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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by BeAware@social.beaware.live to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com

My limitless desire for information always gets hindered by my very limited memory.

There's nothing like the ADHD experience of going to google something and immediately forgetting what you were going to search so you have to look through your recent apps to find whatever triggered the thought, but then get distracted in the apps, then just rinse and repeat.😩

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[-] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 2 years ago

One trick I use for that is to say it out loud, so I can access it in my echoic memory. Echoic memory doesn’t last very long, but sometimes long enough!

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

When I need to remember a string of numbers... Yup just repeat it to myself over and over or I'll forget within a minute lol

[-] ExtraMedicated@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Occasionally, I find that I screw up the order of the numbers at some point between reading them and using them, then I'm just repeating a bunch of meaningless digits to myself for no reason.

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

Don't remind me, I have to try really really hard to make sure they're still in the right order if it's more then like 5 numbers

[-] CucumberFetish@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I feel you, but the rest of the office be like

https://imgflip.com/i/8djhtf

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 years ago

That's the beautiful thing... you get to enjoy learning something then you'll forget it and get to enjoy learning it again!

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 years ago

A lot of the time, I start the re-learning process, only for my long-term memory to kick-in halfway through, and then I get annoyed because I "oh, I've read all of this before, it's boring now"

[-] CucumberFetish@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

You know the next sentence, but you don't understand the concept. You're bored of the familiar text, so you skip a few sentences, find out they are completely foreign, go back, realize you forgot the context or to actually read so you end up re reading the whole paragraph. But this time, the effort to concentrate takes the soul out of your body. And that's how you spend a full workday reading a one page document, while feeling burnt out.

And I'm not working again....

[-] brillotti@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

You could try something like Obsidian to use as a second brain for storing information for later reference.

[-] eya@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 years ago

still wishing for a FOS alternative that's just as good : (

[-] curioushuman@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I got ya. Try Anytype (https://anytype.io/).

(not affiliated, just a fan)

[-] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

This looks exciting! Big learning curve though...

[-] Schorsch@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

What's the difference between Logseq and Anytype? And how do both compare to Joplin?

So far I have been using Logseq and find it good but a little too complicated and somehow bland.

[-] Jackinopolis@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago

I am using logSec, which has a lot of the same features and is Foss. I am primarily using the mobile app; and my mine gripe is not being able to drag around the nodes in the graph. Think it works fine in the desktop version.

[-] fishos@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

You don't have limited memory, you have limited attention span. Stop telling yourself you have bad memory and force yourself to put more effort into taking in info and not just passing over it. Things like names are a good example. I used to always say "I'm terrible at remembering names". But I also wasn't really trying. I was leaning on that phrase as a crutch. When I started putting concentrated effort in, I found that suddenly I was able to learn and remember tons of names.

Another trick is to keep constant To-Do lists of various time frames. Like one for today, this week, this month. Put things in the appropriate list based on urgency and then check the list whenever you're unsure of what you need to do. Always put things on the list immediately. Use tools to make you're life more manageable. Don't lean on "well I have ADHD so this is just how I am, oh shucks". You can manage these things, it just takes time and effort to learn how.

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