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[-] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago

Ooooh story time…

I worked for a small company in 2017/2018 that had recently expanded its building and added offices into their second floor, which had previously been a storage area. The second floor offices didn’t have any windows, but is also the spot that they decided IT would go.

One day I came in and the fluorescent lights didn’t turn on. There happened to be some random old lamp (I think from the 60’s or 70’s) in a storage closet so I grabbed it and put it on the intersection of 4 cubicles to light the area. There were only 6 IT people that worked in the area and as people were coming into work, no one mentioned the light. We all just did our work.

Halfway though the day, one of our senior devs asked “hey, so what’s with the light?”

I let him know the overhead lights didn’t come on when I got here this morning so I just grabbed a lamp.

5 of us discussing the lighting situation all vocally said “yea, this is much better, the fluorescent lights suck.” One person was quiet.

The overhead lights were “fixed” not too long after but people started opting for turning them off in favor of the lamp. This upset 1 of the 6 IT people working in the area.

It eventually became an HR issue, and the one person won; to the detriment of the other 5.

I ended up quitting about 2 weeks after that, not from the light issue; but I let them believe it was a large contributing factor in the exit interview.

[-] Aksamit@slrpnk.net 2 points 8 hours ago

I find myself wearing my sunnies indoors more often than not. On days I forget and grab my regular glasses, switching over to the tinted lenses is literal full body relief as the light input is reduced.

[-] Hikuro93@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Hum... Yeah... That'd be me. The creature of the night. Not rave n' disco night... More like, night night. Even during the day.

[-] Lexam@lemmy.world 11 points 15 hours ago

This is one of my great sensitivities. I can't drive without sunglasses. My eyes will tear up and I'm unable to keep them open.

[-] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I’m with you. Do you get it at the movies too? IMAX is too much but if I go to a smaller screen theatre I’m usually ok.

[-] Lexam@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

No not in theaters unless it's a really bright scene like an explosion.

[-] Zenith@lemm.ee 4 points 13 hours ago

Going outside to let my dogs out in the AM is genuinely painful! The dark to light is SHOCKING mentally and physically, I used polarized glasses for driving for the same reason you do. I find certain kinds of lights to be agitating even not just uncomfortable or painful

[-] SlippiHUD@lemmy.world 46 points 20 hours ago

90% of the time, the explanation is "I was doing a thing that didnt require external light source and didnt notice the sun went down."

[-] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 14 points 19 hours ago

yeah but even if i did notice the sun went down i prefer to stay in the dark as long as it's not necessary to have light

[-] Zenith@lemm.ee 2 points 13 hours ago

lol I don’t bother to explain I usually just say “nothing” I don’t owe anyone an explanation for why I want the lights off

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[-] DarthObi@feddit.org 18 points 17 hours ago

Everytime I read something about neurodivergent behavior I am astonished that another atypical thing I do is actually typical behaviour just not for neurotypical persons. (sry for my English - not a native speaker)

[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago

Your English is good, don't worry! In fact I quite like the way you worded that. Isn't it comforting to realize you're not as alone as you had thought you were?

[-] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 16 points 19 hours ago

Somewhat related but does anyone else like driving in the dark? Like no other cars back roads in the middle of nowhere, the only light is from my instruments, radio, and headlights? Fucken peak especially out in the truly middle of nowhere with minimal light pollution with the cosmos visible.

[-] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

I try, but then that fucking clown shows up...

[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Then you pull aside, roll down the window, and hear nothing but the buzzing and chirping of whatever nature's out there. It's just... zen.

I've always lived in pretty densely-populated areas, but a few years back I got to drive around eastern Arizona for a few hours at night. It was so dark and so empty, I felt like I was flying through space. I could've gone into a trance, had I not been somewhere unfamiliar (I had to keep some focus in this unfamiliar area with spotty cell reception, where I was alone, at night.)

[-] BigPotato@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago

The Prius (and more historically Saab) used to have a near blackout mode which shut off interior lights and dash indicators, basically only leaving the indicator that shows your headlights are on. It was wonderful to drive with the blackout mode and just have your eyes perfectly adjusted to the light outside the cabin.

[-] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 2 points 10 hours ago

I drive a lot of retro cars and can say that while there usually wasn't a dedicated mode you could turn down or off all of the interior lights. For example my 2001 Jeep Cherokee it's just turning the light knob (same applies for the '91) as for my 2001 Toyota Tacoma it's a matter of turning the dedicated knob that's funnily enough the same spot as the one on the Cherokee.

[-] BigPotato@lemmy.world 1 points 50 minutes ago

I was carving out the exception because if you turn off all the interior lights, they're just off. Saab at least had a system that monitored things and turned them back on if there were issues.

Jeep would sense the water temp rising out of control and day "lol u turned the lights off dude."

[-] davidagain@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

That sounds really really nice.

[-] Zenith@lemm.ee 2 points 13 hours ago

Yes! I wish I could drive with out headlights but I know it’s too dangerous. I have incredibly good night vision even in my late 30s, I don’t need light at night why am I forced to use it??

[-] Ageroth@reddthat.com 4 points 12 hours ago

The lights are also so others can see you, not so relevant when you're really out away from civilization but there are many laws that require headlights to be on when windshield wipers are used

[-] whelk@lemm.ee 7 points 18 hours ago

Agreed, I love this part of long drives to out of the way destinations. Definitely better in older cars without obnoxious touch screens.

I enjoy some games that can simulate this too, like Elite Dangerous scooting around in the lander on the dark side of some barren planet deep in uninhabited space. Not the same as the real thing of course, but I still enjoy it.

[-] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 102 points 1 day ago

Coworkers like 75% spectrum. Office is DARK

When we have meetings, boss comes in and opens the blinds. We scurry around like roaches

[-] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 57 points 1 day ago

We used to keep the light off in the tech bullpen. There were no windows but enough lights from the screens to keep people from tripping over themselves walking to their desks. Fucking director level POS hated it. When he didn't have anything to do he'd come back there and loudly exclaim "I don't see how y'all can work in the dark!"

It's almost like different people work different ways and have different levels of comfort. I can deal with either just fine but damn, don't just loudly pronounce shit and change the environment immediately. That absolutely stops pretty much everyone from working because they want to bitch about how it's different now.

I think it was 50/50 not giving a shit about the comfort of others and wanting attention because he was as useless as a bag of used microplastics.

[-] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 21 hours ago

Lol people see me in the dark with a laptop and backlit keyboard and are like "how can you see / read in the dark?

Like wtf it's backlit. IDC what's happening in this - until recently - otherwise uninhabited room.

[-] Cethin@lemmy.zip 2 points 16 hours ago

I have a backlit keyboard, but the light is always off. If you can't type by feel and you work on a computer then what the hell are you doing? I will never understand how people can't work on a light up screen in the dark.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 16 points 21 hours ago

I used to work in an IT call center like that. It wasn't even dark it was just dim because no one wanted the light over their desk turned on. There was enough light from the kitchenette area and the walkways to easily see. We got a new manager that hated that we all wanted the lights off so she used like 3 people who complained about it (and were in a corner of the room with the lights on so... stfu) as a pretext to do a poll to keep the rest of the lights turned on. She came back saying there was "a lot of" support for turning the lights on so now it was required but refused to release the results. Immediately lost all respect from the room. She would have eventually anyway because she was a shit manager but that was like right out of the gate.

[-] davidagain@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago

She showed her true colours immediately. Didn't care about the people in the team.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 21 points 1 day ago

We did that as interns. Our official response was the light was causing interference with the testing and needed to be off.

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 13 points 20 hours ago

Yeah, why tf do people need to turn on my lights?

I'm not Vashta Nerada (I wish tho).

[-] WhiteRabbit_33@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago

Yes! Please let me be part of the flesh devouring hive mind colony that likes books and lives in the dark.

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 4 points 18 hours ago

It's the prefect life.

[-] WanderingThoughts@europe.pub 42 points 1 day ago

"I rule from the shadows" is my usual response.

[-] Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world 14 points 23 hours ago

"leave me to do my dark bidding in peace".
"Oh, what are you bidding on?".
"A table"

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[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 62 points 1 day ago

Can you imagine if we just started making snarky comments and turning off lights that people purposely put on? Wow, that'd be so rude! Right? Right??

[-] quetzaldilla@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

I just hiss as I retreat under the bed.

[-] glitchdx@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago

Furthermore, other people turning OFF a light that's in another room because that's the precise amount of light I want where I'm at. Absolutely infuriating.

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 44 points 1 day ago

Also, we sometimes like the dark.

Would you like it if you were in a room with a comfortable lighting level and changed the lighting level to suit ourselves without saying anything first?

[-] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 21 hours ago

I want a secret button that makes the room 100x brighter than normal lights so when this happens I can come back with, "idk how can you see in such dark spaces?" Then close my eyes and initate Operation Surface of the Sun.

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 6 points 21 hours ago

With home assistant and enough LED drivers you probably could.

[-] Catoblepas 42 points 1 day ago

“Why don’t you ever come out of your room?” flashbacks, lol

[-] ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"Does a vampire live in here"!?

*flips switch*

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 14 points 1 day ago

Haha I used to get this from grandma who always complains about the electric bill. Like im trying to save money!

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