Whenever someone rates people like that on these green texts, often than not, they're the problem. Also did the OP just want someone to take care of him like a child? 2.5/10 too whiny
Well yeah, but the rest of the post is just him elaborating on how he was the problem
Everyone just wants their bangmaid
Is he sure he wasn’t dating his mom?
The order of his priorities us also interesting.
Well that is the prime target
Often times the chubby girl was the big titty goth girl you were always looking for.
The real big titty goth girlfriend is the friends we made along the way.
Well yeah, were people expecting big titty goth gfs to be skinny?
I think that's the jackpot many are looking for, skinny with big tits.
Yeah well they’re rare and probably not willing to put up with most people’s crap. I’m glad I have realistic tastes
Fundamentally, this is a problem that has to do with rating women, and that too purely based on their external appearance.
Skill issue gg
Suck it up as a life lesson and move on.
Yet another "problem" polyamory solves
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Just like that
Polyamory is wrong! It's either polyphilia or multiamory, you never mix Greek and Latin.
I'm sure the Greeks wouldn't mind mixing with the Romans in a big polyamorous puddle
I don't make the rules
What's poly/multi about maintaining a single base language?
Disrespecting your partners and only seeing what they can do for you is not fixed by polyamory
I was referring to the problem of having to choose, not the problem of the guy being a fragile douche
Yeah it just makes the consequences of your poor relationship habits much worse
I’m poly and I still have to ensure someone is attractive to me and make sure I have good interpersonal connections with them before dating. Beyond the empathy aspects it’s just a disaster to have a girlfriend you love and a girlfriend you’re more attracted to. That’s like intentionally inducing jealousy
One of my favorite things about polyamorous people is how they can never fucking shut their goddamn mouths and trying to insert their bullshit everywhere.
It's like they're always trying to convince everyone as well as themselves.
That's a bit reductive isn't it? I'm all for consensual and open polyamory, but what problem, exactly, is solved in this by polyamory? If either party wants monogamy, which is a fairly safe assumption in the world today, then the polyamory just becomes lying, and that doesn't help anyone.
If you assume lying is involved, then that's not polyamory, it's cheating.
The important thing to understand here is that monogamy is a human construct, encouraged by people with self-serving agendas. It had to be learned. It can be unlearned.
Right. The reductive part is assuming this problem would be solved by polygamy, when realistically there's nothing at all showing that's the case, except that there's a guy who wants multiple women for different reasons. We only know that he wants that, but nothing of the motives and desires of the others, and thus it's reductive to say "polygamy fixes this".
Monogamy is a pair bonding strategy as old as humans. It developed at roughly the same time as polyamorous strategies. There's a strong body of evidence that it became a very prominent strategy around 10-20k years ago, especially in areas with resource strains.
If you want to have multiple partners, by all means, do so, but don't pretend it's some construct. It's a sexual selection strategy hardwired into many different species, including humans.
It just happens to coexist with polyamorous strategies in our species.
If it was hard-wired, it would be impossible to unlearn. It is possible to unlearn. This is proof it's not hard-wired, it's conditioned by society.
It's no more conditioned by society than polyamory. Animals exhibit both strategies. You seem to be conflating institutions like marriage with sexual selection.
Sure it solves the problem of having to choose between 2 options while introduces an endless stream of discussions of solving issues that come up. If you're bored and want to constantly discuss about the meta of your life, of your priorities and of your boundaries is indeed perfect
Those "issues" come up in any relationship. The difference is monogamists have built-in entitlement.
Dude, issues like this don’t. I’m happily poly and have been in two stable relationships for several years. Polyamory is awesome and also not for everyone, but above all else it’s not a solution to any relationship problems beyond “I wish I was able to have multiple relationships”. It’s like how having kids will solve the relationship problem of wanting kids, but if you misdiagnosed you’re about to have a very difficult time.
Yeah I never said I'm a monogamist but truth is, these issues are multiplied when more people are involved. Even how you decide to split your time is prone to multiple issues. Claiming poly is easier and automatically solves problems is naive.
I keep ending up with type two girls who don't give a shit, always dreamed I'd be with a type one who cared about nerd shit and more importantly me.
Meet girls doing nerd shit. It’s what’s always worked for me
This. Plus gender ratio may be skewed more toward men in a lot of nerd hobbies, but the bar is loooooooww. Just have good hygiene, don't be too weird and awkward, and don't be a total manbaby like the OP and you're better then 90% of your competition.
fuck you, fuck your old gf, new gf, fuck y'all.
Why this fucking world can 'tbe simpler...
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