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[-] Lorela@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Surprised you could only think of Idris! Would say he's definitely female gaze in most of his roles. Off the top of my head, and as a woman who talks about celeb 'crushes' with other women, the tops are:

  • Stanley Tucci in literally anything.
  • Tom Hiddleston (Loki had way more female attention than Thor)
  • Jack Black as Bowser
  • David Harbour as Jim Hopper
  • Sean Austin (in general, but also as Bob in ST)
  • Paul Rudd (again, in almost anything)
  • Pedro Pascal (particularly as Joel)
  • Hugh Jackman in musicals (as opposed to being Wolverine)

All examples of men who, for the most part, are not obvious sex symbols in their roles, all of whom women go absolutely wild for.

[-] ch00f@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I think you're ignoring the non-physical aspects of Male Gaze.

The problem with your examples, is that in most of the stories/roles you listed, women don't do anything. Unless the story does something to elevate women beyond passive objects, it's still written for the Male Gaze where men make are in charge and make all the decisions.

[-] Lorela@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Hmm, I see your point now I've looked up the actual theory of female gaze.

It seems in the modern social media space, female gaze has been used to mean something more like "the male characters who women find attractive are the ones that show more emotional, loving, nurturing and supportive traits". So if used this way, it's not a direct contrast to male gaze. Maybe we need to call that observation something different!

I wonder if Bob (Sean Austin) does fall into the proper definition though? His character does exist for the most part to lift every other character around him, especially Joyce Byers.

[-] ch00f@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yay! Real conversation!

Thanks for taking the time to look into it. I haven’t watched The Last of Us, but from your description, it sounds right.

[-] Lorela@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

TLOU is good and potentially fits the criteria, I'm not sure actually, as the main female character is a child so inherently vulnerable and kinda reliant on this achey old man to ferry her through the apocalypse. Would still recommend, I cried like a baby through certain parts.

The Sean Astin character I'm referencing is in Stranger Things S2. I think has at least one potential example of female gaze (as a compliment to Winona Ryder's character).

Stranger Things probably isn't great for other metrics though, like the Bechdel test.

[-] ch00f@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Oh my bad. Mixed up the shows! Yeah I’ve seen S2! Completely forgot he was in it. Sean Astin is a good pick. Also killing him off so soon and so unceremoniously is an absolute crime.

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