Regardless of anything, you are 100% responsible for your actions.

Yes, unfortunately. Also important if you want to be seen a certain way by your people who observe you, and treated with respect. I get those moments of over stimulation, and when I really feel like I'm about to lose control, I literally just tell the people around me that I'm overstimulated and I go find a book to read or something for a bit. Not really a great option in the airport but there are lots of tricks for cooling yourself off and taking yourself out of the moment when it's overwhelming. If I ever poorly self-regulate I get quite frustrated with myself, and I always regret my actions afterwards

I can't speak for autism specifically, I'm on the ADHD and trauma train myself.

If you're experiencing heightened emotions, emotional disregularion, or both, it's pretty important to have a real control over how those emotions present.

It sucks, it's unfair, here we are. Unfortunately to live in a society that doesn't accept you, you have to build certain skill sets. It's certainly better than a lot of people that ignore the issue.

I am autistic and can empathize with this feeling, but I’m not sure I understand what question you’re asking. Could you elaborate?