Seriously, like 1 in 4 (or 5) ladies has been sexually assaulted or raped, what do you think the number for dudes that have been wrongly accused of rape?

Irrelevant. Blackstone's ratio: It is better for the guilty to walk free than for one innocent to suffer. If it applies to murder, it also applies to rape. Rape isn't worse than murder, I hope we agree there.

Especially in the context of the US's excuse for a justice system which most of this seems to be rooted in that age-old principle doesn't even begin to apply, with people getting coerced into plea deals, worse, "you're black noone will believe you".

To go ahead in such a situation and say "but think about the women he didn't rape but others raped" is to bend the narrative to justify the US' reneging on fundamental principles of justice, with the race angle involved it's even worse.

Also, side note: Sexual assault isn't rape, but combining both looks like a convenient way to pad statistics. A gal grabbing my crotch or slapping my butt is sexual assault never have I filed a criminal complaint... and neither get men asked such questions in polls.