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[-] nifty@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

my point is that the root of the problem is still the conservatives who use a woman’s soft/high voice as a way to convey a political and social position

I agree, but doesn’t reacting in opposition to their ill-conceived use of women’s natural voices, and perverting those voices for an agenda, implicitly assume some kind of superiority in softer voices w.r.t women? To me, it seems like saying “these women are putting on this front because softer voices are better on women”.

I disagree that softer voices are inherently better or more attractive in women, so it doesn’t convey any social or political stance to me that someone does this on purpose to themselves. To me, their use of this type of voice seems like a misguided attempt to box out trans women from a definition of femininity or womanhood, but all they’re really doing is policing themselves for conservative men. I don’t care if they want to be this way for their men! Being that way is not inherently attractive or desirable, and attacking it this way just makes it worse for women who have this type of voice naturally.

I don’t understand why people let conservative women define any standard or definition of femininity or womanhood. They’re not the arbiters of anything.

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