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When I get a lack of sleep (or especially multiple nights of bad sleep), I often have a splitting headache the next day that makes me unfunctional and worsens until I get more sleep. Other people I'm with have the exact same sleeping routines and never get any headaches, and can still function despite being tired. What's wrong with me?

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[-] kabukimeow@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Nothing is wrong with you in that getting a headache due to lack of sleep is pretty common. Happens to me sometimes. How easily and from which things you get headaches really depends on the individual. But you should try pain meds if you haven't already. They could help you be functional for the rest of the day.

[-] PlogLod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

To be honest, I think when it happens it's too painful for any pain meds to work unless they were super strong like opiates, and even then. Basic pain meds do nothing. Sleep really is the only fix I've discovered... also it's always localised on the right side of my head, never the left.

[-] kabukimeow@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

You could always see a doctor about it, such pain is a valid reason. And of course, even without headache, it's good for your health to maintain a good sleep schedule

[-] Chee_Koala@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Hey! For context: I have migraines sometimes, less and less as I age it appears (almost middle aged now).

Just because 'basic' pain medication does not help you, it doesn't mean that none will. Paracetamol will do nothing for my migraines, but ibuprofen helps a ton. I even have liquid caps now so it works faster, 10/15minutes as opposed to 30/50 minutes.

When I spoke to my doctor after I had an episode that left me crying in the shower ( and punched through the ibuprofen like I had taken pain-enhancers somehow) about other pain medication, he mentioned the family of triptans. The triptan he prescribed (sumatriptan?? I forgot the exact name) me makes me a bit sedated ( yellow sticker meds in EU, can drive but extra caution), but at least it helps. Anything to lighten the load :-) . Hope this helps you find your path away from the pain.

[-] thews@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I still have some triptans, a couple different ones in the medicine cabinet. I can go a year without thinking i might need one. They make me feel like my brain is starved for oxygen or something like that.

They do work, but if hydration, tylenol, or ibuprofen will help I'd rather use them.

[-] qwertyqwertyqwerty@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Some people don't require the same amount of sleep to function. I sometimes go weeks only sleeping 4-6 hours a night without being too drained, while my wife is exhausted if she gets less than 8 hours of sleep for a single night. Also, some people need a similar sleep schedule nightly while others can be sleep deprived on the weekdays and make up for the deficit on the weekends.

[-] PlogLod@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I did read about a long-sleeper gene and a short-sleeper gene, which made me curious if I could be a long-sleeper

[-] qwertyqwertyqwerty@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I believe my wife read an article relating to this. I'm squarely in the short-sleeper side of things.

[-] Cyclist@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

The long-term effects of sleep deprivation are devastating, dementia being the main problem. Check out some of the research on the subject.

[-] qwertyqwertyqwerty@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

While this sounds scary, I don't know what I am supposed to do to address the issue. I can't force myself to sleep an extra 3-4 hours a night. I just wake up and can't fall back asleep.

[-] Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Plus, telling us that a lack of sleep is going to be doom to us later doesn't help us sleep at night, right?

[-] thews@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I am on a cycle right now where I can't sleep without ambien and 300mcg melatonin. I've struggled with falling and/or staying asleep my whole life. My brain will calm down some and ill taper off of the ambien again at some point.

Besides the long term health, i am just not a pleasure to be around if i run on no sleep.

[-] Zeroc00l@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Different people need different amounts of sleep to function and be healthy, but you can't "make up for the deficit". If your body needs 8 hours per day and you sleep for 4 hours one night and 12 the next, your body doesn't net it out. (Just using 8 hours as an example, it could be different)

[-] qwertyqwertyqwerty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

From my understanding, the science for and against this is still being researched. I know it's not a 1:1 "catch-up" period, but I believe that you can somewhat balance your sleep debt over the course of several days to some effectiveness.

[-] Rylyshar@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Another possibility — are you drinking enough water? I will wake up with a migraine if I’m dehydrated. Unfortunately, as you age and the bladder loses resiliency, it becomes a balance of enough water to not get dehydrated, but not so much that you’re waking up at 2 am to pee.

[-] morphballganon@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

You might be overly sensitive to caffeine. I can't have caffeine after, say, 1pm, or it will make my sleep restless. Maybe try no caffeine after breakfast.

Another possibility is maybe you'd do better working nights. Then you sleep during the day.

[-] PlogLod@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I never drink caffeine, maybe I should :)

Appreciate your advice, but sometimes I'd actually rather go on little sleep if I were able to function properly. The pursuit of actually getting proper sleep is sort of a whole different ball game hahah, but sometimes I'd rather not try to if that makes sense, so that I have more hours to get things done.

[-] vodkasolution@feddit.it 7 points 1 year ago

It's the way your body uses to tell you to sleep more. I usually have a stomach ache

[-] thews@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

For a decent chunk of my early 20s i had to take amitriptyline a couple of hours before bedtime to prevent migraines. It also makes you sleep on cloud 9. I was on call at nights and there was no snapping out of the sleep pull, thats the only scenario I can think that it may not help.

Talk to a doctor about it. I have had a couple of brain scans and don't have anything up there that looks bad. It just happens to some people.

[-] PlogLod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm sorry you were going through that, I take it by your use of past tense you no longer have that issue? If so I don't suppose you know what could have fixed it? Hope you're doing better now :)

[-] thews@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah I think it went away at the start of my 30s. Definitely glad it's not a worry anymore.

I can still get stress or dehydration headaches, but no constant small one that breaks through to eye stabbing with my heartbeat.

I have heard it is common for them to go away by 30s.

[-] PlogLod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Very interesting, I really would like to know more about why that happens. A few people here said their migraines went away as they got older.

[-] TheActualDevil@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Low blood pressure, low blood sugar, maybe dehydration? When you miss out on sleep, are you in bed trying to sleep and unable? I know for me, low blood sugar will give me headaches, and if I'm awake longer with less sleep my body has expended more energy than normal and needs that extra fuel to function properly. I always wake up starving if I was up late without eating later. When you sleep, your body, obviously uses less stored nutrients to operate. If you're not changing your routine with eating and drinking and you miss out on sleep, you may need water/food. Or it could be stress from lack of sleep tensing you up or you're sleeping at a weird angle because your schedule is off and your body didn't use it's muscle memory and get you into a better position.

Basically, you're going to want to pay attention to the things you're doing (or not doing) besides losing sleep. Eating/drinking, physical exertion, how does the rest of your body feel when you wake up?

[-] PlogLod@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks for the tips. I think I have lower blood pressure in general, and I get a lot of neck pain. My sleeping position is awkward and I can't really get to sleep without being in a fetal position, and lying on my left side because lying the other way hurts my neck. That could have something to do with it, I'm not sure.

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