Yea thats just Lemmy being Lemmy. I have a community on my instance that hasn't updated on lemmy.ml for 12 days, and deleted comments dont get its deletion request sent to the fediverse, Display Names and Profile Description are taking days to update, if it even update at all. New open source projecrs are gonna be buggy. I don't expect this to be fixed for a few months. I don't know if the devs get enough funding to be developing Lemmy full time, or if this is just their hobby and they have to spend most of their time on a job or something. If developing Lemmy is just a hobby, it might take a long time to fix the issues.