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[-] the_q@lemmy.world 153 points 10 months ago

I hate this relatively new idea that comedy has to be mean. If you have to rile the audience to be funny, you're not funny.

[-] Psychodelic@lemmy.world 37 points 10 months ago

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I just saw this posted on lemmy a while back. It's so good. lol

[-] the_blast_of_us@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

For anyone who likes this, his entire show is brilliant and you can buy it for a fairly reasonable price directly from his homepage:

https://www.jamesacaster.com/cold-lasagne/

Honestly one of if not the best Stand-Up routine I've seen in the past ten years

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 9 points 10 months ago

Mean comedy and riling people up can be funny.

[-] the_q@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Sure if you the listener is also mean spirited.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 8 points 10 months ago

Or they recognize them as what they are, jokes.

[-] the_q@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

What constitutes a joke? If I punch you in the face then say, "hey it was just a joke" is it a joke? If the punch hurt you is it because you're soft?

[-] AnonTwo@kbin.social 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

You mean slapstick?

The humor that is funny mainly because you suspend disbelief and watch something else get hurt?

That type of comedy that practically dominated for several decades?

The key to a lot of humor regarding misfortune is that it either isn't regarding you, hits a point that is true but not the core of who you are, or is far away enough that you can suspend disbelief.

In other words, yes, because they're jokes

I mean you can literally just watch three stooges and people will laugh at someone getting punched in the face.

[-] the_q@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

That isn't even the close to the point or even relevant to what I said. Slapstick isn't random; it's a setup situation. It isn't attacking a stranger oh the street then expecting them to laugh about it... Goddamn you people cannot be this thick.

Misfortune humor is commiserating. It's punching up to the unfairness of a situation. Targeting trans people is punching down and if you can't wrap your head around that, then I don't know what to tell you. Just admit you lack empathy and move on.

[-] AnonTwo@kbin.social 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Goddamn you people cannot be this thick.

I'd say the same thing to you honestly. You seem too stuck up for humor. You aim for extremes for everything.

I can have empathy for others, but not for you, who seems to purposely put yourself in situations to be offended.

edit: wait standup is also setup comedy...come on man. You're literally writing situations for you to be offended in.

[-] Soulg@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Does a mean statement hurt your body in the same physical way as a punch to the face? That's a really stupid comparison.

[-] the_q@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Spoken like someone who hasn't experienced any hardships or loss.

[-] spacecowboy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 months ago

We get it. You’re a victim. Shut up already.

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[-] AnonTwo@kbin.social 3 points 10 months ago

Why is someone who has experienced hardship or loss, going to a comedian who is known for mean/dark humor?

You can't make humor that pleases everyone every time. That's unrealistic.

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[-] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 62 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Having seen Kevin Hart live, I'm not surprised.

It was incredibly depressing that his openers (his "Solo cup boys") made homophobic jokes. One in particular was about how the comedian would be disappointed if his son was gay because he couldn't take him to the strip club with him.

Sorry that people aren't receptive to shitty, bigoted jokes any more Kevin. Maybe you and Dave Chappelle can get together and make jokes about trans/gay people to empty audiences.

Or in terms that you're more familiar with, "you 'gon learn today!'

[-] snooggums@kbin.social 30 points 10 months ago

One in particular was about how the comedian would be disappointed if his son was gay because he couldn’t take him to the strip club with him.

The premise could have worked if he switched it around and said that he was going to have to go to gay strip club or Chippendale's or something instead of being a complaint about not being able to go to his usual clubs. That would have made it supportive and accepting of his son while also highlighting his personal hangups.

[-] JeffKerman1999@sopuli.xyz 29 points 10 months ago

The idea of going to a strip club is repulsive to me, going with my dad is even worse... Wtf kind of joke is that even

[-] snooggums@kbin.social 20 points 10 months ago

A joke about taking your adult children to a strip club is funny because of how weird it would be. Hart flubbed it by making his son's sexuality the punchline.

[-] qarbone@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

The original comment was talking about the openers for Kevin Hart, not Kevin Hart himself. So the punchline shouldn't have been made by Hart or about Hart's son.

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[-] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 23 points 10 months ago

If your humor is based on punching down then fuck off, life is shitty enough as it is for most people without having a multi millionaire laughing at them.

[-] somegeek@programming.dev 3 points 10 months ago

Oh too bad their shows always sell out arenas. Perform to empty crowds? You people live in your heads.

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[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 57 points 10 months ago

Kevin Hart aside (I'll let others talk about what they like or dislike about him) -

I don't know how anyone thinks that the hollywood "elite" are comedy friendly. I don't know any celebrities right now that can take a joke about themselves. Either lighthearted or a good ribbing, I just see every one of them being upset and pouty. Sure they'll laugh at others, but to each one of them they're untouchable when it comes to jokes.

Personally I liked the humor, for me it humanizes them and it's like "Okay let's ground this thing in some reality before we make you feel like you're the most important people on the planet", but of course god forbid they remember they're just like us.

[-] TIMMAY@lemmy.world 27 points 10 months ago

the less I hear about or see kevin hart, the better. Feel free to remove yourself from more media, kevin.

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[-] detinu@lemmy.world 26 points 10 months ago

I don't get it, he should be a perfect host then right?

[-] ghostface@lemmy.world 22 points 10 months ago

My only rebuttal to this, is the whitehouse correspondance dinner. That's the whole point of comedy.

Jeselnik said something to this point when he mentioned the Boston marathon bombing. What's funny about the bombing, nothing. But that's why there comedians who can find humor in the darkest of places.

[-] jonne@infosec.pub 7 points 10 months ago

Pretty sure Seth Myers caused Trump to run for President tho. Or maybe it was his opening act

[-] Stanwich@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

No loss here. Take your jokes and go home. Soooooooo many others who would love the chance.

[-] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago

I've said it before and I'll say it again. People are too easily offended nowadays.

How arrogant do you have to be that you feel that everyone has to only do / say things that don't offend you?

[-] Bojimbo@kbin.social 22 points 10 months ago

Dark comedy still exists, but the lazy comedy stylings of my 50 yo homophobe, racist uncle seems to be out of fashion. These old guard stand up comics aren't funny anymore and no one is obligated to buy tickets to their shows.

[-] Sage_the_Lawyer@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

"The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forego one's own." -The Satanic Temple's Fourth Tenet

However. I also believe the right to be offended is one of the freedoms we all have. There's a lot of discussion over what this tenet truly means. I believe it should work hand-in-hand with the other tenets, which include "one's body is inviolable, subject to one's own will alone," "one should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason," and "every tenet is a guiding principle designed to inspire nobility in action and thought. The spirit of compassion, wisdom, and justice should always prevail over the written or spoken word."

I take it to mean that yes, you do have the right to offend, but also to be offended when someone violated your own personal freedoms. To say something that challenges someone's understanding of the world may offend them, but that doesn't mean its wrong. However, the use of the freedom to offend should be used sparingly, and with caution.

But if we start telling people they're not allowed to say things that are offensive to us, then that same logic can turn back on us later when we say something offensive to them. Pretty soon, nobody will be allowed to say anything. People should be free to express their opinions, so long as they abide by the rest of the tenets, in my opinion.

But, that doesn't mean we need to give people who are out to offend others bigger platforms to spread their messages. We don't even have to listen to them.

I'm reminded of the famous Voltaire quote, "I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."

This is a complex topic, and I'm worried I'm not making my message clear enough here. Let me try to boil it down to a more direct response.

I do not agree that people are "too easily offended nowadays," but I do agree that people have the right to say things that might offend. I think people have the right to be offended about whatever they want. But they do not have the right to impose their own beliefs on others. If you want to say something offensive that I don't agree with, knock yourself out. But if you want to try prohibit me from saying something offensive to you, you can fuck right off.

It's a fine line. Yes, you have the right to offend others, but not the right to control them.

[-] Isoprenoid@programming.dev 6 points 10 months ago

I know, right? You never see anything like this in the mainstream any more:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NE_kbJQ8r8

[-] the_q@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago
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[-] SeabassDan@lemmy.world 13 points 10 months ago

I'm not really understanding the article. Does it mention he was asked to host this year and declined? It almost seems like he's putting it out there because

A. He's trying to build controversy so that he's asked and can either publicly decline or "relunctantly" accept and say that he only did it under the condition that he could say whatever he wanted.

Or B. He asked and they turned him down so he's saying he never wanted to anyway.

It all sounds fake. He has all the connections he needs to be able to host.

[-] Auzy@beehaw.org 11 points 10 months ago

I'm not sure why anyone watches the Oscars, or cares about them, unless you're somehow involved.

So, whether or not he hosts them.. Whatever.

Get Will smith to co host with Chris Rock, and thats the only time I might consider it.

[-] Rascabin@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago
[-] sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz 3 points 10 months ago

Ricky Gervais hosting the Golden Globes was pretty fun. Current day Ricky Gervais has been missing a lot lately with his comedy.

[-] mateomaui@reddthat.com 6 points 10 months ago
[-] SharkAttak@kbin.social 3 points 10 months ago

Why? Since they are such a joke..

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