socialist states seem to have stuck to the more common fixed age of consent concept:

Age in years:

  • China - 14
  • Laos - 15
  • DPRK - 15 (from 0 years, I think)
  • Cuba - 16
  • Vietnam - 18
[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

I thought that was implied through the general term damage, that's why I used the general term damage and not just physical. Sorry if it came off that way.

(Technically, all damage (physical, emotion, neurological, etc.) is physical as it affects the human body, but that shouldn't and hopefully doesn't downplay their effects and importance of recognition.)

[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Because someone using their power dynamic to coerce a minor into sex isn’t sexual abuse to some people, while it is to me, for example.

That is sexual abuse to me.

[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

To attempt answering your question, I dont think its solely a matter of sexual development of the body. Mental development is much more important, especially the ability to manage human relationships and set boundaries.

I didnt think about brain development until now. Yes, that is important.

Age of consent is also not simply a binary question of yes or no

Yes. through dialectical materialism, sexual coercion can't be simplified into merely use of physical force; there is also economic coercion (through capital), and they all influence consent.

One approach I know about is that relationships between young teenagers are only legal up to an age difference of 2 years or so, not with adults.

OK.

It also makes sense that parents should be able to decide if their child can enter in a relationship with a specific person, after all they know their child best.

It's also said that the child knows best; and I think that children should learn what makes for a good relationship (no damage of all types).

[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

I have issues with rape and abuse; of course I want to be and am against that.

Yeah, maybe I should have worded that more clearly to say "sexual abuse" is still bad.

[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

Never said prepubescent sex was good. It's still bad because it damages the child.

[-] Amicchan@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago

You’re assuming age of consent is about puberty, reproduction, but age of consent is about being intellectually capable of understanding and having responsibility for actions, which isn’t something you can measure in a physical sense.

  1. Intellectual knowledge in a person would have to be physical though, otherwise it wouldn't affect the brain (and they wouldn't learn anything).
  2. Simple solution then: Initiate sex education at all school levels and multiple times.

“the conclusion of sexual development allows a person to have sex without sustaining damage” this is baseless and incorrect

How is it baseless and incorrect? Without puberty, humans would never become able to sexually reproduce safely and also develop into adults.

fucking creepy as shit, tbh

What's creepy about saying that ending puberty allows a person (or adult in that case) to perform sex safely (without sustaining damage)?

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