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[-] scoobford@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 days ago

I was already planning on moving to Chicago next year, so...eh? I worry about our country for a lot of reasons, but none of them only apply to red state residents.

That being said, if I wasn't already moving I'd be getting the hell out of dodge. I don't have a uterus, but I know people who do, and I won't be party to the state suppression of their healthcare on religious grounds.

[-] radix@lemmy.world 32 points 3 days ago

Pro: a handful of my state's absolute worst officials are set to quit their jobs and we get a do-over.

Con: they're quitting to join the administration and they'll be way more powerful and everyone else will suffer.

Sorry. I did what I could.

[-] vivavideri@lemmy.world 26 points 3 days ago

I grew up in a progressive city in a gerrymandered-to-hell swing state. Cheeto's first win promptly sent me into a tailspin there. I've moved a handful since but now find myself in MT 80 miles from the border, you know, just in case.

Red up here is different than red down there. There it was like rubbing salt in the wound, here it's quite obviously because there aren't enough people to know any different.

I'm nonbinary and have been laid off in Florida about it, so I no longer disclose that information professionally. It's not the most pleasant, but hey, hiding in plain sight is a really good way to see what's coming down the pike.

[-] krashmo@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Hello fellow Montanan. I wish you well in your journey. There are more of us than you might guess but it does feel like a losing battle a lot of the time

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[-] Huckledebuck@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 days ago

Trying not to think too hard about it. I'm waiting for the idiots at work to try and bring anything up, but they've been uncharacteristically quiet. At least around me. I'm pretty sure I'm the token liberal to these nitwits.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

It's ok here because I'm in a left leaning city, trans kid (my youngest) will be adult soon so can begin medical care whenever they can afford it; any daughters who are at all into men have IUDs, and in general everything has been ok, except for school but that kid is a little bit insulated because it's an art school and they DGAF about the state saying they can't use nicknames or preferred gender. So that is ok but the actual teaching in the academic classes has faltered, getting bad like when I went to school here, and it's so disappointing after it had gotten so good for awhile.

Thanksgiving may be fractious because we have trans, communists, right wing, right-leaning, about half progressive leftist, one sort of prickly vegan (not prickly about us being omnivore, just more delicate sensibilities), it's always very mixed and rowdy like that, tensions seem higher but OTOH my ex has become more reasonable.

Bracing for economic downturn, hopefully it lets some people get into houses, who cannot now. And hopefully can stay employed, pretty old so have made it through several recessions already.

[-] JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago

I developed a pretty strong sense of apathy for most of the people around me, who either won't vote or vote for whatever Fox News tells them too.

That being said, I'm fearful for the friends I have that feel they will need to hide who they are just to go about their lives.

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[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 22 points 3 days ago

Thankful I'm privileged, white, and straight passing.

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[-] BossDj@lemm.ee 22 points 3 days ago

About 8 years ago, I moved from the red state I was born to a progressive city. I let my daughter serve her first year of school there then said oh hell no and got the fuck out.

Just remember rule number 1: Get hired first, then move

[-] beliquititious 15 points 3 days ago

Most of all, lonely. My situation is rough. I'm a trans woman (some passing privilege), almost 40, and staying with center-right family in East Texas because I haven't been able to work in two years due to mental illness. I have a very difficult time making and keep friends and the family I'm staying with doesn't understand why I'm upset, doesn't care, and think I'm overreacting (They are superficially supportive about me being trans, but also voted for this). I was going to therapy for a while, but I had to discontinue it because I couldn't afford it any more. The only thing keeping me going is that for the last few years I've been able to feel more comfortable in my own skin, thanks to HRT.

I really don't want to go through whatever the Republicans have in store for trans people in red states alone. The thing I am most afraid of is them banning HRT for adults (it's already banned for kids). I've been on e since 2018. If everything were going great for me losing access to my medication would be a horrifying and soul crushing ordeal, I doubt I'll survive it with how my life is now.

This last week I've been almost completely non-functional. I've been alternating between uncontrollable sobbing, hours long panic attacks, furious rage, and making half-crazed, poorly thought out Lemmy and Reddit comments.

tl;dr: not great.

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[-] Blaze@feddit.org 11 points 3 days ago

Hello, FYI this community has a rule preventing questions about US politics, feel free to post on !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world

[-] Tazerface@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 days ago

Seems to me the thread is more about how recent events have made peoples' life more difficult vs politics.

[-] subtext@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

Pretty much the same as before the election. Life moves on.

[-] tiefling 29 points 3 days ago

It's easy to say that from a position of privilege. Unfortunately for a large chunk of the population, life is not the same.

I'm not accusing you of anything, you had no control over who you were born as. Just explaining as a reminder.

[-] grue@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

Not to mention, it's easy to say that before Inauguration Day. None of Trump's tyranny has had a chance to happen yet.

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[-] Arcynic@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

More scared for my friends in other red states since I'm cishet and look like I blend in with maga. I've felt isolated ever since I moved to ArKansas at the end of 2019. I have no friends in this state outside of the household. I am too scared to attempt organizing, wouldn't even know where to look or how to approach such a thing. This whole thing is terrifying, infuriating, confusing, and exhausting, and I know it's only going to get so very much worse.

[-] i_dont_want_to 12 points 3 days ago

Disappointed but not surprised. Joining forces with like minded people. Doing the best I can do.

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