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[-] Knitwear@lemmy.world 82 points 10 months ago

Um, can't we let kids be friends?

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 16 points 10 months ago

They could be calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend I suppose. Sometimes even small kids do that

[-] Ferrous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 10 months ago

Which is still very much learned behavior, often the result of an uncle pestering "So little Jimmy, got a girlfriend yet?"

[-] SCB@lemmy.world 27 points 10 months ago

My daughter has had crushes since kindergarten and absolutely no one has asked her if she "has a boyfriend yet"

Kids develop crushes. You don't need to make it weird.

[-] ADHDefy@kbin.social 14 points 10 months ago

I had a little girlfriend when we were in first grade. lol I don't recall anyone ever asking me if I had a girlfriend or anything, and I had plenty of friends that were girls and no one ever teased me about it that I remember. I knew it was okay to be friends with girls, I just had a crush on this one. We played Zelda together and talked on the phone for hours about whatever dumb things first graders talk about, then her family moved to another state. It was my most successful relationship to date. 😂

[-] Ferrous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 10 months ago

Yes, your daughter has had the quintessential American child experience which is most likely going to underscored by taking place in a western-flavored cis heterosexual context. What I'm saying is that it's all relative. Your daughter's relationship experience will be different than an ancient Egyptian, or a Native American, or a Viking. There is nothing "natural" about the way we currently partake in relationships as Americans. And my point is that it is weird to assert "My child is so in love!" Let them express things on their own. Give them that freedom.

[-] SCB@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

Yes, your daughter has had the quintessential American child experience which is most likely going to underscored by taking place in a western-flavored cis heterosexual context

Man if you knew me IRL you'd find this fucking hilarious.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Almost everything we do is learned behaviour. Could be as simple as hearing adults talk about it to each other or calling people someone's girlfriend or boyfriend.

[-] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 1 points 10 months ago

It's most likely taught behavior, IMHO.

[-] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 3 points 10 months ago

Heteronormativity in action.

[-] massa@hachyderm.io 36 points 10 months ago

@The_Picard_Maneuver “why can't someone look at me like this?”

Have you tried GIVING HIM PIZZA? Rs

[-] sbv@sh.itjust.works 15 points 10 months ago

Seriously. It's an entire pizza. And it looks pretty good.

[-] transmatrix@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

Really? Looks like Domino’s to me…

[-] T156@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago

Free pizza is still free pizza.

[-] psivchaz@reddthat.com 1 points 10 months ago

During the pandemic, I decided I needed to be better about supporting local businesses. One of the things I did was switch from Domino's to a local pizzeria. It seemed about equivalent at the time. After 3 years of this, at a kids birthday party, I had Domino's. It is absolute trash by comparison.

However, my kids detect no difference. They also enjoy cardboard like Little Caesars and Cicis. What I'm trying to say is... Kids don't care, pizza is pizza.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 12 points 10 months ago

They will, if you have pepperoni when all they got was plain cheese.

[-] GluWu@lemm.ee 9 points 10 months ago

2 entire pizzas? No wonder homie got the water.

I'm sad that's it's economically infeasible to be in a relationship.

[-] Nanomerce@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

I'm not entirely sure that I would even be able to eat an entire pizza. Kids are truly built different

[-] GluWu@lemm.ee 8 points 10 months ago

I can eat an entire pizza but it's more sad and disgusting than cute.

[-] lemmyman@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

This makes me anxious, my kids would absolutely flip both of those pizza boxes and/or stomp on the pizzas with their random limb flailing carelessness

[-] DaCrazyJamez@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 months ago

To answer the question, you are not holding pizza.

[-] littlebluespark@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Maybe ~~OP~~ "diana" meant the way the kid on the left is looking at the pizza...

[-] gmtom@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Plenty of people would loom at you that way, you just push them away because you're scared of intamacy/ are full of yourself/ aren't ready for that. (Delete as appropriate)

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