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Let's think positive... what's gone well recently?

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[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 9 points 2 weeks ago

My passports came back with my shiny new 3-year visa. This means I can make update my plane tickets with the new information and can get the rail tickets to Changsha for the leg out on my trip to Cambodia in 11 days. (Well, the actual trip to Cambodia starts in two weeks, but SO and I are spending a few days in Changsha as well.)

[-] prism 8 points 2 weeks ago

The US govt issued me a passport with the correct gender marker on it!

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Hell yeah!!

[-] Pipster 7 points 2 weeks ago

Big win today for me, I've been trying to lose weight for a very particular goal and I just reached my (first) target weight I had been aiming for! Needed to make sure it was "official" so was done on one of those fancy scales that can somehow work out fat percentages and muscle mass etc.

Still plenty of work to go but getting past that first checkpoint feels great!

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Congrats!! That first goal reached can feel like the hardest. You should feel proud of yourself!!

[-] DaniNatrix@leminal.space 6 points 2 weeks ago

I wore a skirt I made to work for the first time this week! Been sewing for years but finally built up enough confidence to wear my own pieces to the office.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

That's really cool! I'm always so impressed with people who can make clothes. Do you post your projects at all? I'd love to see it!

[-] DaniNatrix@leminal.space 3 points 1 week ago

Thank you!! I'm trying to be more fully myself at work, it's challenging at times for a recovering fawner hahaha

I have this fairly crappy selfie I sent to my friend yesterday:

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

It looks lovely and you look lovely in it! Florals on a dark background is so 90s to me, I love it!!

[-] thesingingsea@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

I got to try out my chosen name at a convention over the weekend.

I was a little worried it would feel insincere or forced compared to my given name, or that i wouldn't respond to it. But it felt sooo right. And i effortlessly recognized and responded to it too!

[-] Moxie 3 points 2 weeks ago

I had six inches taken off my hair today so it falls just a bit lower than chest-length now and got lots of cute layers added. My new stylist did a great job and I'm thinking of going back to her and getting some rose gold highlights. Kinda lots of maintenance but it would be fun! Cutting so much is kinda scary with long hair but it was so worth it!

[-] birdwing 3 points 2 weeks ago

Finding a study to do!

this post was submitted on 08 Jul 2026
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