You're doing it the wrong way. What you should do is to identify the specific things you think are holding Lemmy back and discuss it in the open. That can lead to:
- Other people realize it too and start thinking how to fix it
- You realize your assumptions were wrong
If you just post here ' Lemmy is shit and will never be good' then that's not very productive even if we wanted to help you find a now home outside of Lemmy, we have no idea what you're looking for so we can not even give you good advise.