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[-] Kacarott@aussie.zone 41 points 4 months ago

Reading. It doesn't have to be much, but occasionally filling idle moments with a few pages read instead of doom scrolling social media can do wonders. It did for me at least.

[-] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 4 months ago

Doing this actually got me back into reading. Started with Manhwa (Solo Leveling) and that spiraled into reading books such as Midnight library, Before Coffee Gets Cold, The Words We keep and now “1984”.

[-] Thavron@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 months ago

Installing an ereader app (ReadEra) helped me so much with this. I always have my phone with me anyways, and tapping the ereader app instead of Instagram takes away so many barriers.

[-] TheFriendlyDickhead@lemm.ee 5 points 4 months ago

I allways read a bit before going to sleep. It helps with shutting down. My sleep improved a lot

[-] return2ozma@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

The Libby app with most public libraries is really good!

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 34 points 4 months ago

Cooking, it is satisfying enjoying the fruits of your labor and with cooking you can get that satisfaction every day if you choose.

[-] davel@lemmy.ml 14 points 4 months ago

This is not an everyone thing: I for one get no satisfaction from it.

[-] Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Hard disagree. The process is fun, and everyone loves to eat, but the cleanup is drudgery at its basest form.

[-] scott@lem.free.as 7 points 4 months ago

Tidy as you go. Don't see it as a separate task. Tidying up is part of the cooking process.

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

That's what I do - I clean as I cook because I've got ADHD and I will never conquer a big pile of dirty cookware... clean one at a time so it's never an imposing task.

[-] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 months ago

Implement the golden rule: cooks don't clean.

[-] mister_brown@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

My cats aren't gonna do the dishes

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[-] jimmy90@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

totally agree, home cooking from a variety of fresh ingredients is great for your gut and mental health

[-] faercol 3 points 4 months ago

Cooking can be fun, but it's also a chore. It means

  • finding 14 meals a week (sure you can have the same meal twice, but you still need to prepare that)
  • making sure that your mealplan is at least a bit balanced
  • groceries
  • cooking
  • dishes

And you do that every week of your life. I get it that cooking can be fun, but not the everyday cooking you need to do to survive.

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[-] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 34 points 4 months ago

I need to feel productive. Be it a programming project or woodworking. Just creating something new instead of maintenance like oil changes and mowing the lawn. Creating something new.

Also, take a walk in the forest. Get out on the water. Both are great therapy to disconnect from the mental todo-list of things going on around the house.

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[-] Joshi@aussie.zone 25 points 4 months ago

I'm a huge advocate of gardening. It gets you outdoors and active, gives a sense of achievement, you learn and improve over time, it's popular enough that you can get involved in a community, if you're growing veg it promotes healthy eating.

It should be mandatory.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

You... sound like my mother. She's an incredible woman, but christ, no I'm not gonna go climb a tree right now and chop off the top branches, I'm in the middle of a Minetest marathon

[-] WhatAmLemmy@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

House plants bro. It's a game where the goal is not killing them.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

I have a bamboo plant that seems to thrive on my neglect

[-] Truffle@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 months ago

Succulents are the answer! They thrive on neglect and look so cool and alien. I love them.

[-] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 months ago

I know you didn't really mean it literally but just to reiterate as others have done for other suggestions in this thread, this is very much an "if it works for you" sort of thing and definitely shouldn't be mandatory. I fucking hate gardening with a passion, I want absolutely nothing to do with it, though it's clearly very beneficial to others.

[-] Vanth@reddthat.com 22 points 4 months ago

Yoga/mobility/flexibility of some sort. Counteract the repetitive, static positions many of us hold during work hours.

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[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 18 points 4 months ago

Weightlifting has done wonders for mine. I don't even go super hard with it, just an adjustable dumbell set and bench at home a few times a week.

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[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 17 points 4 months ago

Cooking and working out. Proper nutrition and taking care of your body make a huge difference, along with reading.

[-] pugsnroses77@sh.itjust.works 17 points 4 months ago

talking to people. friends, strangers, idc. people seem too stiff these days and i think it keeps people lonely.

[-] half@lemy.lol 16 points 4 months ago

It depends a lot on the person, but it always does me good to do something tactile after working all day on a computer. Cooking, baking, sketching, woodworking, Legos, hiking, that kind of thing. I've noticed it really helps me ground and be mindful.

[-] tupalos@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago

Daily walks are so simple but getting out does wonders

[-] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 14 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I'd say anything creative, something which pushes the mind to focus on generating new ideas instead of just running through the same old ones - this worked for me, at least, as rumination and catastrophising have been stapled to my noggin my entire life.

To be more specific, painting, building stuff with Legos, drawing, writing poetry, composing songs, whittling, woodworking, stuff like that.

Another important aspect (at least from personal experience, ymmv) is keeping the hobby a hobby - what I mean by this is not falling into the trap of perfectionism or productivity with it, keeping it light and fun. I now strongly believe that the brain needs something "inconsequential" on which to chew if only to remind it that not every stimulus it receives is do-or-die.

[-] RoquetteQueen@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

Keep a hobby a hobby, yes! Don't try and monetize it! You will kill all the joy you once felt for that hobby.

[-] tacotroubles@lemmy.world 13 points 4 months ago

Whatever hobby you enjoy, avoid its online community as much as possible. It's a great way to see negativity and arguing, which we all know constant negativity and discourse is fantastic for our collective mental health.

[-] faultypidgeon@programming.dev 5 points 4 months ago

It's also a good way to never actually getting the ball rolling on a new hobby, and instead obsessively research what the "correct" way of doing xyz is and then be too overwhelmed by all the opinions to actually get started yourself.

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 4 points 4 months ago

Not for everything! I find that hobbies which are based around nature tends to have very welcoming and helpful communities online. Gardening, bird watching, hydroponics, that sort of thing.

[-] BlueEther@no.lastname.nz 12 points 4 months ago

Lets all try beekeeping, it will teach you to:

  • look
  • observe
  • think
  • take your time
  • gets you out doors
  • and gets food for the table
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[-] Shizrak@sh.itjust.works 12 points 4 months ago

Disc golf is the sport for nerdy kids who never liked sports. And even if you're absolutely terrible, you get to take a nice walk in the park or the woods. Most courses are free to play, and you really only need one disc to have a good time. Strongly recommend for those who know they aren't active enough but have no interest in going to the gym.

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[-] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Making the absolute best possible pizza you can, it's an obsession and sometimes it's actively stressful which you'd think would be bad for mental health but it's just the right level of stress and frustration and reward and relaxation and well, pizza, that it's something that the more I get in to it the more even the most unnecessary extra effort to get only the slightest improvement of the texture or the taste will seem worth it. I also really love trying to emulate ones that I've had and loved so there's kind of an end goal in so far as I can test if I think I've replicated or exceeded a standard I've set from my favourite pizza place. Doing it this way also opens you up to all the different existing styles you can try and then try to recreate. You could also invent your own if you're creative enough. You can spend big on fun equipment but you don't even have to because part of the fun is figuring out the smartest ways to achieve similarity of results with the resources at your disposal. I like making lots of notes to try something subtly different next time.

Whatever else is going on, I'm always in that zone when making pizza. The only problem with it is that it's a bit impractical. The best pizza tends to be at least a 24 hour long affair with dough made in the morning ready for that night so when you're super busy at work it's not easy to fit a good pizza day in there with all the effort and mess involved but when you can, all feels right with the world.

[-] Michal@programming.dev 10 points 4 months ago

Playing an instrument, like a guitar. It's great being able to play, but it takes time to learn it.

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 10 points 4 months ago

Bird-watching is very relaxing and surprisingly engaging. You get to know your local birds as individuals with personalities. It's pretty neat.

Slightly more active, but not by much, raising native bees is low effort and it can be enjoyable to watch the bees go about their business in your garden or yard, assuming you have flowers. In fact, once you get the bees, you might become more interested in gardening because you need to get some nice flowers for the bees, naturally.

[-] zcd@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 months ago

Strength training has such an incredible impact on your overall wellbeing everyone should incorporate it into their routine as much as possible

[-] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 8 points 4 months ago

Hobby? I dunno, but habit? Meditation.

[-] OxidantZero@lemm.ee 7 points 4 months ago

Chess. I think it's saved my mental health over the last year.

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[-] NateSwift@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)
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[-] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 months ago

Cycling has been a massive boon to my health, both mental and otherwise. It's such a fun way to get around, and just so happens to be great exercise in the process.

[-] feef@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

Photography maybe, you go on walks and travel, forces you to observe the world around you.

[-] Float@startrek.website 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Wax Sealing. You heat up colorful wax in a spoon over a tea light, pour it on a marble slab and then stamp cool designs into it. It is fun to experiment with different mixes, pouring techniques, etc and is very relaxing. Plus, when you are done, you have lots of cool seals. I have a bucket full of them and I like to just sit an go through them.

There is a youtube channel called 'melts' that makes really nice wax sealing videos with no talking.

[-] Psyhackological@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 months ago

If anyone struggles with plenty of ego identification and unhelpful destructive thoughts I recommend meditating. 30-day guest pass https://dynamic.wakingup.com/guestpass/SC13AF7E5

You can also ask a support for a 1 year for free when you ccan't afford it.

[-] coffee_with_cream@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago

Cocaine and good wine and sex and honesty

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It’s always great to accomplish things. Sports, arts, DIY, learning new skills, it doesn’t matter as long as you can feel proud of yourself afterwards.

[-] selokichtli@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Jigsaw puzzles. Start with a couple of hundreds of pieces and then go with the ones of thousands. Also gardening, but you need to have a garden or enough space to have plants inside your home.

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