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[-] xkforce@lemmy.world 90 points 2 years ago

That only really happens if there is no immediate threat of doom. If there is, I am the most productive person on the face of the Earth but only due to the sheer terror that results from last second procrastination.

[-] 0x4E4F@infosec.pub 10 points 2 years ago

Yeah... homework was done 5 minutes before class starts...

[-] octoperson@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago

"I can do it on the bus!".
Reader, he could not...

[-] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago

I wish i were that fast back then 😁

[-] DavidGarcia@feddit.nl 47 points 2 years ago

it's called executive dysfunction

[-] EatYouWell@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Which should be the name instead of ADHD.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 years ago

To be blunt, the stigma of typicals around adult ADHD is so severe that for most people I just tell them I have an executive function disorder.

It usually confuses them into learning what the issue actually is rather than their perception of what ADHD is.

Look, I'm bad at life because my brain does things wrong, okay?

[-] Jessvj93@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Hey! I do that too! Instead of saying I have trouble committing names/dates/verbal info, I just tell folks I have a short term memory disorder. Which is true! I need to mess up someone's name or an important piece of info like 5 times until I cement it in, with guilt and embarrassment.

[-] folkrav@lemmy.ca 44 points 2 years ago

Then I power through what should have been my whole day of work in 2h30 before going to bed. Then I go try to sleep very late on an adrenaline high, wondering why I tend to burnout, cause I'm so great at this.

Anyway, the medication seemed to have calmed me down a bit on this.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

Oooh. I felt this. My thing is, when facing a deadline or something, procrastinate until I forget about thing, then when I'm reminded the day before, start work at 10pm sharp, stay up until finished, convince myself I'll be fine with only 2 hours of sleep, go to bed, sleep through my alarm, show up several hours late, unbathed and generally in a disorderly state, frantic and panicked.

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 27 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Hey wait... My brain does have hands!

[-] Gormadt 3 points 2 years ago

Likewise but they always seem to get distracted so easily doing mindane things

Maybe if my brain has 2 more hands...

[-] 0x4E4F@infosec.pub 3 points 2 years ago

I always thought it would be interesting if we had 4 hands instead of just 2... and I always felt like I'm missing a hand or two (I use my mouth and legs a lot to hold on to things, lol 😂).

[-] Gormadt 3 points 2 years ago

The amount of times I use any extremity as an additional hand is so often it's silly

Basically as long as I have an anchor point I can and have used everything else: mouth, feet, legs, crooks of my arms, etc

I've been told it can be strange watching me move about when I've got things I'm doing but I ain't gonna stop

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[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I used to chroncially be like this, it was awful. Somehow, somewhere, without outside help I flipped, and now Im organized, efficient and proactive. Marking this spot so I can think about it and come back when I think I know what changed.

[-] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 18 points 2 years ago

You have to tell us, you know that right? I am waiting for this moment for 4 decades.

[-] trafguy@midwest.social 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm in more or less the opposite scenario. I used to be able to actually do shit, then something snapped and it's far more difficult for me to do anything efficiently. I think what snapped was effectively my self confidence. After a period of existential crisis, things stopped feeling so important all of a sudden. So the herculean effort that allowed me to complete all my work and keep up on everything stopped being possible, because it briefly became impossible leading me to recognize how unsustainable that was.

Now I'm in a position where I still try to get what I need to done, but I try not to stress about it so much and I prefer to do what I want. And making myself do what I need to do is partially a matter of medication (Vyvanse) and partially trying to find reasons to enjoy/prefer the tasks that are important for my survival, then capitalizing on that intrigue/excitement.

Basically, I guess it comes down to choosing to accept whatever our current reality is and trying to work from there. There are reasons that I'm fortunate, just as there are reasons others would probably say I'm falling behind in life. Doesn't really matter in the end. All any of us can do is what we can actually do. If we don't allow that to be enough, we'll drive ourselves insane with the dissonance.

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I dont really know. Maybe my post is a good example of it though. I dont know how to complete the task, but I started it anyway. Just did a little bit. Then, having broken the seal, its not seem so hard.

Thats how i approach stuff i have to do. Put it on the list and start it at the same time, under the self-agreement that ill just do a little bit of it then stop.

Rather than 'clean whole house' i start with 'just pick up clothes off bedroom floor'

This removes the mental fear of 'uhhh its going to take forever!'. Once ive done a bit, it becomes clear thar I can just do the whole thing, or at least recognize that its not very hard after all.

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[-] M500@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago

I did that a lot recently, but the past week I decided that I hated spending all day thinking about the tasks more than doing them.

I’ve been forcing myself to just do it and I’ve been getting through it pretty quickly and not having that task loom over me all day.

[-] Tedrow@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago

This feels good when I can actually do it. Most of the time it's just suffering though.

[-] AntEater@discuss.tchncs.de 17 points 2 years ago

[x] I'm in this photo and I don't like it.

[-] rarely@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 years ago

Yes. Meds can help this. Meds can also make the problem worse. As with all drugs, set, setting and dosage,

[-] adam_y@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

Literally procrastination.

[-] Dra@lemmy.zip 11 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

No one in this community wants to hear it, but it is a symptom of personality, and the only way you fix it is with consistent effort to discipline yourself over a long period of time. Therapy is as effective as drugs. It just takes more effort, and people would rather brand themselves as disabled than take small, consistent steps over a long period of time.

[-] ChewTiger@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

ADHD is a real biological disorder, that is a medical fact. Meds are just another tool to help address the issue. I'm not going to explain or argue about biology.

Can people's personalities contribute to their problems? Yes absolutely, nobody is arguing that. You're not wrong about the usefulness of therapy , but that's a pretty dismissive and rude way to go about it. Nobody here is saying therapy isn't helpful.

It seems like you just want to pick an imaginary fight with people who are just looking to find a path to improving themselves.

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[-] HubertManne@kbin.social 10 points 2 years ago

I tend to get something done every day but my weekends get shot because it takes me so long. Im not diagnosed with adhd or anything else but I feel like my life is just a long string of being behind on getting things done.

[-] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 10 points 2 years ago

Yep, and to help it somewhat I've been setting alarms. If I can't get started and am stressing to do the thing, I'm presuming I won't and just take time of till the next activity. That way I end up doing nothing, but not burnt out

[-] HuntressHimbo@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago

I made a meme of this exact phenomenon before my original instance went belly up, can't get it to upload but the text was:

"People say being ADHD doesn't come with superpowers

But can a neurotypical feel the exhaustion of a task without ever getting up to do it?"

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

This is me all day every day recently. I'm stuck.

[-] PunnyName@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Hey, I don't remember giving you permission to post my thoughts.

[-] MycoBro@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Hot take. Don’t use adhd as an excuse to be lazy

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 years ago
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[-] Walop@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 years ago

But your brain does have hands. They are your hands. Your hands are wired directly to your brain.

And yes, there's five things you would have to or want to do, but do not quite know which to start or how you should exactly to do them and you end up doing anything else you are confident with.

[-] pixel_witch@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Me.. right now... Oh god someone send help

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[-] Rud_1UP@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

But that's not caused by ADHD. These days everyone seems to think they have ADHD or some kind of food tolerance. Without knowing what it really means to actually have those.

[-] EatYouWell@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

That's absolutely a symptom of an executive dysfunction disorder, which ADHD is.

[-] offspec@lemmy.nicknakin.com 4 points 2 years ago

How is this not an example of executive function deficit and the associated burnout?

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[-] okamiueru@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

That's a bit reductive. ADHD might explain parts of it, or it might not. The cause here is just assumed.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Executive_dysfunction

Reading that, it cerianly mentions ADHD a lot. Doesn't mean that's the only explanation.

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