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[-] P00ptart@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I'm 40 and never thought I had ADHD. When I was a kid my teachers wanted my shitbag mother to get me tested but she never would because "I'd be drugged up and not the real me" bitch, the undrugged me is a fucking disaster. I didn't realize I had ADHD until about a year ago, and only because I identified so much with ADHD memes and started looking into it. The real reason she wouldn't get me tested was because she didn't want a "weird kid" and I've suffered my whole life because of it, not knowing or understanding that there was a reason behind my problems. I thought I was just a shitty, broken person.

[-] katja 54 points 4 days ago

I personally think that it isn't so much people that are increasingly expressing ADHD traits, it's the world that's more and more unforgiving of those traits. Everything is monitored and optimized and the volume of info we're supposed to process every day is massive. We're not built for this world and it shows. If we fail to fit the mold that produces the most value for stock holders we are deemed defective. We're not. We're just human.

[-] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 28 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Great article! Honestly I believe one of the aspects of the collapse we are undergoing is an attempted reduction of neurodivergence in humanity. The same process that is causing a loss of biodiversity and the loss of diversity in human languages in general I think is also violently selecting against neurodiversity in humans.

Of course you can't quite stop all the neurodiverse kids being born yet (genetics is trying to get us there as fast as possible though!), but you can make their life living hell and force them to mask so much they become lost in layers of masking and trauma.

The thing is, ADHD is unintentionally one of the most political disabilities as it smashes the cornerstone of expressed willpower being the basis for judgement in most societies and leaves systems of selection rudderless without the sharp distinctions expressed willpower falsely hallucinates and accentuates. Further one of the major way social safety nets and the shared collective wealth of societies have been hollowed out is by offloading immense amounts of Executive Function requirements to people navigating systems and then aggressively pretending Executive Function isn't a limited, exhaustible capacity.

People have had their basic understanding of focus lobotomized by tech narratives (the concept of "attention span" abstracted from context is meaningless for one) and we now collectively pretend it isn't an act of labor to focus and use Executive Function. This forces ADHD squarely into a broader discussion of collapse and enshittification.

[-] oeuf@slrpnk.net 5 points 4 days ago

Epic comment. I feel like there is stuff to unpack here - gonna bookmark this and spam you with more comments later if I can remember.

[-] definitemaybe@lemmy.ca 9 points 4 days ago

[do a task later] if I can remember

ADHD forum

[-] okamiueru@lemmy.world 14 points 4 days ago

It might seem like it, especially for late diagnoses, but I don't think the ratio of individuals with ADHD is increasing.

They are getting hit with an information overload unlike anything previous generations have had to deal with. And, what was possible to cope with earlier in life, now in mid-life, results in a choice of either a mental breakdown from exhaustion, or medication that helps deal with the symptoms.

There are some technological and cultural trends that exasperates the issue, especially short form social media, which I think governments have failed at protecting the younger generation from. It's not like it's an easy thing to fix. Try banning sugar from the sugar addicted children who's sense of identify and self worth is made out of sugar. Not to mention capitalistic forces salivating over how dirt cheap and easy it is to manipulate them en mass.

[-] Zozano@aussie.zone 15 points 4 days ago

I have been diagnosed as an adult. I suffer from imposter syndrome.

"Maybe I don't have ADHD?"

Paradoxically this is normal for someone with ADHD.

But really, how do I even know at this point? I've been taking Vyvanse for years.

I don't even know if I'm more productive because my life has changed dramatically since getting my diagnosis.

Shit's fakked.

[-] GlenRambo@jlai.lu 9 points 4 days ago

Sound like my family but with antidepressants.

"I dont think the pills work, life's just better now things are going so well, I'll probably go off the meds"

[-] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 days ago

I literally just went though this. I quit taking my adderall for about a month.

I kept seeing posts online about having adhd and how relatable it is. Ironically, I also saw articles about the rise is diagnoses and whether the increase is real or over-diagnosed. I started to question if I saw some random post, related to it then got a diagnosis for something I may not have. I was thinking I didn’t deserve for the meds to work bc I didn’t really have ADHD. Honestly, it doesn’t even make sense to me now lol

You know, just your basic imposter syndrome spiraling.

I thought I was okay but over the month I was feeling more and more stressed out at work. Suddenly, I had 150 unread messages in my inbox and I realized I wasn’t completing my work. Before going off the medication I had just a handful of emails.

Back on my medication last week and I’ve already halved that stack of emails. My bf can tell when I take my medication and when I don’t. He notices I start interrupting a lot more than I when I don’t take it.

[-] oeuf@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I have been diagnosed as an adult. I suffer from imposter syndrome.

"Maybe I don't have ADHD?"

This is partly what prevents me seeking a diagnosis.

[-] crunchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago

It took me almost 4 years to seek a diagnosis after learning what ADHD actually was because I kept questioning myself.

When I finally did, the provider paused in the middle of the evaluation and said normally we'd have you get some responses from your family and coworkers too, but that won't be necessary since you clearly have it.

Got put on medication and the difference in being able to do even the most basic things is like night and day.

[-] oeuf@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 days ago

Thanks, that's good to know. And have you experienced any side-effects of the medication while taking it or after coming off it?

[-] crunchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

A bit of an elevated pulse for a short while immediately after taking it. Suppressed appetite, though I'd describe it more as "forgetting" that I'm hungry. Like sometimes it doesn't register enough for me to get up and eat something, which has resulted in some weight loss, but I'm also in much better physical shape now.

None of which outweigh the true mental clarity I get and the lowered barrier to task initiation.

I've never gone off of it, but every once in a while I take a day or two off. Mostly if I'm anticipating a big meal or a lot of physical activity that day.

[-] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 days ago

Honestly, talk to your doctor. Tell them why you think you might have it and why you’re worried you might be imagining it.

They’ll give you a test, and you’ll be evaluated by someone who is trained to tell if you might have it or not.

I didn’t ask about it for a long time bc the same reason but life has been so much more manageable now.

[-] oeuf@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 days ago

Thank you.

What has made it more manageable for you, if you don't mind me asking?

[-] dil@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 days ago

Awareness, I didnt even know I could possibly have it til a friend told me I reminded him of his friend with adhd, I just assumed since I got good grades til college (having to learn to study and force myself all of a sudden was rough) I didn't have it, since ppl that had it did bad in school (tv had taught me)

[-] Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Because people are addicted to stimulants. I say this as having been diagnosed by multiple doctors. I 110% have adhd. My mom, my brother and all the other family members that take a stimulant do not. Especially my brother. He just likes to go fast

[-] crunchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago

Maybe if stimulants were so addictive I wouldn't forget to take my medication so often.

Other stimulants though, like caffeine and nicotine, yeah for sure. I self-medicated with cigarettes and Mountain Dew for decades before going on Adderall.

[-] optissima@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 days ago

I wonder if there's any outside pressure to go fast and not stop 🤔

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