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It seems like no matter how I scroll I find bad news. I know lots of things are happening but I just want funny memes and interesting stories.

I used to be able to get this back in the day on the Reddit app feed, but here the all page is always just depressing stuff. Back then, there was news and stuff but like it felt more balanced in the all feed. I could get bad stuff but lots of interesting stuff too .

I find myself engaging less and less and just avoiding Lemmy more and more since I know the moment I open it I'll get whacked with more depressing stuffs.

I don't want politics or world news or really even memes about that stuff anymore. Heck even tech news is depressing. I just want simple scrolling of fun content. Idk it's just hard to describe.

Does anyone else feel this way about their Lemmy experience?

I remember an old post about someone getting AM radio from their sink (probably from Reddit back in the day). That type of stuff is so much cooler than my feed.

To that end: any recommended active communities on Lemmy with that type of stuff?

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[-] Churbleyimyam@lemm.ee 94 points 4 days ago

In your Lemmy account settings, set your default feed to 'subscribed' instead of 'all'.

When you open the app or log in on your browser you will only see communities you've subscribed to.

It will greatly improve your (and everyone else's) experience if you subscribe to positive communties and participate in them.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 2 points 2 days ago

Have you considered halting the decline of democracy? Then people won't post depressing facts.

Or you filter by keywords. One of the two things needs to happen for you not to be exposed to negativity.

[-] m4xie 1 points 1 day ago

Not all of us live in the US.

[-] IronKrill@lemmy.ca 24 points 4 days ago

Step 1: don't browse the All feed. I dunno how Reddit was okay for you, visiting r/all was always full of Trump this Trump that every 5 minutes.

[-] wirelesswire@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago

At least Reddit had a nice feature where you could filter out up to 100 communities from r/all. I could still get a varied experience while not having to look at things like politics, sportsball, or games I didn't care for.

[-] YungOnions@lemmy.world 53 points 4 days ago

You are 100% correct, negative news has a greater impact on people than positive: https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71516.pdf

Media sites know this, and use it to drive engagement:

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-023-01538-4 https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/social-media-facebook-twitter-politics-b1870628.html

And so, negative headlines are getting worse: https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0276367

But negative news is addictive and psychologically damaging: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-we-worry/202009/the-psychological-impact-negative-news

So it's important to try and stay positive:

https://www.goodgoodgood.co/articles/benefits-of-good-news

If you want a break from the constant negativity, here are some sites that report specifically on positive news:

And here's 35 more: https://news.feedspot.com/good_news_websites/

Some communities on Lemmy you might be interested in:

Remember, realistic optimism is important and, unlike what some might have you believe, is not the same as blissful ignorance or 'burying your head in the sand': https://www.learning-mind.com/realistic-optimism-blind-positivity/

https://www.centreforoptimism.com/realisticoptimism

And doesn't mean you must stay uninformed on current affairs: https://www.goodgoodgood.co/articles/how-to-stop-doom-scrolling

https://goodable.co/blog/tips-for-balancing-positive-and-negative-news/

[-] Sergio@slrpnk.net 4 points 4 days ago

!goodnews@kbin.social

kbin.social is dead btw... if you post there it won't federate and only people on your instance will see your post.

[-] YungOnions@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Noted, thanks

[-] fuckingkangaroos@lemm.ee 32 points 4 days ago

Block Lemmy.ml, hexbear, and dbzer0, then make your own list of keywords to block (Trump, Elon, murder, angry, etc etc)

[-] PartiallyApplied@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Yep, my block list is long. It’s updated occasionally. I call it “weeding the digital garden”. Negatively sprouts everywhere and it’s imperative to cull it asap.

The way I see it there’s far too many things in the digital world to care about, so I just care about basically none of them. I’d rather spend energy loving the people I love than being angry at what I see on the internet.

The internet is full of slacktivism and I find it’s more worthwhile to do something good rather than critiquing the bad and doing nothing.

[-] Bronzebeard@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

You can block keywords? I just see communities, users, and instances in my block settings.

[-] CidVicious@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago

Some of the apps add this as a feature client side. For example I know sync has this. Not aware of it on the web site though.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 39 points 4 days ago

Same as reddit: Subscribe to communities you like then only look at those.

[-] HotCoffee@lemm.ee 18 points 4 days ago

Yes and no, since lemmy has a smaller user base certain type of content will have a much higher presence than reddit. And when 5 instances are all posting from the same source, that will saturate the platform.

If every new user immediately gets turned off by it, because curating your homepage is like step 2, then lemmy will continue struggling with retaining new users.

[-] CarbonBasedNPU@lemm.ee 9 points 4 days ago

Lemmy doesn't really have enough users for the same type of mindless only scrolling in communities you like from what I've seen. On reddit I'm subscribed to 2 drama subs Gentoo sub and a few others. There is enough content in that for me to just scroll that instead of all.

on the other hand here I find my subscriptions literally don't get new posts. It's fine I'm getting used to it but it means I'm using the all equivalent far more often.

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago

I use all a lot too but I still curate my subscriptions when I want a calmer experience (500+ subscriptions mind).

One trick is to sometimes sort by scaled which allows posts from less active communities to rise

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Yeah it's a shame. I still like it better than reddit but damn. Civilization 7 is coming out in a few days and I haven't seen a single post.

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Make one! I'm sure you're not the only one here anticipating it. !games@sh.itjust.works

Edit:fixed link

[-] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 36 points 4 days ago

Why don’t you just keep away from c/all and stick to your subscribed communities?

To discover new communities, I suggest subscribing to c/newcommunities

[-] deergon@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago

That's my approach - once in a while I take a peek at /all, get stressed out and quickly retreat to my curated home again.

[-] Sergio@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 days ago

besides !newcommunities@lemmy.world there's also !communitypromo@lemmy.ca and !trendingcommunities@feddit.nl

plus you can always just look through the "communities" listing -- in the web interface it's at the top of the page, just select "communities" and "all".

[-] brlemworld@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

I use Sync and it lets me block keywords like Trump,Elon,Musk. It doesn't catch everything but does a good amount.

[-] morgunkorn@discuss.tchncs.de 29 points 4 days ago

i blocked every single news and politics communities, as well as all the "*** infuriating" ones, it has drastically improved the content of my timeline :)

[-] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 20 points 4 days ago

Add a filter for anything political that comes to mind, subscribe to fun instances (history memes, anime, shitposting)

[-] HotCoffee@lemm.ee 19 points 4 days ago

Yeah lemmy has bit too much political content. Americans seem very obsessed with it. I just kept blocking all of them and now my feed is pretty free of political nonsense. If I want that kind of content i'll just read the news paper or go to my news feed of choice

[-] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 13 points 4 days ago

To be fair, a large slice of the user base is in the US and currently everything is collapsing around us. It should come as no surprise that we complain about it a lot. The mods of various communities could certainly enforce rules more; e.g. in shitposting or memes, remove any political content. It would help the situation.

[-] HotCoffee@lemm.ee 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Lol than your country has been collapsing for the last 2+ years, cus it's always dominated by politics on lemmy.

It's a difficult balance to strike, since enforcing content also feels like going against the foss ethos.... It's tricky. But just keep promoting Lemmy and the fediverse and some day we will have a more balanced experience

[-] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 8 points 4 days ago

I agree. And yes, the last 2+ years have been a political shit show, because we were scared shitless of what has now happened.

[-] Ludrol@szmer.info 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Does anyone else feel this way about their Lemmy experience?

Yes. I usually stick to fandom communities where I post some cool fanart and chat about latest books I have read. I avoid all feed at all cost.

I hoped that !hopeposting@lemmy.world would be the same as r/hopeposting@reddit.com but the comments are night and day in there. I still repost stuff but a drive to make OC memes is just not there.

I usually hang out in !anime@ani.social, !lightnovels@ani.social and !hermitcraft@lemmy.world

P.S. Also my polish instance szmer.info doesn't have as bad ALL feed as the lemmy.world due to people that don't care about US politics and not subscribing to those communities.

[-] Breve@pawb.social 4 points 3 days ago

I'm trying to move my news off social media and on to RSS. I set up an RSS reader with a handful of trusted and varied news sources (some mainstream, some independent, some local, some foreign) and now I'm starting to filter out news from Lemmy and other social networks.

Some things I quickly noticed is that not having a comments section is actually great, I can jump straight to or past subjects I'm not in the mood for, and there's no endless scroll but if I feel there's too little I can add more sources and if there's too much I can take some out. I still also use Lemmy so if I find an interesting new blog or website, I can add it to my RSS reader to keep following it instead of relying on strangers posting new content and it getting voted up. This lets me focus more on the smaller special interest groups that social media is actually good for.

[-] thezeesystem 12 points 4 days ago

I use voyager and block words phrases and instances that bring that stuff up. And sometimes users who repeatedly do it too.

I'm also on Lemmy blahaj which don't know if that matters. But over time I rarely have a lot of depressing political things in my feed anymore. Just every so often.

I have another account on Lemmy world for political things already I rarely use it.

[-] halcyoncmdr@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

I'm also on Lemmy blahaj which don't know if that matters

It does. If your home instance blocks other instances then you'll never see their posts, regardless of your settings.

I don't believe there's a native way to see these blocks in Lemmy, you'd have to look at a third party site that tracks that sort of thing.

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[-] highduc@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 days ago

I think places like Lemmy are better suited for discussions and ofc ongoing events and politics are a huge part of that.

Have you tried 9gag and other more "lightweight" and meme oriented platforms?

[-] mholiv@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

This seems really pedantic. Recommending 9gag because someone does not want to see constant bad news is just a but out there.

[-] Libb@jlai.lu 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Does anyone else feel this way about their Lemmy experience?

The out of the box experience is not great (neither is Reddit, if you're asking me, it's at least as depressing to see the amount of trash/low effort posts on their home page). But once I switched to 'Subscribed' only view, things were already much better since I was only seeing content I was interested in (aka no politics or drama of any sort).

As already suggested: !newcommunities@lemmy.world is good place to see what's new, also there is !communitypromo@lemmy.ca

Most importantly, Lemmy is not Reddit for many reasons but this one is more directly related to your question: it's much smaller (to give you an idea, I moderate a journaling community we recently reached... 300 members (of which less than a handful is active), whereas the Reddit journaling community is 2 Million+ ;). So, there is a lot less content posted on Lemmy. Back on Reddit, I was mostly a commenter (barely posting anything new myself) but I quickly realized that if I wanted to see stuff I was interested in on Lemmy I better start... posting myself ;)

[-] mrnarwall@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

I've taken a bit of a different approach. I've been using a keyword filter to remove posts that contain any words I don't care to read about. So no posts about trump, Elon, RFK, cyber trucks, etc.

I am not here to get that kind of news, I do that separately with the news sources I can trust and verify. Otherwise any tabloid or sensational opinion piece can potentially try to ruin my day all in the name of getting clicks

[-] horse@feddit.org 4 points 4 days ago

This is the way. I blocked keywords relating to Trump, Musk and the far right extremist party in my own country the other day and while some stuff still gets through it has made Lemmy significantly more pleasant to browse.

I can read about that stuff elsewhere if I really want to, but honestly I think we might not even be in this mess if the media didn't amplify those voices every time they said or did something outrageous.

I implemented the filters using the Voyager app, but I think most Lemmy clients have similar options. On desktop my instance offers Tesseract which also allows filtering by keywords.

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[-] LordGimp@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago

Pornography is never bad news. Normalize more pornography in your life

[-] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

This is why Lemmy will never become popular with the mainstream untill these people get their shit together. No sane person wants to browse a feed like mine despite the great lenghts I go attempting to block all politics and rage bait. I can only imagine how bad it is for someone just following the most popular communities and expecting a feed similar to that of Reddit.

If you don't want to leave then I think the second best option is to keep calling out these users poisoning the platform. Just be aware that there is going to be a lot hate coming your way then. This place is filled to the brim with extremists.

[-] Yingwu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago

Use an alternative front-end like Tesseract to filter out specific words on desktop. For mobile, you can use e.g. Voyager or Interstellar to filter out specific words. Unfollow news and politics communities.

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[-] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Come and join us on !casualuk@feddit.uk. We provide bottom quality banter there.

Edit to add:

Also, sub to: !cooking_with_fire@feddit.uk, !dadjokes@lemmy.world, !stick@sh.itjust.works, and !youcantparktheremate@feddit.uk. Anytime lemmy is getting you down, just peruse any of these for some politics-free, stress-free content.

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[-] Vaeril@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

I mainly browse through home page subscriptions. Occasionally I venture to all to find new subs, but I have a lot of subs blocked and keywords blocked for when I do.

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[-] squirrel@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 4 days ago

!superbowl@lemmy.world

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 3 points 4 days ago

Did you subscribe to news and politics communities? I'd recommend to unsubscribe, then. The more you tailor your feed to your interests, the more you're going to get what you're looking for.

[-] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago

Yes, gtfo out of Lemmy. It's Twitter but for leftists.

[-] lazycouchpotato@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago
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