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[-] OwOarchist@pawb.social 15 points 3 weeks ago

Isn't this just typical 'damsel in distress' shit? Why do you need a new term like 'fridging' to describe it?

[-] crpknkr@lemmy.world 23 points 3 weeks ago

Because in the Green Lantern comic it came from, the hero's girlfriend got dismembered and stuffed in his fridge. Killing off female characters for the sake of easy drama is especially prevalent in superhero comics, extending way before this specific issue (see Gwen Stacy to start). But this incident is what prompted fantastic writer Gail Simone to coin the phenomenon's comic-related incarnation.

[-] yeahiknow3@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Superhero comics are the American cheese of written entertainment.

[-] Jyek@sh.itjust.works 22 points 3 weeks ago

Damsel in distress is where the woman needs saving.

Fridging is where the woman has faced near or fully irreparable harm or death and the hero feels a need to avenge her as a result.

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 15 points 3 weeks ago

That's only half of it. The point is that a woman is killed/harmed and her story cut short, simply to start the male hero's story.

[-] RedSeries 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Totally agree bodily harm applies to damsel in distress. I think it's not the entire focus unlike fridging though.

[-] Glytch@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

It's a bit of a square/rectangle thing. All of the women who get fridged are/were damsels, but not all damsels get fridged.

[-] RedSeries 2 points 3 weeks ago

Oh, I think it works as a subtrope really well that way

[-] baines@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 weeks ago

and rob roying is when the woman is raped and the guy has to fight a sword duel against a better British sword fighter but uses tricks to win

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago

It was called fridging after one character literally had his girlfriend murdered and stuffed in a fridge. There was a lovingly rendered discovery scene.

Women dying for male character impetus is very different from "damsel in distress" Btw

[-] RedSeries 13 points 3 weeks ago

I think "fridging" implies more bodily harm (or threat thereof) than the traditional "damsel in distress" which is often a kidnapping or often a form of arranged marriage, though bodily harm is part of both. Either way, tropes change and can get new names over time, so I guess this might be a more modern term for an old trope with some new stuff added?

[-] hesh@quokk.au 6 points 3 weeks ago

It reminds me of Mr Freeze from Batman, who is motivated to save his literally fridged wife

[-] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

Years of media have taught me that damsel-in-distress could easily be a woman tied to train tracks with an oncoming train or about to plunge off a cliff in a run away stagecoach. I disagree that damsel-in-distress is exclusive to non-bodily harm.

[-] domdanial@reddthat.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

Both of these examples are "imminent danger" where she hasn't been harmed yet, and can still be saved. Fridging would be if the hero discovers her already run over or walks in right as she's shot or whatever.

[-] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

I could see that. But that’s not what the meme says.

[-] domdanial@reddthat.com 1 points 3 weeks ago

True it says facing

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 11 points 3 weeks ago

This one particularly bugs me when the woman is shown to be a capable, independent badass in her own right, but just as her story is getting going, as @Lumidaub@feddit.org put it, her story is cut short.

So that the "real hero" can start his.

It is so maddening when it happens, and while it is not exclusively the domain of American superhero comics, it is by far worst right there.

[-] ech@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago

One of my biggest gripes with the Guardians of the Galaxy Gunn-ification. In the comics, the characters are actually competent, if uncouth and often anti-heroes. The movies turn them all into bumbling idiots, and Gamora, a no-bullshit, "will walk through a star, burn her skin off, then knock you out afterwards" badass, is a "soft-on the inside" love interest that gets fridged for not not one, but two guys. That scene with Thanos in Infinity War still pisses me off.

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 3 weeks ago

I stopped watching Marvel flicks at about the time of Black Panther, so I know only the one GoftG flick, and had no idea who any of the characters are anyway. :D

[-] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Y'all should check out this great book "The Refrigerator Monologues. Its set in the after life for" copy right distinct" versions of heroines that were harmed for a male characters story. Such as Harley Quinn and Gwen Stacy, It's honestly a fun read despite being such grim commentary. Throughly enjoyed.

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