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[-] ceenote@lemmy.world 156 points 1 week ago

I want a boy toy

Well, good news, I asked each toy their pronouns and neither responded, so I guess the meds are working. Now, do you want a hot wheels or a barbie?

[-] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 92 points 1 week ago

Those people will eventually grow old and die while their children grow up to be slightly less conservative (on average).

[-] 5ibelius9insterberg@feddit.org 89 points 1 week ago

Progress is coming. One funeral at the time.

[-] lemmyman@lemmy.world 59 points 1 week ago

That's what I thought 20 years ago but today I am not so sure :(

[-] BabyVi@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago

For real, the older I get the more sure I am this is part of an endless struggle.

[-] tetris11@feddit.uk 11 points 1 week ago

I like to think we're 2 steps forward and 1 step back kind of species

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[-] prole 8 points 1 week ago

Right wing propaganda is a helluva drug.

not sure whi said this

Society doesn't change when new ideas are brought up, Society changes when old people die.

It was fucking Max Plank!!!

A new scientific truth does not triumph by convincing its opponents and making them see the light, but rather because its opponents eventually die and a new generation grows up that is familiar with it ...

Close enough

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[-] Rothe@piefed.social 10 points 1 week ago

That is unfortunately not how anything works. These people were young as well once, and that didn't stop them from becoming conservative.

[-] taiyang@lemmy.world 68 points 1 week ago

My boy is really into cars by default, which is funny since I'd 100% be down with Barbies, too. Daughter though, she just wants Legos and jigsaw puzzles... at age 4. She's just not into gendered stuff, she just wants to build.

[-] Opisek@piefed.blahaj.zone 77 points 1 week ago
[-] Mok98@feddit.it 35 points 1 week ago

No she yearns for the skyscrapers

[-] taiyang@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago
[-] gandalf_der_12te 14 points 1 week ago

Hoch- und Tiefbau as we call it in german ... not sure how to translate this ... "building up and down"?

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[-] MrChewy@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

City skylines or factorio when she starts playing video games?

I need to know if she's in my team or the other team (the other team is just way smarter than me, there's no bad blood <3)

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[-] cyclonedusk 63 points 1 week ago

"Please select the toy whose attributes are more likely to statistically correlate with the reproductive caste demographic which has been labeled 'male' by the consensus of Homo Sapiens who speak English."

"Ma'am do you think a college educated sociologist would work at a fast food drive-thru?"

"In this economy? Absolutely, yes."

"..."

"..."

"...okay fair, I'll put the toy car in the bag."

[-] Gregers@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

You didn't need the "in this economy" part tbh

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[-] mika_mika@lemmy.world 58 points 1 week ago

hot wheels are cooler than barbie no matter what gender you are and i need not elaborate any further

[-] Mac@mander.xyz 26 points 1 week ago

I meqn, i agree but they play different games and this is why both are necessary.

[-] its_kim_love 14 points 1 week ago

Hot Wheels are so much fun as an adult.

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[-] nullspace@lemmy.world 55 points 1 week ago

This is the person who also throws a bitch fit when a video game asks them if they want body type a or b in the character creator.

[-] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 45 points 1 week ago

But they happily use their USB type C. Hypocrites

[-] smh@slrpnk.net 33 points 1 week ago

Back when I was a kid, they'd judge your kid and give you whatever they thought corresponded to the kid's genitalia. Even when I heard my mother ask for a car toy I'd end up with a Barbie.

Being constantly disappointed by Barbie toys may have been my first hint I wasn't a girl.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago

Boys can like barbies too. We can acknowledge that gender stereotyping kid's interests was wrong, while acknowledging that their interests don't always define their gender.

[-] wholookshere 9 points 1 week ago

As a trans woman that played with Barbie's in secret as a kid....

We can acknowledge that stereotyping toys is dumb, while also acknowledging that kids like me knew those stereotypes, and did it anyways not knowing why.

It's great to point out its stupid. But is comes really fucking close to denying trans people the signs they were trans young, even we didn't even know it.

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[-] 4grams@awful.systems 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

No shit, my boy wanted a Barbie when he was little, so he had a Barbie. He also had Legos, and played with blocks, board games and eventually video games. Let kids play with whatever the fuck they want to, they are exploring.

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[-] smh@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 week ago

Yes, but I didn't like Barbie toys. That was my first hint I didn't fit into the gender box that had been prepared for me. I'm not going to retcon my experiences at the age of 4 to fit into a modern concept of how I should have figured out my gender.

[-] architect@thelemmy.club 8 points 1 week ago

That was me, too. I ended up just tossing this whole gender concept out.

I have to say, the hot wheels were hot wheels and the Barbies were ugly statues. One was superior.

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[-] Zier@fedia.io 27 points 1 week ago

Do I have to order food to get a boy toy?

[-] cornshark@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

No there are other ways to get one, but food certainly helps

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[-] JakenVeina@midwest.social 27 points 1 week ago

If only actually DOING this wouldn't get your ass fired.

[-] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 9 points 1 week ago

I would argue with ma boss "i don't know which is supposed to be a boy toy to be honest, we only have hot wheels and barbies"

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[-] charokol@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

This is a confusing conversation. Why couldn’t they say Hot Wheels?

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 11 points 1 week ago

Simple solution.

Put a Ken toy in the box.

[-] 7uWqKj@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

You know what she means, just give her the car and be done with it, take your entitled world improvement bullshit elsewhere.

[-] VoteNixon2016 24 points 1 week ago

Nothing says "entitled" like working at a fast food chain

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[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 23 points 1 week ago

ooooh, look mom, a reactionarism

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[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 23 points 1 week ago

Spoken like someone who never worked a counter. Being literal to customers is one of the few "entitlements" you have in that position

[-] BoosBeau@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago

Aw, having some big feelings today?

[-] strawberry_enjoyer42 18 points 1 week ago

Oh, so you're one of those customers.

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[-] prole 17 points 1 week ago

entitled

I'd love for you to go into more detail about what you meant be this

[-] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago

no

say which toy you want or gtfo

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[-] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

And if the franchise has policies against gendering toys?

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[-] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 8 points 1 week ago
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