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[-] RedditAdminsSuckIt@lemmy.world 46 points 2 weeks ago

Oh god, I feel like I’m going to be massacred.

K-pop

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 19 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Isn't it basically the same as back when western boybands were popular, just with more internet? I suppose I don't quite get those, either, but it's not that hard to figure out why these groups are so appealing to many girls and women.

[-] RedditAdminsSuckIt@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

That’s the thing, I don’t know

Is it something more than just Korean pop groups? Is it a fetish? This is the most I’ve thought about it honestly because some of the fans just made it nuts.

I worked at a B&N and the calls I would get for exclusive versions… 12 versions of the same album except for some trading card inside or something.

I find it bizarre but I just don’t understand

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 8 points 2 weeks ago

"fetish" might be a bit much, but I think the somewhat effeminate style of the men in these groups is a very welcome contrast to the kinds of male musicians who are popular with boys+men. They also heavily feature dancing, which is a lot more popular with women than men, too. And it's probably specifically about korean groups because korea has a large boygroup+girlgroup industry and being east-asian they have a novelty-bonus (dare I say exoticism-bonus?) compared to western groups.

[-] RedditAdminsSuckIt@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Fetish was the wrong word. Desirable I guess is what I meant to lead with.

You have had the longest conversation with me about k-pop. I get it a little bit more than I ever meant to.

I begrudgingly thank you lol

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[-] nightofmichelinstars@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 weeks ago

There's good and bad kpop, like there's good and bad of most genres.

[-] angelmountain@feddit.nl 39 points 2 weeks ago

Pick-up trucks for anyone that's not a farmer, construction worker or dirtbike rider.

They are so dumb and impractical for normal driving. I don't get it.

I believe there was some tax-benefit for them in the US at some point..? Then it makes a tiny bit if sense i guess.

But what's even dumber: cross-overs. Worst of both worlds.

[-] Blackout@fedia.io 14 points 2 weeks ago

I love my small car but it's getting impossible to drive anymore when the LED headlights of these trucks are literally at my eye level blinding everything. They are a danger and the only way out it seems is to join them and get above the lights.

[-] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

This is basically Florida. Tons of massive trucks on the roads, all driven by assholes that I will judge absolutely by their truck alone.

[-] uselessRN@lemm.ee 7 points 2 weeks ago

I agree with pick ups. The issue has been that bigger pick ups are generally exempt from fuel efficiency mandates resulting in manufacturers making bigger and bigger pick ups. They don't make compact pick ups anymore. Add in America has some fascination with owning trucks. I'm actually gonna disagree on crossovers. For most people I agree they're impractical. But they're better than SUVs and pick ups. Most people actually need a mini van or wagon but we just stopped making those

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[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 25 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Taylor Swift. I actually like her music. I also understand that hardcore fans will exist for every artist. But Swifties take it to another level. I'm lowkey impressed by that fandom, but don't get it.

[-] Blackout@fedia.io 5 points 2 weeks ago

I just saw Black Joe Lewis play last night and I know for a fact he's a much better guitarist. But she packs stadiums and only 50 people were at his show. maybe it's because he doesn't show off his thighs?

[-] uselessRN@lemm.ee 13 points 2 weeks ago

I think you're generalizing her way too much here. Her fanbase is mostly girls. They aren't coming to see her thighs. She may not be the greatest guitarist in the world but she's a great song writer and singer. Her Eras tour was also incredibly well done.

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[-] Spider89@lemm.ee 18 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Pnut@lemm.ee 17 points 2 weeks ago

Tik Tok. It's just vine but no one is funny. How many videos of people just driving their cars with some nonsense text overlaid, like, how many hundreds of that are needed? How are you going to stand out? It's just a way for the uncreative to take part in creativity. Which they aren't.

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

Just like the fast food thing, TikTok is literally addictive. It’s the new breed of addictive tech. It’s the fentanyl of tech.

[-] ddash@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 weeks ago

Balatro.

Almost every single mention of it I see online makes it sound like the most freaking addictive drug. Any of you seen that Star Trek TNG episode where this weird addictive headset game takes over the Enterprise? Just like that.

It's probably a good game, but all those posts feel really off putting to me.

[-] BlueMagma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 weeks ago

It's a really fun game. People exaggerate the "addictive" aspect because.. you know.. "internet"

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[-] Pnut@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

I don't like that kind of game. I didn't like Balatro. I'm more into realism and simulation though. I had no idea why all of my favourite sites couldn't stop talking about it. Honestly, I think standards have fallen a lot further than we thought. Again though. I'm surviving until the release of Elder Scrolls 6. Balatro was never really on my radar.

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[-] ReeferPirate@lemy.lol 3 points 2 weeks ago

Big number go up, get brain drug dose. not much more to it than that.

[-] coaxil@lemm.ee 15 points 2 weeks ago

The last of us games, pretty generic trope filled badly paced story. And just super meh gameplay that feels like you are walking through molasses.

[-] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

K-pop, Anime & Manga, Harry Potter (fuck JKR!), gyms, Yoga & Pilates, fashion, make up, nail polish and probably a hundred things more...

[-] moonlight@fedia.io 8 points 2 weeks ago

I think HP and Kpop are both quite overrated.

Anime and Manga are just media, so there are good and bad series, like anything else. It's not worth obsessing over, or writing it off. But there are definitely shows that are worthy of some amount of hype.

Gyms are a good place to have access to various machines and weights for strength training (which is super important!) It has advantages and disadvantages compared to something like calisthenics. Yoga is a great way of moving and stretching the body, which is big for flexibility and general mobility. Especially combined with some form of strength training, it will have a huge impact on how your body feels.

Fashion, makeup, and nail polish are all about self expression. Fast fashion is bad, but fashion can mean just putting together a good outfit. It's worth it to put a bit of effort into what you wear, and making your clothes into something that reflects you. Makeup also has a positive and negative side. On one hand, a lot of people use it (often heavily) to cover up their percoeved flaws and 'fix' their appearance. I think that's unhealthy and a bit sad. But makeup is also an an art form; it turns your face into a canvas. Think winged eyeliner, glitter, colored eyeshadow or lipstick, etc. This includes nail polish. It's an expression of creativity, an you get to look nice at the end! Even if it's something you aren't personally interested in, (or if you are discouraged from self ornamentation due to gender expectations) It should be clear why people enjoy these things.

[-] MoonRaven@feddit.nl 14 points 2 weeks ago

Blockchain. I've always seen it as a solution looking g for a problem. And I'm a 12+ experienced software developer now.

[-] Manifish_Destiny@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

The only real use for the block chain is tracking stocks to prevent illegal shortselling.

So it will never ever ever get used for that purpose.

Obligatory fuck citadel.

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[-] silverchase@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago

Vinyl records.

If you're rejecting online music streaming and wanting music in physical form, CDs look a lot more practical. CDs are smaller, less delicate, and don't physically degrade every time you play them. CD playback hardware needs essentially zero maintenance and is crazy cheap still.

Could it be for nostalgia? But I've seen people younger than peak vinyl get into music on records. They wouldn't have any nostalgia for vinyl.

Is it for the sound quality? But I've seen chiptune albums available on records! It would be truer to the music to load it onto a real Game Boy or something.

[-] Owljfien@lemm.ee 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I like vinyl for it being big enough to be somewhat like a poster. I'm hoping to eventually gave a vinyl wall when I have my own place

I'm 30 so CDs were well and truly widespread during my formative years so it's not nostalgia for me

[-] dumples@midwest.social 5 points 2 weeks ago

The reason I like vinyl is how slow and deliberate it is compared to other mediums. If I want to play a record I have a limited curated selection which I purchased with a specific use case. These are all played in my living room and are generally slower and relaxing type music. If I want to play a record I will need to start at the beginning and typically commit to hearing the entire thing in its entirety. Each side I have to choose to continue which slows down the process. I can't skip ahead to the songs I like and it doesn't automatically play anything once its done. Its slow and has a large physical object which I enjoy.

If I used CDs I could skip to whatever song I like or have it automatically play the next CD. With a multi-disc changer I wouldn't have to choose what I want to hear each time. I have CDs which I use in my car for a different use case which is to listen to when the radio is being annoying.

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[-] 1hitsong@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Jellyfin vs Plex vs Kodi

People get really into the one they choose and upset when other people make a different choice. But it's not a competition, use whatever makes you happy 🤘

[-] theblips@lemm.ee 5 points 2 weeks ago

Absolutely do use whatever makes you happy, but that is a false equivalence. Plex just updated their license to allow them to track your content consumption and sell that data to whomever they want...

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 8 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] Krudler@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Fast food.

I'm not saying there's exactly "hype" but it seems to have a permanent grasp on the minds of chronic users.

In 2025, with our knowledge of nutrition, people are still denying that it's basically hot candy disguised as food... people are still arguing that it's nutritional enough that is okay to eat.

No, it's the equivalent of cigarettes. Stop eating that shit, recognize it for what it is: addictive poison.

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[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

HVAC. I feel like it's as much of a game changer as cocaine was to people already forking out lots for pure heroin.

Sounds good, but I'll never see the benefit

[-] Kit 5 points 2 weeks ago

Idk man, air conditioning is pretty nice.

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