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[-] wols@lemmy.ml 122 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Beehaw "moderators" don't have an issue with their user base checking out other communities. As is clearly obvious from the fact that they aren't defederated from all other instances.

They do have an issue with droves of unvetted users from other instances trolling and harassing their community though. And the most effective way to deal with that currently is to defederate from the instances that the majority of those bad-faith users are coming from. The unfortunate (and unintentional) side effect is that Beehaw users won't be able to interact with any of the users from those instances.

This is a situation born out of a combination of

  • lack of manpower and moderation tools
  • gaps in the configuration of inter-instance interactions
  • the way the internet works

You can disagree with this decision and users are free to switch, but this meme is a poor caricature of the actual effects of Beehaw's actions and (at least in my estimation) of their intentions.

The decision to defederate is less of an attack or an indictment against the other instances and more of a practical necessity for them to protect their community.

If the user base of the lemmy verse keeps growing I wouldn't be surprised if either

  • more granular control over the way instances interact with each other is implemented and the restrictions are softened or
  • the amount of spammers and trolls reaches a level that forces more instances to vet their users and the defederation is lifted entirely or
  • more powerful moderation tools show up and in combination with a greater number of people moderating makes the pre-screening of users unnecessary
[-] asclepias@lemmy.world 48 points 1 year ago

I saw a wave of the harassing spam they were getting right before they defederated. One was a meme about lynching drag performers. Another was a picture of an erection that was posted in what looked like every feminist and trans friendly space, asking if it was bigger than the ones owned by the denizens of the communities. I'm sure it was just a small fraction of what they were dealing with as more shitty little hatemongers find their way to Lemmy, but I happened to catch it by sorting by new at exactly the wrong time. I can't blame the Beehaw mods for not wanting to deal with the psychological toll that comes with manually moderating that kind of content.

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[-] Reliant1087@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago

Yeah. I'm surprised by how hostile ordinary users have been at this point. Beehaw defedrated after the mods were swamped and most of the content they had to deal with was from these two instances.

I have accounts on both and I was just reading a discussion on beehaw where both the owners of lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works had chimed in and everyone was talking about how to get federated back in the future after beehaw have had a chance to get more moderators and the influx of users stabilizes at the end of the month.

My only gripe is that all of my negative interactions at this point have been with people from lemmy.ml so why do they remain while the other two were defederated? But that might be just my experience.

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[-] Aurix@lemmy.world 115 points 1 year ago

Dislike the meme, because I fully believe the beehaw decisions have solid, purely technical, grounds.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago

The very existence of that community boils down to people screaming the word "Tankie" at one another while trying to reproduce the most cringe corners of old Reddit.

Beehaw mods are just another group of power tripping nerds common to the social media space. These technical issues are all outgrowths of their desperate need to control discourse.

[-] WFH@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago

I swear I've never heard "tankie" before a week ago and now I'm on Lemmy I read it 50 times a day.

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[-] Aurix@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

I see little proof for that yet. They behave like a small forum which reached its capacity.

[-] vimdiesel@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

I mean that's literally what they say in their sign up form, but a bit more self congratulatory, so it's not really a surprise is it? They don't want to deal with randos and reserve the right to kick anybody out for what they consider "asshole" behavior.

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[-] user@lemmy.world 41 points 1 year ago

thats great! people think differently.

[-] ColaEuphoria@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago

I'm hoping they re-federate soon after their technical gripes are ironed out. Seems like a promising community, but only time will tell.

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[-] rockettaco37@lemmy.world 96 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

And this a prime example of why the multi-instance system is great. Don't like one instance? Go to another one.

EDIT: I also wish to say that I feel both sides of the situation have merit. Yes, it sucks that we've been defederated, but in all fairness, there legitimately was an issue with abusive users causing havoc over on Beehaw.

[-] BananaTrifleViolin@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah I think Beehaw have a clear ethos and want to protect that. I think the misunderstanding is from the new people influxing into Lemmy/Kbin (me included) - they don't have to be a part of the wider Fediverse. They're big by the standards of Lemmy/Kbin when people arrived so people are suprised that they don't seem to "want" a big influx - they were expecting them to embrace redditors and want to be the new reddit. They understandably want to be able to moderate their communities and that's difficult with the current tools. They may also want to screen their users which may not be ultimately sustainable in a federate model.

Beehaw will continue and succeed in it's aims but it's probably not going to be a big player long term, but I don't think it wants to be the mass choice. Lemmy.world and Fedia.io / kbin.social at the moment seem like more likely bets long term as they're embracing the growth, and analogous communities to big familiar Reddit communities are being created which will be clear places to go for future influxes.

[-] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 82 points 1 year ago

Let them do what they want. The communities you wanna check out will be available elsewhere with time.

[-] dragontamer@lemmy.world 139 points 1 year ago

What bothers me about this is that the administrators at sh.itjust.works, beehaw.org, and lemmy.world are all being adults about this.

While this Reddit-like stampede is already trying to create an us-vs-them environment.

It's fine. The adults are adulting. Maybe a bit of Reddit deprogramming is all that is needed for people to become more reasonable.

[-] mattchu_c@lemmy.world 49 points 1 year ago

Exactly! I'm new here (from Reddit) it's very clear that some of us new ppl are getting confused as to why instances are having to defed and are getting upset at the admins.

We are the reason!

The admins are working hard with the extra traffic and increased exposure to content that may not have previously been welcome in their communities.

My fellow Reddit refugees, post and comment on the content you want to see, not the drama and the uncertainty right now. Find your ppl in the new communities and start sharing and conversing like the good old days on Reddit.

[-] lavendedreams@waveform.social 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The Reddit deprogramming goes deep, for sure. I still find myself deleting comments here after typing them out because there is a 50/50 chance of getting abuse or arguments from someone for basically anything you post on that site.

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[-] poorlytunedAstring@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

I'm hoping that the overall lack of certain systemic encouragements from commercial socials that everyone has become horrifically used to interacting with will squash a lot of this kind of behavior over time. That is, the bullshit no longer serves the algo that doesn't exist herre, and the lack of positive feedback will either cause them to change their ways or just leave.

I wonder if Lemmy's upvote system overweights the first few upvotes the way Reddit did. That drove people to make high engagement posts since a sudden flurry of comments on a rage-bait post tended to slingshot stuff to the top reliably. If Lemmy doesn't do that, it will help. The lack of eyeballs in Lemmyverse should discourage bots to some degree.

I'm hoping the same for Mastodon. A LOT of the behaviors that people have internalized come down to trying to game the algorithm with hot takes and such, but the limited virality of the Mastodon platform will hopefully discourage all their usual bullshit, or they'll go.

I think the people who just want Reddit will return to it, at least for a while, since Lemmy was just their methadone and the heroin store is back open now. Me, I've been peeling away from both Reddit and Twitter for a long time so I'm ready to move on. There was a distinct culture on the Fediverse before all these sudden surges in users, hopefully once things settle that culture will get a chance to assert itself again.

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[-] OtakuAltair@lemmy.world 79 points 1 year ago

Nothing wrong with that imo. If you don't like it, just use another instance.

This system means people can foster their instances to be however they want, and that's great!

Also, fyi, if you're on lemmy.world, leave any beehaw comms you've joined and join alternate comms in other instances. The beehaw comms are going to be very empty on your end soon.

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[-] _number8_@lemmy.world 69 points 1 year ago

beehaw initially seemed like a nice good natured well rounded place but they got controlling and weird very quickly. never even let me in, i typed pretty good faith answers and haven't heard shit ofc

[-] user@lemmy.world 43 points 1 year ago

check out their modlog. they have way too many unnecesary bans or post removals. wasting energy instead of focusing on the real trolls.

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[-] danielton@kbin.social 38 points 1 year ago

Toxic positivity is absolutely a thing.

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[-] madception@sh.itjust.works 45 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Coming from sh.itjust.works. It seems there is a pattern of some attacks to forcing defederating some lemmy instances. Those threads can be found on both sh.itjust.works and lemmy.world. There are several vocal users dominating those threads (some user even reaches 20+ comments written in the same thread). Those user whose complaining user has total against, and already hostile to the instance they dislike, and interact to the other instances with bad faith, provoking, and insulting those instance. I believe this is some sort of coordinated pattern to break fediverse into echo-chamber.

IMO, defederation should be used as last resort, because normal user, especially seeking small niches, will be affected the most. In case of beehaw, there are tons of factors that are justifiable. I wish this defederation drama is not become the defining feature on both lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works.

I believe individual user can block communities and users, plus block instance feature is in the works. I wish the people who starts those threads can just do that.

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[-] BobbyBandwidth@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago

Yeah, they basically make you write a cover letter. I don’t even write cover letters for jobs I want. Definitely not going to write one to be approved for an Internet forum.

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[-] Zednix@lemmy.ca 29 points 1 year ago

if they want to hide in a lil hug box that is their perogative

[-] SpacemanSpiff@kbin.social 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think it’s a fair point. They won’t be able to remain federated to many instances if their point of contention is open-enrollment.

I understand needing the Lemmy moderation tools to improve and that it’s temporary, but the damage to their own communities and users may not be temporary.

Their users will turn inward and end up preferring their own communities—which is fine. However it also means that non-beehaw users will shy away from those communities in favour of others, lest their home site get de-federated at some point for the same reasons. These effects combined means slow-to-grow, low-visibility communities in the fediverse, and increases the chance that their communities may dwindle if others of the same subject become pre-eminent outside of Beehaw.

In short, while I understand their reasons, I think that it risks making Beehaw.org permanently insular and ultimately much more similar to a non-fediverse website.

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[-] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

They've only been the most popular instance for like 3 days and the mods there are already power tripping.

Unfortunately, "Defederating" is the same as "Banning yourself from everybody else", so I trust that people will vote with their (virtual) feet and move to instances with a more diverse set of federations.

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[-] Larry@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

I can't believe that people paying to host an instance want it to not get flooded

This is 1984 or something

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[-] Soltros@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

They had some quality communites. Ah well, we can make them here with blackjack and hookers.

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[-] CaviarX@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

can anyone tell me what happened to the beehaw?What I only know about is that it's about CCP.

[-] Earthwormjim91@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

They only have 4 admins for their server and the massive influx of people across the board, but mainly Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works being two of the biggest instances with open registration, was apparently causing them issues.

They have a very curated instance they’re wanting to have and that’s on them. While they’re in the top 5 for users currently, that probably won’t last. As more people join, they’ll end up joining instances that don’t ask for answers to question forms.

It’ll be fine. Beehaw will refederate or they’ll wither.

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[-] eatham@aussie.zone 27 points 1 year ago

They defederated us because we allowed open registration

[-] speff@melly.0x-ia.moe 24 points 1 year ago

...go on..? And...?

And because this instance had open registration, it quickly became one of the biggest instances. Trolls were using the open registration + federation to harass their community. Because there are a lack of mod tools and the fact they only have 4 mods, they couldn't keep up. In order to keep the community they wanted in tact, they decided to temporarily defederate until they're better equipped to handle it.

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[-] Otome-chan@kbin.social 20 points 1 year ago

beehaw doesn't have moderators, only 4 admins. they have closed signups and try hard to curate a particular style of community. lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works have open signups. some of those users went on beehaw communities to troll, and the amount was too much for beehaw admins to manage in terms of moderation. so they defederated.

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[-] icy_mal@kbin.social 18 points 1 year ago

I think it's a healthy part of the growth of the Fediverse. Maybe it ends up being a good idea, maybe not. Hopefully everyone can keep an open mind and learn some lessons along the way both with successes and failures. Let's be real, if this is what kills the Fediverse then the Fediverse was doomed from the start.

This is all early days and I'm just enjoying the ride. It's really just refreshing that it's not some VC backed mega corp making these decision.

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