23 June last year i made the first daily thread here, so like an okay partner, happy anniversary everyone for a few days ago.
Mate we're in May. Hasn't been a year yet.
The kids have discovered my old Transformers, which have been at my parent's house for the last 40 years.
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It's like watching Woody and Buzz being played with by the next generation. Seeing my old friends playing with my kids.
That's really sweet. They were my favourite toys as a kid as well.
It was Transformers and Lego. My Lego collection (which is tiny compared to theirs) was absorbed into their Lego years ago.
Good toys are for generations. 💖
( I know this is kinda unpopular, but I like the Transformers movies.
They are well made, look great, have good actors, and the stories are meaningful. True, they are kids movies but being kids movies doesn't make them lame. )
I'm in a cunt of a mood and I'm about to insult one or more people. Who the fuck orders a salad from a pizza shop?
Just finished doing a dress alteration for the lady that runs our local caff at the end of the street. Was able to fix her issue with a bought dress that was too long to dance in, but needed the long train for the photos. Heh heh, button and loop to hook up the train worked again! Free coffee all next week for 5 mins work and a button from the stash! Sewing is close to being the ultimate trade goods.
A coffee in the cool morning light,
Steam wafting lazily, taking flight.
Cold fingers grip the mug, quite tight,
A coffee in the cool morning light.
Sip sip aahhhhhhh
Oh noes! A text advising my medicare has been suspended due to unusual activity! How legitimate!!
-_-
I'm going to lose all my coles points ( i don't shop at coles ) and I have a fine for not paying my toll ( I don't drive )
Filling out passport applications. Fucking nightmare if you were born overseas with a non English spelling birth certificate with wrong dates therefore the JP translation is wrong, citizenship paper's wrong and marriage certificate is wrong. This is going to be a nightmare to undo. Just ranting.
Firefox is the best mobile browser for android. No ads, no tracking and most importantly, automatic paywall bypassing for news sites.
Wish I'd switched sooner.
Also: if you miss the old google search, try udm14.com
This was created by Google to bypass ads and AI results. Enjoy!
And I have an interview with a recruiter tomorrow! Fingers crossed!
I keep having weird dreams at my current accom. Last night it was a very vivid one where I'd somehow had to move into a share house full of irritatingly self-absorbed and messy adults who were in their little northside cliques and weren't keen on making space for me. It was so alienating and made me desperate to move back to my own place. I bolted awake thinking I needed to email my previous landlord asap and beg to go back to my own apartment. The relief I felt when I realised a few minutes later that I didn't need to do any of that...
The day before it was about my brother betraying my location to my dad. Definitely a theme of despair and being trapped, and waking up to remember what freedoms I do have.
I think it's the humidity. 90%+ every day indoors. It always brings up bad memories...
Yesterday was the only day on the island where we've had sun. Today it's overcast again and this afternoon it's back to more rain... slept in massively after two days of hiking (with a thoroughly unconditioned body), time to get outta bed and go walk to the nearest town for some coffee and to get some postcards.
How on earth do the trees in Japan look so naturally stylish over waterbodies though?!? Is it the tiered structure of the crown?
pretty even in the rain
My dreams last night were weird like that too. My house became some sort of domestic violence shelter and then 2 crazy guys with baseball bats came over because they wanted to kill me. They attacked an old lady who worked outside and then broke the door down and for some reason I tried to confront them which didn't go well. Then I woke up. I actually had to turn on my light and do a double take and then had to calm down for about half an hour because the fear translated to real life and I thought the baseball bat people were actually in our house
Yesterday was the only day on the island where we've had sun.
I think Australia is a little bigger than an island, but ditto. It was a nice sunny day yesterday. Still chilly, but the sun was out
I would go to bed now if I thought I could sleep through the night 😴😴😴 bed and audiobook seems so cosy
I'm considering it. Bed is so comfy and I have my kindle fixed, and loaded with books to read.
Themed lunch notes for tomorrow after a visit to the Dandenong Botanic Gardens today.
you know it's cold when the morning birds aren't chirping
hooray for left overs from the freezer , I'm having chicken curry, rice with nuts and some chutney
Friends visiting is always awesome because of how far away I live. Enjoy your day everyone ☀️
Word vomit and mental health incoming, feel free to skip
My sister told me today that my ex seemed fake the way he acted towards me. I agreed with her. It sucks that none of it was real except the love that I felt for him. Also that he seems gay. Friends also said he seemed gay. That explains a lot and would make sense.
Even though I forgive myself for staying with someone who didn't love me, I've had too many coffees today and lost my three day no crying streak. I logically know that the past has happened and it isn't worth dwelling on it. I logically know that I'm better off without the relationship, but the heart side of me kinda collapsed today. That is okay. Healing is not linear. He's definitely not sitting there crying over me, he's probably forgotten me by now. I just feel like I have no direction in life right now and everything feels pointless and bleak. I'm scared and I don't know if I'm going to make it through the rest of the year. But the fact that I have no direction or clue in life really means that there are opportunities out there that I can't see yet.
That therapy appointment couldn't come sooner. Just have to hold on for two more weeks.
Some better things:
Sorry for spilling all the negative emotions.
I understand how you feel. The last relationship I was in turned out to be a sham of sorts. It threw me into a spiral for a little while.
I guess for me, I refuse to let someone have that kind of control over my state of mind. Easier said than done, sure, it's hard work but I think it's a good perspective to have.
All you can do, is live the best life that you can, because you deserve that. Because you don't need someone shitty ruining your vibe.
The guitar/drum idea is a good one. Making music can be really cathartic. Helps get the gunk out.
Good luck 🐱
You know when you eat so much you can’t get comfortable in bed for a while?
I feel like I’ll never eat again!
I woke up just after 6, forgot to go back to sleep and now it's probably time to get up
Still COVID positive so still isolating at home, but not feeling too shabby so I have spent the morning absolutely smashing out some garden/outside house jobs in this fabulous weather, and am now going to reward myself by lounging on the terrace with a book.
The one ABC quiz I do alright on and nobody's posting about it? Boo
I got 35/50 which is probably my best score yet. 2 were lucky guesses though
Just sat through an extremely boring 70 minute meeting listening to a panel of vote counters slowly call out 289 ballot papers.
The majority of the 200 present were on their phones scrolling a social feed or playing games.
I've recently started adding healthy squirts of lemon juice to almost everything I cook (generally some kind of mix of pasta, rice, veg and meat/fish, flavoured with garlic onion and chilli), and it has been making a big difference. Before lemon juice I was adding vinegar for a while which helped, but lemon juice is making everything much more tasty
When life gives you lemons - use them on your food! To hell with the whole lemonade bit.
Suitcase preferences wanted. Soft-case or hard case and why?
How much do you travel? Op shops often have plenty of serviceable suitcases.
Giant sleep followed by slow walk and coffee and now I am sitting on my couch with the sun streaming in. I am starting to think the cold I had a few weeks ago might have been the Rona (I tested negative but it was about 5 days in before I got to test)... That would explain the fatigue and ongoing breathlessness and shitty feeling.
Sun and walks and sleep and lots of water today to try to kick the last of it. My floors can stay unmopped.
I had today marked for cleaning the floors but it’s too nice in the sun, I’m having trouble making my way back inside to start the job.
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