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Alternatives to Blynk
(startrek.website)
Discussion about general home automation ideas and projects, home automation protocols like Z-wave, Zigbee, Matter, etc, and home automation software and hubs like HomeSeer, Home Assistant, OpenHAB, Homey.
Since you're using an Arduino, I assume you are savvy enough: Home Assistant
And don't forget about ESPHome which is part of the Home Assistant Project and allows you to easily get your microcontrollers up and running.