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[-] baronvonj@lemmy.world 130 points 2 years ago

So .. if he could receive a call ... couldn't he make a call to someone he knows?

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 202 points 2 years ago

I remember reading about this. He was actually lost, in that he strayed from his trail and didn't immediately know how to return.

Rescuers were alerted because a family member had reported him missing after he didn't arrive home on time.

As the story goes, to the best of my recollection, the "lost" individual went for a hike and said they would be back before sundown. When they got lost, they obviously missed that deadline. They were biding their time in the forest until daybreak to try to find the trail to get back because it was too dark to look for it. So while he was "lost" it was mainly because the sun had gone down. He didn't feel like he was in any danger, and wasn't at any risk of immediately being harmed or killed; AFAIK they were reasonably familiar with that forest and they were more than capable of surviving in those conditions; so he had no motivation to seek help.

TL;DR: guy didn't feel like he needed help.

[-] _CottonCandyUnicorn_@lemmy.world 107 points 2 years ago

I get that he didn't feel like he needed help. But he told his family he'd be back before sundown so wouldn't the thought to call or even text your family to let them know you're ok cross your mind? That's the part that seems strange to me.

[-] cactusupyourbutt@lemmy.world 65 points 2 years ago

whats strange to me is that the family didnt try to reach him first

[-] KIM_JONG_JUICEBOX@lemmy.ml 20 points 2 years ago

Or why didn’t the rescuers text or leave a message?

Sounds like everyone has trouble communicating properly here. It’s like how to write a sitcom plot 101.

[-] lud@lemm.ee 24 points 2 years ago

Maybe they forgot ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[-] Gormadt 23 points 2 years ago

Been there for sure

Just forgetting to tell family I was going to be later than I expected

[-] newIdentity@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 years ago

Happens on a weekly basis for me

[-] Rehwyn@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Article about it: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/hiker-lost-24-hours-ignored-rescuers-calls-because-they-didn-n1282381

What's more likely is that in his panic he wasn't thinking quite straight. It's very common for people to make decisions that seem silly in retrospect in situations like this.

[-] ox0r@jlai.lu 90 points 2 years ago

If it's important, they'll leave a message. Otherwise it's just another scam anyway

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 years ago

Hopefully you're not applying for a job haha

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[-] Designate6361@lemmy.ml 82 points 2 years ago

As someone who does not answer unknown numbers I am laughing and also cringing

[-] LogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyz 80 points 2 years ago

If I pick up, then they know its a real number and I get added to a hundred more lists. Its taken me years of diligently ignoring the world to get to the point where i only get a couple of spam calls a day. I might not answer, either.

[-] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

I always answer, and I still only occasionally get spam calls. I wonder whether I'm just very lucky or if wasting their time consistently gets you put on lists of a different kind.

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[-] c0mbatbag3l@lemmy.world 62 points 2 years ago

It has nothing to do with social fear, every fucking call on my personal and work phone is a scam.

Get that shit under control and then maybe I'll answer my cell phone once in awhile lol

Though if I was really lost I think I'd be answering every call tbh.

[-] sheogorath@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

If you live in a supported country, (but only US have the automatic screening feature) I suggest getting a Pixel phone and use the call screening features.

https://support.google.com/phoneapp/answer/9118387?hl=en

I'm currently using a Samsung phone and it has a similar feature but the screening can only be done manually and Bixby's voice is miles behind Google Assistant's.

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[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 56 points 2 years ago

The telephone network is practically useless because we don't have any authentication to it anymore.

When the phone company had to do something to physically connect a wire to a building, it was sufficient. But that I can download any number of apps that lets me war dial an entire continent pretending to be just anyone? Yeah the phone network isn't secure enough for the average user.

[-] ikidd@lemmy.world 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

It never really was secure. You could always set the Caller ID on an outgoing PRI trunk to whatever you wanted with any of the phone systems in the last half century. It isn't validated.

[-] moonsnotreal 14 points 2 years ago

Also phone phreaking existed. Just blow a whistle into the pay phone and get free calls.

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[-] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 51 points 2 years ago

I remember this article... He went for a hike and didn't tell his roommates when he would be back. He didn't answer their calls (I'm assuming he needed some time alone), and was gone for more than 24 hours so they reported him missing. He just wanted some time away from his roommates and they put him the the national news.

Sounds like some people I'd need some time away from too lmao. Good to have people that care tho.

[-] Surreal@programming.dev 46 points 2 years ago

I wish people texted after failing to call me. I don't answer calls from unknown numbers either but if you know me then text me so I know it's not a spam number

[-] mkwarman@lemmy.mkwarman.com 16 points 2 years ago

I agree, but I still have this idea that it's rude to text people unless you have gotten permission first. I think it's a relic from the 2000s-2010s when not everyone's phone had texting and if you did text them they could get charged by their phone provider. Obviously nowadays that's much less of a concern, but still feels like a social grey area for some reason

[-] die444die@lemmy.world 19 points 2 years ago

It is completely opposite to that in my circles. It would be weird to call people without texting them first. In fact, one of my best friends texted me to ask if he could call me.

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[-] danielton@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Yeah, that's an archaic mindset. Most people would rather get a text these days.

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[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 31 points 2 years ago

For real.

‘Unknown’ or ‘Suspected Spam’ yeah, I guess I’ll just die.

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[-] jimmydoreisalefty@lemmus.org 18 points 2 years ago

Should have sent an email, come on now...

[-] PaupersSerenade@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 years ago

Something similar, if less life threatening, happened to me. My car had been stollen a while back and I avoided the random call from an area code 50+ miles away. Turns out it had been the cops from that area telling my they found my (stripped) vehicle. Impound lot ended up getting the car AND overnight parking fees. Absolute racket.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

Did they not leave a fucking voicemail?

That's even worse than a call

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

How is it worse? If there's important information, leave it for me.

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[-] explodicle@local106.com 6 points 2 years ago

I just let the mailbox fill up so people would stop leaving those.

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[-] yoz@aussie.zone 13 points 2 years ago
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[-] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago

Why would he answer? They were probably trying to reach him about his car's extended warranty.

[-] duviobaz@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Totally relatable

[-] LostDeer@infosec.pub 7 points 2 years ago

This could be me lol

It is funny to be lost where you have cell service though.

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