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[-] voltaric@lemmy.world 206 points 1 year ago

For those who don't know, the US systematically mutilates the genitals of baby boys and young boys.Sciences points to the foreskin being a protective and erogenous dual layered membrane.

It is not 'one side' pushing this. This is how the American people take their aggression out on males.

[-] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 188 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You had me until the last sentence. There are a lot of deeply misguided—and plain fucking stupid—reasons that circumcision has become seen as the 'norm' in the US, but I don't think it's how the American people takes its aggression out on men?? That's a pretty unhinged thing to think. I understand the anger and frustration at genital mutilation of babies (bc that's what it is, in my opinion), but let's come back to earth a bit.

EDIT: since this comment is getting attention, I just wanted to add that it really does seem like people are waking up to how fucked circumcision is. We just had a baby, and as part of our stack of information brochures given to us by the hospital (in Oklahoma, a deeply red state), there was a whole page dedicated to circumcision pros and cons. You could tell it heavily favored not circumcising, and preserving bodily autonomy was it's own full bullet point on the cons side, as well as busting myths that people perpetuate trying to justify it still.

Also, in our infant care courses, they showed some really awful pictures of freshly-circumcised baby penises. We had already decided not to circumcise for obvious moral reasons, but that made us feel even more secure in our decision. I feel like more parents need to see that stuff to make them realize what's actually going to be done to their baby with the procedure.

All that to say, I think there's hope for decreasing the occurrences of this deeply awful cultural practice!

[-] brlemworld@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago

Insurance companies should do what they do and make it be a cosmetic surgery and not cover it. It should cost thousands in cash.

[-] rollerbang@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Even better would be to simply banun, unless there are proven medical reasons.

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[-] voltaric@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago
[-] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 56 points 1 year ago

None of that has anything to do with the US "taking aggression out on males". Circumcision should be stopped but you're grasping for reasons here--there's no countrywide conspiracy to continue pushing it. The reasons are from historical pseudoscience and it's been in decline for 30 years.

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[-] MeaanBeaan@lemmy.world 35 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

While I whole heartedly disagree with the practice of circumsizing babies. (babies can't consent therfore an unnecessary procedure is just flat out unethical) It's not really true to say science shows that the foreskin is erogenous or even that circumcision affects sexual pleasure.

There is a bit of conflicting data out there so there is still some debate over the fact but right now the data leans heavily toward there being little to no adverse affects on sexual pleasure. And in fact some anecdotal evidence actually seems to show that the opposite may be true; that circumsized penises may actually be more sensitive to sexual stimuli.

Again though, I can't stress enough how much I believe circumsicion is wrong.

Source

Edit: hey guys. Coming back to this and uh, have learned some things. I'd like to retract this statement pretty please. Please forgive me.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago

The studies around this are very often heavily biased.

The main reason it was pushed in the states in the first place was because of an anti-masturbatory craze.

Growing up (like 25 years ago) it was a bit weird how lotion was so strongly shorthand for masturbation in American TV and movies. Didn't really get it until I learned a lot of circumcised guys prefer or even require lotion for masturbation.

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[-] LANIK2000@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

Curious study. I personally only have my self as a test subject, so it's quite subjective, however I use the foreskin quite a bit for stimulation, not really as an erogenous zone, more of a way to slide it in, it also helps prevent lubricants from drying up, since without at least spit it just hurts. It's REALLY sensitive under there and fucking hurts when rubbed by just about anything else, if I didn't have foreskin, it would have to become significantly more numb before I could rejoin society. Actual sex might not be as affected, but masturbation as I know it would cease to be.

[-] MeaanBeaan@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

That's really interesting actually. Might be why there's reports of things being more sensitive after adult circumsion. You're removing a protective layer that's been covering that super sensitive part of you all your life. All of a sudden it's gone and now that part is exposed.

This is gonna be a silly anology but I wonder if it's anything like playing guitar. When you first start, your fingertips hurt a bunch but as you play you build up calluses in addition to the fingertips just becoming partially numb so it stops hurting as much.

[-] BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago

If I remember correctly, the top layers of the glans keratinize (in a similar way to your hands may form callouses) causing a long term loss in sensitivity. Adult circumcisions are probably more sensitive post op because the glans is left completely exposed when it was once covered and hasn't had the time to adapt. I'm uncircumcised and the thought of boxers brushing up against my bits while my heads' exposed sounds fucking awful haha

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[-] Olgratin_Magmatoe@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It’s not really true to say science shows that the foreskin is erogenous or even that circumcision affects sexual pleasure.

https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.06685.x

"The glans of the circumcised penis is less sensitive to fine touch than the glans of the uncircumcised penis. The transitional region from the external to the internal prepuce is the most sensitive region of the uncircumcised penis and more sensitive than the most sensitive region of the circumcised penis. Circumcision ablates the most sensitive parts of the penis."

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/

"This study confirms the importance of the foreskin for penile sensitivity, overall sexual satisfaction, and penile functioning. Furthermore, this study shows that a higher percentage of circumcised men experience discomfort or pain and unusual sensations as compared with the uncircumcised population. Before circumcision without medical indication, adult men, and parents considering circumcision of their sons, should be informed of the importance of the foreskin in male sexuality. "

Source

Heads up, that source is written by Brian J. Morris, who is rather infamous having a circumcision fetish, and has a habit of peddling shitty studies meant to skew cultural acceptance of circumcision. Nine times out of ten, when people post pro-circumcision studies, they're from him. He is downright obsessed with it, constantly pumping out studies and publications solely about circumcision.

https://en.intactiwiki.org/wiki/Circlist

Take this above link with a grain of salt, it is literally from intact wiki, but still.

Here is a more educated breakdown:

https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1078529309478838272.html

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

As the owner of a foreskin, fuck science. Yes, it is erogenous.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 1 year ago

there isn't conflicting data, there's people without foreskins not knowing what they've lost and people with foreskins who don't know how to jerk it properly.

as someone with a foreskin i can tell you with the utmost certainty that it is an erogenous zone and makes the experience infinitely better, it is unfathomable to me how circumcized people are even capable of masturbation and intercourse, it's like trying to swim without feet.

[-] BlueMagma@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago

Wasn't it the point of religious nutter ? To prevent kids and people in general from masturbating because they think it is sin ? IMO it ls very obvious that it reduces sexual pleasure.

[-] sparkle@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Brian Morris is a sadistic fundamentalist Christian creep and a fraud

There's also this comment that goes into it well

He was also an advocate for female circumcision (which is illegal in most of the non-muslim world and is mostly used as a mechanism to prevent women from having sex or to remove the pleasure from sex, it's a very cruel act)

In the same thread you can find this (the link doesn't work anymore though)

Another person already wrote about the academic bias that Brian Morris has, and how he's trying to tilt the body of research to support circumcision. It's also important to note that Brian Morris has a circumcision fetish, he gets sexual pleasure from seeing people getting circumcised and he is a member of the Gilgal Society, a circ fetish group. His name has been included in Gilgal pamphlets and in some of his early research papers he thanked the Gilgals for providing information and support.

You can verify some of the information I wrote on this page https://www.circumstitions.com/morris.html

I recently found a sub called r/DebunkingIntactivism (a "pro-circumcision" sub) and it's... it's fucking nutters. The people there talk like they've completely lost their minds. It's basically where a bunch of insecure circumcised dudes go to fume over other people not being mutilated, and make "slurs" for them and stuff. Anyways the few weirdos that are active in that sub love to cite that guy and only that guy a lot.

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[-] voltaric@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

False. Educate yourself on the ridged band and frenulum

[-] MeaanBeaan@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago

I mean. I provided an actual source for my statement with aggregated data supporting my point. You, however, have not.

Sounds like you need to be educated.

And also the frenulum is not the foreskin.

[-] voltaric@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Propaganda and bad faith. Get out of here with your pseudoscience

Brian Morris is a proven fraud

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[-] aidan@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Just to add: its not unique to the US, its even more common in many African, Middle Eastern, and majority Muslim countries

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[-] moistclump@lemmy.world 145 points 1 year ago

I feel like the same people who are antiabortion are pro circumcision. This meme makes it sound like it’s the pro choice crowd are also the ones pushing circumcision, which is misleading no?

[-] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 74 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It is all coming from the Puritan ideology pushing the completely outdated and unrealistic idea that sexuality should be exclusively within the confines of marriage. Even the majority of the people pushing this ideal aren't following it themselves.

Circumcision is a way to discourage masturbation. This also means that they are against contraception which, according to them, promote extramarital sex. Abortion is only the tip of the iceberg of what they would ban if they were even given the chance and we've already seen them move on to attacking contraception in some places where they've already banned abortion.

No matter how they're trying to dress it as it is obviously a religion-motivated movement and should not be allowed to force its views on the people. It pisses me off that through their ideological reasoning they have also decided to fight stem cell research. We could have cured so many diseases and disabilities if it wasn't for these religious zealots.

[-] borari@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago

Do you have a source on the circumcision being a tool to deter masturbation? I grew up understanding that it was yet one more thing that the Christians co-opted from the Jewish faith, and it was done because Christians wanted to cosplay gods chosen people.

Anecdotally, I’ve never heard a single person complain about masturbation difficulties due to being circumcised. I mean I guess if you performed the procedure at puberty it would be even more horrifying and traumatizing than doing it at birth, but I’m just not making the connection here.

[-] wer2@lemm.ee 35 points 1 year ago

'Discouraging the act of male masturbation quickly became a “major reason why doctors, educationists and childcare experts sought to introduce widespread circumcision.”'

https://journals.troy.edu/index.php/test/article/download/386/302

This was the 1800s, and then after it was more of "this is just what we do now".

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[-] borari@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don’t know where you live, if it’s in Europe maybe it’s different. In the US, I know many pro-choice people who have gone the circumcision route for the own kids. For those who don’t want or have kids, quite a few have said they prefer cut guys. It’s still very much a normalized societal thing in the US.

[-] loutr@sh.itjust.works 36 points 1 year ago

Yeah, in Europe (or in France at least), if you're circumcised you're either Muslim, Jewish or had a medical issue.

[-] d00ery@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm from the UK and can confirm It's not standard here, perhaps in other parts of Europe (but not France.)

Edited to clarify that the United Kingdom has not physically moved location, nor has the continent of Europe been redefined (at least not that I'm aware of)

[-] ma11en@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago
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[-] xantoxis@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah I don't entirely follow the logic here, but I think the idea is:

  • women complain about abortion rights
  • but men also have body autonomy grievances
  • if men choose to accept their own grievances as unresolvable, then women should, too.

I don't know the poster in question, so it could also be "this argument, but ironically"

[-] Treczoks@lemmy.world 43 points 1 year ago

Dude, just ask your dumb parents.

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[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

If I had a son he'd keep his foreskin until he can decide. I was there when they did my nephew's and fuck all of that.

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[-] pyre@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

who says pro choice people demand circumcision. most pro-choice people would probably leave the choice to the kid when they grow up enough to have an opinion on it. and if they don't actively think that, I'm sure most can be very easily convinced to do so.

[-] Wilzax@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Why the fuck is a postmenopausal women giving this presentation? Neither issue pertains to her.

(This is a commentary on a male-dominated supreme court overturning Roe v. Wade)

[-] lseif@sopuli.xyz 17 points 1 year ago

maybe... she was forced to give birth before her menopause. or maybe she just has empathy for her fellow women

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[-] SOMETHINGSWRONG@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago

Another .world banger take lmfao

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