As someone who’s been actively polyamorous for most of my adult life, I cannot sufficiently express how much I hate that the dipshits that are EA bros have found polyamory. It’s clear they just are looking for a morality to justify what they already wanted to do, just like in everything else, but also these are the people who take the ethical out of ethical nonmonogamy. They’re the sort of people who tell a woman what she should be interested in in bed instead of asking what she actually is interested in.