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[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 136 points 6 days ago

We do that but sit next to each other and you know, talk

[-] metallic_substance@lemmy.world 56 points 6 days ago

Why talk when you both are already looking at your phones?

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 22 points 6 days ago

I really try to make my relationship such that I would never have to directly interact with my partner, but there's still some work to be done 😔

[-] metallic_substance@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

I suggest a zoom call with your partner to sort it out (cameras off, of course)

[-] TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today 11 points 6 days ago

I mean, why waste the limited time I have a day with my SO by scrolling together through an endless list of movies and shows. Both of us have the attention span of a beagle, so sporadically swiping through a list during the workday would actually be preferable.

For me it wouldn't be about avoiding conflict, just a way to remember something that I would otherwise forget as soon as we started looking for something to watch.

[-] moakley@lemmy.world 24 points 6 days ago

See, my wife and I will go back and forth, checking various streaming services and vetoing each other's picks for the full duration of movie night.

Now when she asks what I want to watch, my first reply is always, "Literally anything except the Netflix menu."

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 6 points 5 days ago

We discuss the options and often end up talking about something else. So even scrolling through options is nice together time. Unless the actual goal was to see a movie, then that method isn't that great lol

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[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 9 points 5 days ago

What the actual fuck?

Where is my pitchfork?

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[-] somewhiteguy@lemmy.world 39 points 6 days ago

Can it not just be for movies, but for food places as well?

[-] Today@lemmy.world 22 points 6 days ago

We made a backup - a taqueria. If 5 options get axed we have tacos. No regrets!

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[-] Blubber28@lemmy.world 30 points 6 days ago

It exists, it's called Handshake

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 16 points 6 days ago

All you need is a firm handshake and putting on the LOTR Extended Edition again

[-] Pringles@sopuli.xyz 4 points 6 days ago

Always works, can confirm

[-] MIXEDUNIVERS@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Is there a Open source App? That has the samefunctionns?

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[-] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 days ago

Not to be confused with the Handshake app for Jobs/Internships

[-] Triumph@fedia.io 11 points 6 days ago

Also not to be confused with handjobs.

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[-] IzzyScissor@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago

One person picks three (movies, restaurants, events, etc.) that they would be happy with.

The other person selects one out of the three.

Alternate.

[-] Sturgist@lemmy.ca 21 points 5 days ago

We tried that. My wife said my hours of research into restaurants was "low effort" so now she picks three and I choose

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago

You pick by aggregating multiple factors and weight them by probability.

She picks by vibe.

[-] GraniteM@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

We do one more layer, so it's called 5-3-1.

Person A picks five options.

Person B eliminates two of them.

Person A selects one of the three remaining.

We alternate who gets to pick the five.

[-] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Yes and a genre filter, please.

[-] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 9 points 5 days ago

I just have a massive list of movies and shows I want to watch, and I run it by my wife. She usually just tells me to pick one. Then the burden is mine again.

[-] balsoft@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 days ago

Let me introduce you to shuf | head 1. This is literally what picks the next movie for us. If either of us are unhappy, we just remove the movie from the list and try again.

[-] sqw@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 6 days ago

on letterboxd you can filter a user's watchlist for matches in your own or filter out stuff you've already seen. handy.

[-] hOrni@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

Given the age of thirst post, I'm pretty sure the app already exists.

[-] P1k1e@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

This would never work. We enjoy a lot of the same stuff, but sometimes we have to justify certain movies to each other. Like "The Cabin in the Woods". She thought it was classic horror and would never swipe right of her own volition. Likewise, you think I woulda swept right on "Twilight"? OF CORSE I WOULD! Swipe right on every movie I see cuz I love her and we watch whatever she wants.

But this way we never watch my movies

[-] vithigar@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Needs a third option then. Swipe right for "would watch", left for "wouldn't watch", but also swipe up for "I strongly endorse and believe you'd enjoy it if you give it a chance".

Maybe also a fourth. Swipe down for "absolutely not, I know you really love this movie but I just can't watch more Jason Statham."

[-] bignate31@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Double tap for "I see everything with Jason Statham just on principle"

[-] Randelung@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

Awesome, more isolation.

[-] Michal@programming.dev 7 points 6 days ago

We used an app like this to pick a baby name

[-] credo@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

I’ve actually thought of this as a new dating service. Too bad I’m lazy.

Get after it someone who needs an SO.

[-] Doctorbllk@slrpnk.net 5 points 5 days ago

The app "Queue" does this, as well as the other 50 mentioned in this thread

[-] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

this actually sounds like a really good idea to vibe code

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[-] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 days ago

Good Lord - even couples are no longer able to talk to each other. They need an app?

[-] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

So, basically Mojo Upgrade, but for movies instead of sex?

[-] FridaySteve@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

What if you just let the AI you've been training for free all this time match you automatically? It knows what you watch, what you like on your Facebook and Instagram, it reads your DMs and text messages, it even knows what ads you're likely to pause the longest on before you scroll past. It knows you better than you know yourself.

[-] krypt@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago
[-] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 6 points 6 days ago

You'll pass on using it, but it won't pass on using you.

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