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this post was submitted on 13 Jul 2023
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Given your post, it sounds like the cancellation isn’t actually okay with you, and I would tell him so.
I do want to go, but I don't want him to suffer for it, it's not worth that. I'd rather cancel to make him comfortable. For me it's more about doing something special to celebrate the milestone, it feels like our first big anniversary being the 5th, but that's probably just me holding on to some weird tradition. I'm thinking about making a nice dinner with him (or maybe for him if he's still in pain). He's always been the planner in our relationship, so I really want to do something for him to show him that I appreciate him.