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TOPPED RULE (lemmy.world)

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[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 123 points 5 months ago

Still means "bested" to me. I'm not hip to sexual slang.

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 61 points 5 months ago

Clearly you are if you know what type of slang "topped" is lol

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 108 points 5 months ago

At my age I just assume anything I don't know is sexual.

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 67 points 5 months ago

Don't you come "bussin' no cap" at me young man, I'm happily married.

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 31 points 5 months ago

Such rizz for a jballer!

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 28 points 5 months ago

Are you... are you hitting on me?

[-] Syltti@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago

Reading all this, I gotta ask; Did it work?

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 25 points 5 months ago

Yes, veroxii and I are married now.

[-] 0ops@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

🍾🍾🍾

[-] don@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

fr no cap that’s so skibidi

[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 months ago

Neil : "Ah, here's one. This means that someone has just done something which has never been done before. 'Richard Moore of Sugarland, Texas, hollowed out an eggplant and filled it with hot sauce and nickels.' And amazingly, it's not a weird sex thing. 99% of all new human behaviors are weird sex things. But not in this-- oh, no, it is a weird sex thing, yeah."

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 27 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

It's clearly sexual from the context of the meme. Pretty much any time this happens, it's sexual in nature. Otherwise it would just be confusing rather than presented as humorous.

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 5 months ago

"Topping" means taking an active role in sex, whereas "bottoming" is a passive role.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.de 19 points 5 months ago

Nyeah... partly.

If that were entirely true, a "power bottom" would make no sense.

The terms sexual usage originated in gay circles where it only delineates who penetrates and who gets penetrated. Traditional views on sex ascribe a submissive or passive role to the bottom and an active or dominating role to the top, but you can totally have a power bottom who takes control and an active role in the intercourse but is the one getting penetrated.