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I'm on the autism spectrum, with very low support needs. My health care provider has that in my medical records. Now I'm worried that I'm going to disappear into some camp, and my wife will never know what happened.
I've never been happier not to have an official diagnosis. My wife and I are considering our options.
Ireland? New Zealand? We both have semi in demand skills. I'm a tradesman and she's a social worker. Realistically we're stuck here but looking at what we might be able to do
Why?
RFKjr is setting up a national autism registration and he’s already proposed to send neurodivergent people to farms. It’s pure Nazi eugenics.
My pet goldfish was also sent to a farm when I was a kid. Sending people to farms sounds like a euphemism for extermination.
I did a search, and discovered articles pointing to sending addicts to farms. I couldn't find anything similar for neurodivergent people.
Can you link something?
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RFK considers people with ADHD who are perscribed stimulants to be addicts
What?! Can you provide some sources on this?
That seems to be complete nonsense. RFKjr is working to determine the cause of the increase in autism rates by linking datasets. Specifically looking into correlation with vaccines.
There has never been talk of sending neurodivergent people to farms or camps.
If that really was his objective he wouldn’t have cancelled NIH funding into research on autism. You are either ignorant or disingenuous.
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Ffs America you're supposed to be setting the example here
Lmao, when?
Yah, well, this time the US is invading the US to give it some much needed ‘freedom.’
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The psychologist who did like a shortened test on me actually recommended against going further and also getting diagnosed by a psychiatrist if I don't want any official support. Just not worth a lifetime of discrimination within the medical system. I'm noticing it happening with my ADHD diagnosis. That one's worth the discrimination though, since the treatment is a life saver (potentially literally).
I know my wife wishes she had never been officially diagnosed with depression, as it precludes her from some jobs she wanted to apply for. How true this is is reality, I don’t know.
Not sure where you're located, but at least in the USA it's definitely illegal for an employer to discriminate against a medical diagnosis like that. They aren't even allowed to ask you private medical questions during the hiring process.
It prevents you from jobs like airline pilots, the rationale being that placing someone potentially suicidal in control of a plane full of people isn't a good idea. The rationale doesn't really make total sense but you can see why they'd think that way.
except that airline pilots end up depressed and untreated instead of just not depressed.
Oh yeah definitely, that's a major problem that's specifically created by this policy.
But depression isn't a thing normal people experience! It's only the mentally ill and we don't want them at the controls.. /s
It's illegal unless there's a bonafide occupational qualification that your disability prevents you from performing. Like you couldn't apply for a job as a furniture mover if you're a quadriplegic and cry discrimination when they don't select you. And the employer can ask things like "this job requires that you lift heavy objects of up to 600lbs with the assistance of another person and a back brace. Do you have any medical or other reason you could not perform these duties?".
Now if that weren't a real occupational qualification, that'd be discriminatory. Like if they said you had to be a man for that moving job - there's no reason you have to be a man, you just have to be able to move 600lb things.
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Celiac is a real pain in the ass and makes me sound unhinged at a restaurant.
I'm just so tired of checking every single ingredient list.
Also tired of terms at restaurants like "Gluten Aware", "Gluten Conscious", etc. Then you find out everything is still going in the same fryer 🫤
Also tired of terms at restaurants like "Gluten Aware", "Gluten Conscious", etc. Then you find out everything is still going in the same fryer
At least they're aware of it.
Gluten appears to be pixie dust just thrown about in kitchens and mass food production facilities. It is shocking how much contains it or is near it.
I haven't heard of a gluten aware restaurant. But the term sounds irritating.
I really appreciate places like Subway and Taco Bell that just tell you up front they probably have cross-contamination on everything. Most places the workers don't even know what gluten is. When I explain, they think I should just say I don't want bread.
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I'm 50/50. On one hand it's interesting and good to know about yourself and your issues but it is a double-ended sword. I was diagnosed with ASPD a little while back among other things and while I'm glad I understand the root for a lot of my problematic traits I now also have a piece of paper that makes me look bad if I have to go to court.
I am really glad and very priveleged to have been diagnosed with ADHD. However, I worry that my official diagnoses might put me in danger soon
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I wish I straight up just didn't have the things I was diagnosed with. The diagnosis themselves haven't changed anything other than now I at least know I am not a piece of shit on purpose.
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...diagnosis from who?
Myself: meh, I could be wrong, I'm not a professional.
Doctor: hahahahaha what? What am I? Made of money?
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Had a hard time figuring out life in my early 20's. Sought help, and got a mental health diagnosis and some meds that I took for a while. 20 years later it's clear that it was either a misdiagnosis of simple existential angst, or I figured shit out in the meantime. Paying 40% more for life insurance and need reports from the doctor I haven't seen in 18 years each time I have to renew security clearance.
It ain’t nothing, but fuckin eczema lol. Gotta lotion up every day and even then, sometimes you get random flare ups.
Depression 100% I have lost so much of my youth to it, and even now with my meds and lifestyle changes it still finds its way back into my life. Hell, depression is the reason why I'm 21 and still in highschool! It's an awful condition
Wouldn't being undiagnosed, presumably without those meds, be worse though, not better?
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I will never be able to get a small engine private pilot license due to fainting, despite it literally never happening unless I'm standing up...
Airplanes pull G, making it far more intense than being standing. You would absolutely faint in a plane; this one is kinda fair, sorry bud.
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It's good to know that I was diagnosed with food allergies. I might not have ever known what was making me feel horrible all this time.
I wish I hadn’t been diagnosed with cystic fibrosis but mostly I wish I didn’t have it
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