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submitted 1 year ago by JRepin@lemmy.ml to c/technology@lemmy.ml

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/1874605

A 17-year-old from Nebraska and her mother are facing criminal charges including performing an illegal abortion and concealing a dead body after police obtained the pair’s private chat history from Facebook, court documents published by Motherboard show.

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[-] LeZero@lemmy.world 567 points 1 year ago

To the people shitting on the idea of a default defederation with Meta, how about we deferedate not because it will affect us as posters but because they are evil pieces of shit?

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 215 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

yeah, the difference is pretty stark:

  • lemmy: we'll give you a way to dm anyone on site, but please don't use that, if you set up an app on this other open source service we're not affiliated with (which is basically an encrypted discord) we'll do our best to make it as seamless for you as possible. we'll keep warning you for your own privacy.
  • meta/facebook: aggressively keeps you on-platform for spying purposes; literally killed xmpp a decade ago and they'll fuckin do it again (if we let them)

They trust me. Dumb fucks.

- Mark Zuckerberg

(yes it sounds like satire but that's a real quote)

[-] nLuLukna@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 year ago

The Lemmy DM is imo actually quite important. If I want to get in touch with someone about a post, nothing more. It is an easy option, and serves a purpose. It isn't imo meant to be used for anything else.

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 30 points 1 year ago

yep, it's important that we have this capability, but it's also nice that unlike other platforms that do their best to lock you in, lemmy actively pushes you toward a safer alternative

[-] pec@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

What's the name of that safer alternative?

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 15 points 1 year ago

Matrix, which is pretty much an encrypted and open-source Discord clone (at least in the same fashion as Lemmy would be a Reddit clone). I personally use Element to interact with it and have a matrix.org account, but Matrix is just like the fediverse, you can choose any instance or client you want, or even host an instance yourself. In your Lemmy settings you can set up your Matrix user, right below your email address as of 0.18.1, and if you do, a new buttons saying "send secure message" will show up on your profile, next to "send message", which will redirect people trying to message you to Matrix.

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[-] blue_zephyr@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago

I mean I agree with Zuck on that one.

[-] bluejay@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago

Was it Facebook that killed xmpp or Google? Legitimately asking because I've always seen that blamed on Google.

[-] triarius@programming.dev 14 points 1 year ago

It was Google, they Embraced, Extended, and Extinguished it with Google Chat. Then they killed that themselves.

[-] triplenadir@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 1 year ago

correction: it was both! fedbook chat also supported xmpp at first, they never federated but you could at least use it with a jabber client. then when they had enough market share they killed it.

fun semi related fact is that, at least a couple of years ago, was using modified ejabberd (ie an xmpp server) as the backend - so arguably they helped with EEE too.

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 7 points 1 year ago

google does seem to be the main culprit, but facebook still played a role as far as i'm aware. these two companies also colluded a lot so i wouldn't trust either of them with anything federated

[-] bluejay@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah they can both get fucked. Cheers

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[-] Steeve@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

How on earth did Meta kill XMPP, where is that even from lol. They didn't even have a standalone messaging app until 2011, which is after Google Talk dropped support for XMPP.

[-] bogdugg@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 year ago

Some game-of-telephone misinformation originating from this article - though it has gone from Google killed it (which this article states), to it was a protocol that allowed Facebook and Google to communicate and then got killed, to Facebook killed it.

[-] Steeve@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't even agree that Google killed it, because it's simply a messaging protocol, it doesn't "die". Maybe you could try to argue that Google killed Jabber, but I used Jabber back in the early 00s, pretty much nobody else did lol, almost all IM communication was done over MSN Messenger. Google Talk brought XMPP "users" and they left when Google sunsetted Talk in favour of Hangouts. Facebook Messenger used XMPP for a time, so if anything they "revived" it (they didn't, it was never dead), but, like all the other messaging apps, they moved to their own proprietary version to add their own features.

This is what XMPP was actually designed for, the X literally means "eXtensible", whether it's extended open source or into proprietary versions.

I feel like there's a lot of anti-tech misinformation on Lemmy and it's great to be skeptical, but honestly I think we waste a ton of time being easily ragebait'd into the wrong shit.

[-] ChrisLicht@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Video killed the radio star!

[-] Steeve@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago
[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 11 points 1 year ago

my understanding was that while google is the main culprit, facebook and google both played a big part in killing it. but since we're discussing meta/facebook here, and they're not blameless, i focused on that.

but yeah, fuck google too.

[-] Steeve@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

they're not blameless

I think we should try to do better here and provide actual reasoning to our statements instead of unbridled rage, regardless of the topic, because this isn't valuable content. I work in an adjacent industry and I believe that a lot of what people have said lately about this topic is overly sensationalized and I don't mind discussing it, but "fuck Meta/Google because they're evil" is subjective as hell and gets us nowhere except back to Reddit culture.

This discussion pyramid was a good post from the other day:

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/b48a0a91-c7a3-4cc5-a117-6deceedde205.png

Your comments are "ad hominem" at best.

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 11 points 1 year ago

Saying distrust is an ad hominem is one of the takes ever, lol. And that's what all of this boils down to, trust. Do we trust Meta with not exploiting all of our data, and turning it against us at the earliest opportunity? Do we trust Meta that they want to contribute to the fediverse, and not just hurt it because it's a competitor?

By the same logic, blocking or banning a person instead of vetting every post and comment of theirs would also be an ad hominem. But at the end of the day, it's just practical. Meta has a long and not so proud history of being extremely anti-consumer, and shoving that track record under the rug, trying to absolve them of responsibility and consequences for their actions, under the thought-terminating cliche of an ad hominem is neither productive nor practical.

Yes, people are mad at Meta, and yes, the distrust means their actions are scrutinized more than they otherwise would be, but that doesn't mean that their actions aren't actually massively anti-consumer, and that they aren't a massive liability. In this particular case, you can make the argument that they had a legal obligation to hand over the data, had they not tried to build a walled garden with no privacy they wouldn't have had the data to hand over to begin with.

(also, unrelated: you can embed images using the ![](https://image_url) syntax, and you can even add alt text in the brackets to help users with screen readers)

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think the simpler answer is more likely to be correct. The Fediverse isn't big enough to really bother Meta, but ActivityPub is a convenient way to seem cool, so they'll partially support it as long as it doesn't cost them all that much. Once the marketing gimmick has run it's course, they'll drop it.

I think the same was true for XMPP. I don't think they planned to kill XMPP and I don't think they plan to kill ActivityPub. But they did kill XMPP, and they'll probably kill ActivityPub by accident as well when they support it just well enough to pull people over.

So I'm not worried about some Meta conspiracy to kill ActivityPub, I'm worried about getting steamrolled on accident for a similar reason that people don't want to share locations of where they took pictures: they don't want the big mass of people coming to destroy something unique.

So my recommendation is to push for making everything E2E encrypted by default, and have every message cryptographically signed by the contributor. If there's something ad companies hate it's privacy, and that's what we should be pursuing. I'm not sure how that works for Lemmy, but surely there's a way for instances to manage who can decrypt messages.

[-] Steeve@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Saying distrust is an ad hominem is one of the takes ever, lol.

It is literally ad hominem, that is the definition. We aren't discussing whether we can trust Meta or not, we're discussing a specific topic.

By the same logic, blocking or banning a person instead of vetting every post and comment of theirs would also be an ad hominem.

It definitely is, but again, we aren't discussing a person or an entity, we're discussing a topic related to that person or entity. This isn't a discussion on whether Meta should be defederated or not, frankly that's simple, just join an instance that defederates with Meta or don't, or build your own! There's a ton of freedom here.

And I'm not saying ad hominem arguments can't be used, but when an argument is entirely made up of ad hominem points while discussing a specific topic it isn't a good argument.

Also, side note, as for trust I definitely don't think we can trust corporate entities, but I also don't think we can entirely trust the Fediverse as it exists already. We know there's been an influx of bot accounts, moderation tools aren't great yet, and every platform attracts bad actors.

(also, unrelated: you can embed images using the ![](https://image_url) syntax, and you can even add alt text in the brackets to help users with screen readers)

Thanks for the tip! Haven't been able to get that working well here, I think I was missing the exclamation mark.

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 6 points 1 year ago

i mean, the root comment of this chain literally says "how about we defederate them because / not because". it's not exactly an unrelated topic.

whether or not it's okay to defederate from someone just because they're evil is a good question though, but i still don't think it's an ad hominem. an ad hominem, in the popular understanding and in the sense presented in your pyramid chart, is a fallacy of devaluing an argument because of the one who said it. it's like i said "i don't believe gravity exists because it's the zuck who said it", not "i don't trust the zuck as a person and therefore don't want to work with him".

i think the argument you present here takes ad hominem to an absurd extreme, where literally any discussion of a person would become an ad hominem. it could technically fit a definition of an ad hominem, and yeah, a lot of arguments are just arguments of definition where we posit that the other person discusses the topic with our own definitions, by which they're obviously wrong. so to avoid that, yeah, under this definition it would be an ad hominem, but under this definition it means little that something is an ad hominem, discussing a person doesn't automatically devalue an argument.

the thing that earned ad hominem its low spot on your pyramid are the incorrect and baseless conclusions inherent in the former definition presented here, not the mere presence of a person in the argument. your latter definition is definitely valid, but it's unconventional and isn't consistent with the pyramid.

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[-] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

in a thread where we're discussing how meta helped religiofascists violate someone's human rights "meta is evil" is a summary, not an ad hominem

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[-] siouxsy@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah Google is more to blame for that. When they defedarated it was pretty much the end of XMPP. From what I remember, Facebook used the protocol but never opened their service for federation.

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[-] Lemmylefty@lemmy.world 57 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

And even if what I do is relatively tame, I want others to be protected from the wolf at the door.

[-] whofearsthenight@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago

This. I don't need to win, I just want Meta to lose.

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[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago

Are you saying that the individuals who run these servers and instances aren’t subject to the same laws? I read the article, and Facebook complied with a court order.

You don’t think anyone running Lemmy would do the same without access to lawyers and capital like Facebook has?

[-] LeZero@lemmy.world 50 points 1 year ago

Do you have to run your lemmy instance in the US?

Maybe do it in a less backward place

[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Not disagreeing with you there.

[-] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 19 points 1 year ago

Every interaction on Lemmy is copied to all other federated instances. There are instances all over the world with a copy of yours and my comment. They can track and use those comments for any purpose. Its both a blessing and a curse of an open federated structure.

[-] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 15 points 1 year ago

they can also scrape them. that's not really the point.

people can dm on lemmy, and only the two instances that host the people on either end of the dm (which may even be the same instance) store that dm. that instance may actually receive a subpoena. but all of this is heavily discouraged by the lemmy interface itself, instead prompting people to set up a matrix account instead, and matrix chats are end-to-end encrypted.

[-] peril33@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Its a social platfrom. Dont use it for personal communications.

[-] kevincox@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

Almost all countries have similar systems for obtaining evidence. These people were criminals, they broke the law and the legal system worked as designed to bring them to "justice". Meta was just a pawn here with very little influence.

If this story was about a murder rather than an abortion people would think that Meta did the right thing to bring the murderer to justice. As I see it the problem is that people disagree with the law and are using Meta as a scapegoat. But you don't fix stupid laws by having corporations go vigilante. I'd rather not have billionaires coming up with their own set of laws, that is a recipe for disaster. I think we need to fix the laws, which will fix the root cause of this issue.

Also use E2EE for all private information, cryptography can't be compelled to reveal your private data by a court order.

[-] LeZero@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

Do you think people who collaborated with dictatorial regimes should be excused? Because they followed the law?

Why didnt Meta implant E2EE on their private chat service then?

[-] kevincox@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago

This is what I can agree with. We could blame Meta for encouraging people to give them data. Messenger does actually have E2EE encryption (apparently) but it is quite hidden and limited in functionality. If they made it the default this wouldn't have been a position they ended up in, and they could have responded to the warrant with "We have no information matching this request."

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[-] Brownboy13@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

And how can we be sure that all the instances federated with any instance we participate on aren't run by law enforcement themselves? I'd be surprised if there aren't running instances by every major investigative agency themselves.

[-] WheeGeetheCat@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is why everyone should take steps to protect their privacy. You don't have to go 0-100 overnight. Just audit yourself and do a few things now. Keep those habits up. Then audit and add a few more things, repeat.

I need to do this myself, I've been slipping

[-] GenderNeutralBro@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 year ago

Lemmy promotes using Matrix, which is a separate service, so instance admins don't need to be in the business of hosting private conversations.

Matrix is end-to-end encrypted so even the admins of your Matrix server could not provide your chats to law enforcement.

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[-] BossDj@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago

But also fuck these laws and the people passing them and the people voting for the people passing them. They're the real evil.

We have to always assume rich corporations are going to do whatever serves their best interest. It's nature. Like a mantis is gonna bite off her mate's head when they're done mating. It's up to governing factors to keep them in check. On that note, +1 to defederate. They will cannibalize or however abuse Lemmy if it will make them a penny.

[-] burak@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think we’re realizing more and more any corporate-operated platform is luring us in to sell to us and sell us.

[-] Telodzrum@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

Any Lemmy instance would have given over the same information in this case. Meta was complying with a valid, legal search warrant.

[-] PorkrollPosadist@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If some fuckstick from Nebraska asked me to snitch on my users for something which isn't a crime in my state, I would simply tell them to fuck themselves, go ahead, and try to have me extradited. If my instance were bordering on a trillion dollars market cap, I'd hire a fucking lawyer.

[-] Telodzrum@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

You sound tough.

No you wouldn’t.

[-] FoxyZac64@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Ya. That's fucked. Just ruin someone's life like that. Holy fuck.

[-] 2MnyDcksOnThDncFlr@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

I totally agree with your sentiment... However they don't have a choice. They are legally obligated to turn that information over if they are served a warrant. Doing anything less is obstruction at the very least and they could be shut down and put into receivership.

The fault here is with the two individuals trusting a corporation to keep data private and to put the individuals interests ahead of the corporation. Neither is a realistic expectation.

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[-] DrQuint@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I vote to write this reasoning at the very top, on the sticked topics when it happens. Like, literally just write "Because Facebook is evil" and don't elaborate.

Plus, if someone shows up being a concern troll on the point, they will laser focus on it, taking the bait, we can all just block the person, a world improved.

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