You don't need either. It's not about places, so much as it's about people and conversations.

Maybe you only have used corporate centralized giant sites? Believe me, that was the anomaly.

You can't and don't visit every cafe, every club, every library, you mostly visit a few locals and seek out the rest.

Same thing here. Also with this you get actual diversity. You can change instances and still see everything!

You just have to learn how this new system works. It's far far better.