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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

I hate my stupid mental issues so much, I think people hate me and if my S/O's tone slightly changes, I think he hates me or I did something wrong and then I feel manipulative. I get angry so quickly, IDK what the hell is wrong with me but I hate it. I know I'm just a teen (18) but still. I wish I was normal.

I wish if my S/O didn't respond in a certain way or a dryer way that he hated me, I don't act this way with anyone else, I just think if he stops showing affection (because he always does) that he hates me. I'm so damn manipulative, ugh.

Please be nice and listen. This is a rant, I don't really need advice or to be criticized. I already know I'm messed up mentally.

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[-] RicoPeru 8 points 1 month ago

not diagnosing, but do you by any chance have bpd or rejection sensitive dysphoria?

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 month ago

Possibly BPD, I’m going to ask a professional for sure

[-] RicoPeru 3 points 1 month ago

yayyy, ok!!

[-] RicoPeru3@lemmings.world 3 points 1 month ago

by the way, (same person) i have possible bpd and im a year older than u are

[-] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 month ago

You’re aware of the problem, so that’s a step in the right direction. Imagine what it’s like for those people who just find themselves in trouble all the time, but have no idea what’s going on.

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 month ago

Fair enough, that’s why im trying to work on it, thanks! I hardly ever express anger towards people, I just rant about it on like a journal or something

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

I feel you. I have a lot of problems with my mental health as well. I hate the person I am. It's like why can't I just be normal? I have two major personality disorders as well as ADHD and dyslexia.

I hate how fucking stupid I am. I am an actual mentally removed woman with literally no future. I have no qualifications so the only jobs I can get are shitty mcjobs for teens. It brings me so much shame. I deserve to be intelligent and have more possibilities. I see other people who are rich and famous and it makes me so mad because I don't understand why they get all the luck and I don't. I put in so much effort and all I get is some crap job at Burger King and a even crappier car.

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 month ago

I'm so sorry 🫂

Life can be so cruel to innocent people, I don't get it at all.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago
[-] ILoveDurians@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago

I feel the same way. This isn't normal?

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 month ago

It may be, actually

[-] Beebabe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I know you said you don’t want advice. I’m sorry for what you’re going through. The mental health things of course won’t solve themselves. Don’t let yourself suffer, take some space and self care immediately as these feelings start to get big, by now you know your early warning signs. Thats not meant to be advice, it came out that way, sorry about that. It’s a strategy I use to help people with moods that fluctuate rapidly. I hope you have warm calm feelings going forward. These things aren’t your fault.

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