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If I Stay Still They Wont Notice Me
(feddit.is)
the problem with small instances is they die more frequently. sometimes without prior notice. i lost a few accounts that way. that lemmy server list said it wouldn't matter what instance i chose, but it really did. with this account, it's the longest time i had one.
however, all big instances started small. so we also need ppl to grow small ones. it's not an easy choice.