They're a Wobbly.
They communicate honestly
They join banter in a comfortable way without using character assassination as an authority/persuasion grab.
They smile at people they meet in a genuine "have a good day" vibe. It lifts people more than you know.
A desire to learn.
- Atheist
- Common sense of humor + loves memes/shitposting
- Loves computers
- Self confident
- Good looking
- Doing (cardio) sports
They are open to the idea that they could be at fault in any given situation but neither always assume they are nor always assume they are not.
I think the way people talk about themselves vs. the way they talk about others is very telling about their personality. Being positive and humble/making fun of oneself while being positive about others is a huge green flag.
Kindness and looking out for others even when they don't have to.
They care about other people
Books. If you go to someone's house and they don't have books, don't fuck them. - John Waters
They are self-aware, willing to change and learn, and have a rational, logical view of things. It's rare to meet people like that, but they are by far the best people. Someone's philosophy on life is probably the best descriptor of a person.
I don't think I've stopped to think what the different flags for people are for me. It's just something I've instinctively known and haven't really thought about
Informs you about stuff proactively and you don't have to pull everything out of them yourself
Likes to garden or do other productive hobbies in the real world. Sorry gamers.
Interested in learning and willing to change their mind when presented with new information.
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