• Born in Poland to polish parents but German grandparents
• at 11 fled to Germany one month before the Berlin wall fell
• at 23 a girl in Sweden on ICQ uses its random function, we marry and I move to Sweden
• we divorce I stay in Sweden go to University at 30, everyone else is 22
• I graduate and work in automobile industry
• during covid I go on a 3 month business trip to korea and install tinder, because why not?
• I meet someone there, she is the CFO of a mid size company so I move to Korea
• at 45 I become a father and we marry

In between there are many more random thing, I play in a ska band and in a metal band, I brew beer, I make sausages, I help creating a free and open source conference, totally drunk I try cocaine which only makes me sober, I program a small game, I go to Hebron in Palestine and record a podcast, etc.

Yes, lost my long-time friend and fiancée (a car hit us... I survived, she didn't) while coming back from the beach. We were living together, doing our studies together at the same university and we were in planification stage of our wedding and may be soon parent (i will never know...)

I’ve dropped all of that, couldn’t continue without her, never came back to my town and moved far from it. I switched off my brain for 6 months, refiling paper and ink in a littke shop.

So a complete change of life due to a 5 min event and a drunk driver who didn’t stop to help...

One day, a little old lady who i was helping told me a sentence i will never forgot: "young man, you seems very intelligent/clever.. i hope you don’t plan to do your actual job forever"

She was rigth, i was destroying myself in this shitty job. So i sent resume to the big companies around me, at random. To do something totally different than my original formation.

I got hired in a very big corpororation at a middle entry level (as i didn’t got my engineer diploma). In the following decades, I’ve focused only on my job (was still in denial), slowly raising in the organization, and I’ve managed to have a very good career that exceed now - by far - the level i would had with the initial diploma. And because i started by the low level, i have a real good experience that help me a lot today.

But all this success and money didn’t stop me to encounter several depression periods, burn-out, etc... I’m following a therapy since my last very serious depression 2 years ago but i’m still unable to get in couple. I’m still working on that.

Sometime, i wonder what could have been our life if we departed 5 min earlier or later. Or if i didn’t encounter this old grandma (probably dead today) in this shop.

It’s crazy how our life and direction can be so random.

My younger sister started watching Sailor Moon in '96. I occasionally joined her to mock her for it. Then I noticed it was the absolute shit and I became a bigger fan than she was.

I unironically credit Sailor Moon (and anime) with changing the course of my life because, although it gave my bullies another target on my back, it helped me through school while at least keeping some semblance of sanity. I met my husband in the Sailor Moon online community of the early internet, I majored in Japanese at university, and I learnt to draw because I wanted to recreate what I saw on screen.

If my sister hadn't watched that dumb kiddie cartoon, I would not be where I am.

Reading books in the elevator got me a promotion from working in the call center -> becoming an analyst. Changed my life trajectory. The VP of Finance saw the books I was reading, we had a brief convo and then he offered me a job the next week.

Second most interesting one is I bought $180 worth of option calls on Heinz Ketchup, and then they randomly got bought out by Warren Buffett. I think it was a total of $28k in profits at a time when I was making maybe 30-40k/year

I have 4 kids, two cats, and a house with someone I used to think was long gone from my life; We accidentally ran into each other again while I was visiting the old country, and then a volcano caused me to stay for a week extra, and old sparks began to reignite.

Also, my career for the past 15 years has been in an industry I hadn't heard of before, all because I applied to something "different", just to see. I didn't meet any of the educational requirements, I didn't know what the job was about, the job interview didn't go particularly well (not poorly either, though), but somehow they hired me out of a stack of 200 interviewees.

Over 20 years ago, I met my future wife on a bus. There was a fare dispute and the bus got pulled over by the police for like an hour, giving us time to talk.

When I graduated college my mom apparently passed my resume around to everyone, and her diving instructor gave it to a friend who gave it to a coworker who decided to give me an interview. I’m still in a career that started with the most random of connections.

A couple years ago, my mom discovered from my DNA test that she had assumed my father incorrectly based on the gestation timeline estimated by the doctor. She told me my real dad’s name, and I have met him and learned of new siblings, cousins, uncles, and grandmother. Whoops.

Sometimes the most random of events has lifelong consequences.

Randomly asked my boss to relocate me to another country. I’ve been living abroad for 5 years now.

I always say yes, so most of the things I have and am are mostly coincidental. Like, I've never gotten a job through a formal application procedure. They've all been through "networking", but without any actual effort.

I'm not complaining, my life is great, but I sometimes feel like I'm being lived, instead of living my own life. I'm sure that's gonna come back at me during my midlife crisis, but I'm not there yet.

Right now I am thinking about my career and laying out an actual plan for once and it feels dirty, but also it feels like the right thing to do.

A friend asked "What about go to France for a year?" when I was at uni in my birth country Sweden.

Sure! She said lets buy a car and drive there! Ok!

Decided it was fantastic, stayed when the year was over (with a whole bunch of stories I'll anoy the grandchildren with), and I'm still here :-)

Some years later, my SO in like the y 2000 : Lets go to Paris! Spent 10 years there.

I'm trans, estranged from my birth family, and living in a small commune in the French countryside.

I met my boss (for going on 19 years now) when he came in as a substitute teacher at college.

He likes to say "MightyLordJason got an A on my midterm so I offered him a job"

I am from Bosnia. My mother watches TV all day but signal bad. I get work visa, go to America. Declare my love for President. Rise up in ranks of conservative society. Marry tradwife, have kids. High paying job in telecommunications. One day I stay late and pull out central signal cable from entire NY comms hub. NY goes dark. Fly back to Bosnia with cable, plug into mothers TV. She has good signal now.

The people I disliked the most in my life all got fucked over lol It’s not much but I kinda feel good because of this :)

The only big thing that happened in my life is living in Europe since 2007. Still the same anti social person without any direction or ambition

Not particularly random, but I think my dice are weighted towards 1 and 20