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Alternatives to Blynk
(startrek.website)
Since you're using an Arduino, I assume you are savvy enough: Home Assistant
And don't forget about ESPHome which is part of the Home Assistant Project and allows you to easily get your microcontrollers up and running.
Discussion about general home automation ideas and projects, home automation protocols like Z-wave, Zigbee, Matter, etc, and home automation software and hubs like HomeSeer, Home Assistant, OpenHAB, Homey.