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[-] gmtom@lemmy.world 50 points 8 months ago

I fucking love giving oral. Like 100% legit would rather give oral than receive and when its with the right person giving oral is better than 90% of sex.

[-] tiefling 10 points 8 months ago

As someone who is sex repulsed, I'm legitimately curious what about it appeals to you? I'd love to know from your perspective

[-] jdf038@mander.xyz 31 points 8 months ago

Not OC but the idea of making someone feel good makes me feel good. It's like double the dopamine for me.

I could totally see being grossed out by it when I think about it logically. In fact it is gross when I think about it logically.

[-] Emmie@lemm.ee 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Logic is fucking gross. Last I tried it it remind me that I am a meat sack of fat and blood ready to pop. I avoid it ever since

[-] Kedly@lemm.ee 4 points 8 months ago

Oral is more intimacy focussed, at least as far as giving it is concerned. As the giver you also get immediate and obvious feedback that your partner is finding pleasure in what you are doing (Or that they ARENT enjoying it if you're fucking it up)

[-] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

I'm mostly sex repulsed but I find giving oral way more manageable than penetrative sex. Mostly I just don't like being touched but yes like someone else said, knowing that you're causing the pleasure for someone else is the appealing part of it. Especially if they're vocal about it.

[-] tiefling 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

See, I feel like I'm the exact opposite. I don't mind being touched nor penetrated (toys only, w4w). Oral however just doesn't seem fun for me either way. I guess I'm just more comfortable with someone's hand than someone's head.

TBF, sex in general doesn't give me any happy chemicals so it's not something I seek out or ever get excited about.

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