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‘Andrew Tate is a symptom, not the problem’: why young men are turning against feminism
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Oh with added context your decisions make sense. I feel like you shouldn't be angry that some online stranger has no idea.
I didn't consider that your situation involved dealing with someone suicidal. I hope it's not hyperbole on your part.
My own position was the kid would lose out on valuable years of social development and engaging with other kids of her own age. I thought it was bullying but something that the kid was kind of dealing with in their own way but able to manage.
Since you have said that your kid has got back her courage to flip the bird on her bullies and also gotten a lot of friend, Congratulations on the win! Don't let me or anybody tell you otherwise.
Forgive me for saying "you jumped the gun" as it was judgemental. I only said it because i did not have the info you just posted.
"homeschooling" triggered concern from my end because of some horror stories i hear about kids who are at college graduation age but stunted because of a common denominator that they were homeschooled.
I appreciate it and I apologize for snapping at you. Like two days ago someone called me abusive for the "crime" of letting my daughter be a girl scout and I'm still a little touchy.
Also, to clarify, homeschooling and online schooling are very different. Homeschooling is where the parent is the teacher. I help her learn, mostly by keeping her focused and explaining things to her when she has trouble understanding, but I am not her teacher. She has live video classes with licensed teachers every day and her assignments are graded by those same teachers who also make themselves available to kids when class is not in session. And because it's a state school (although contracted out to a private company), it has to adhere to state education standards and there is no religious bullshit.
She does have friends who are homeschooled because she is part of a social group for kids who are not being traditionally schooled, but I think that's usually a terrible idea. Unless you have a teaching degree, you really don't know anything about pedagogy. It's too early to tell how those children will do once they're adults, but considering I have heard the same stories, I have the same concerns.
What's really bad here in Indiana is that you don't have to tell the state you're taking your kid out of school or prove that your kid is getting legitimately schooled. My daughter had a friend (he recently moved away) whose parents just left him at the library all day to fend for himself and had him use Khan Academy and called it his school. I felt so sorry for that kid. At least everyone who worked at the library knew him and looked out for him.