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[-] ComradePorkRoll@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 year ago
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[-] BearJCC@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 1 year ago

They communicate honestly

[-] roo@lemmy.one 15 points 1 year ago

They join banter in a comfortable way without using character assassination as an authority/persuasion grab.

[-] TransplantedSconie@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago

They smile at people they meet in a genuine "have a good day" vibe. It lifts people more than you know.

[-] UnapologeticAnarchist@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

A desire to learn.

[-] WindowsEnjoyer@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago
  • Atheist
  • Common sense of humor + loves memes/shitposting
  • Loves computers
  • Self confident
  • Good looking
  • Doing (cardio) sports
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[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago

They are open to the idea that they could be at fault in any given situation but neither always assume they are nor always assume they are not.

[-] CerealKiller01@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

I think the way people talk about themselves vs. the way they talk about others is very telling about their personality. Being positive and humble/making fun of oneself while being positive about others is a huge green flag.

[-] raichu@hachyderm.io 13 points 1 year ago

Italy and Bulgaria come to mind

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[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 13 points 1 year ago

Kindness and looking out for others even when they don't have to.

[-] BearJCC@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 year ago

They care about other people

[-] vivadanang@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago

Books. If you go to someone's house and they don't have books, don't fuck them. - John Waters

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[-] ThePenitentOne@discuss.online 12 points 1 year ago

They are self-aware, willing to change and learn, and have a rational, logical view of things. It's rare to meet people like that, but they are by far the best people. Someone's philosophy on life is probably the best descriptor of a person.

[-] kristina@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago
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[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago

I don't think I've stopped to think what the different flags for people are for me. It's just something I've instinctively known and haven't really thought about

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[-] redprog@feddit.de 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Informs you about stuff proactively and you don't have to pull everything out of them yourself

[-] DPRK_Chopra@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Likes to garden or do other productive hobbies in the real world. Sorry gamers.

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[-] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Interested in learning and willing to change their mind when presented with new information.

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