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[-] victorz@lemmy.world 121 points 9 months ago

What the fuck is this meme, honestly? What's with all the femboy stuff? There's so many ordinary people using Linux. I don't get it. And there seems to be something against Arch Linux users in particular? I use Arch and have a wife and two kids. Am I not normal? Should I become a femboy, fellas?

[-] iopq@lemmy.world 48 points 9 months ago

Who said femboys cannot have wives?

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago

I take it that's why Linux users become femboys, because they "can't get laid/are incels". Maybe I'm misunderstanding the premise of the meme.

[-] reddithalation@sopuli.xyz 11 points 9 months ago

Nah it's more about pointing out how groups of people that are into tech like linux, programming etc, seem to have a lot of lgbtq people. Anecdotally, I have seen a lot programming communities with an oddly large number of lgbtq people in them.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I see. Well, I don't appreciate that it seems like you need to be one to be a part of the community. I want all to be welcome.

[-] PeterPoopshit@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago

Just because I use Arch doesn't mean I can't get laid. I mean.. I can't get laid. But not because I use Arch.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

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[-] Steak@lemmy.ca 10 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Most real woman don't wanna marry a guy who fantasizes about being a weird little catboy.

[-] bhamlin@lemmy.world 17 points 9 months ago

But we do exist.

[-] littlewonder@lemmy.world 7 points 9 months ago

I don't believe you.

[-] eskimofry@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

But people generally don't marry "Most real women", just 1 is enough.

[-] lars@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 9 months ago

All women are real

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.de 37 points 9 months ago

Yes, you're supposed to become a femboy.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 7 points 9 months ago
[-] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.ca 34 points 9 months ago

Agreed Lemmy is rife with this shit. So much femboi fucking manga anime or whatever they call it. Cool you do you but fuck off with involving everyone else in your kink. I'm just an old fat married dude with kids trying to learn stuff.

[-] OldWoodFrame@lemm.ee 30 points 9 months ago

As long as we're careful here. People can be however they want to be. If you're saying people shouldn't be making memes that assume all people are like them, yes. If you're saying living how they want is "involving everyone else in your kink" we're getting into iffy territory.

[-] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.ca 18 points 9 months ago

I'll be careful. Keep your kinks where they belong. No matter who the fuck you are. Stop forcing them on communities they do not belong.

[-] OldWoodFrame@lemm.ee 28 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Again, sure, but dressing with a feminine aesthetic is not a kink any more than being goth is a kink. People don't have to abide by your gender norms.

[-] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.ca 14 points 9 months ago

Whatever man. They can gender all they want it has nothing to do with it. Sorry I used the wrong words to justify my distain. I could give a fuck how you or anyone else lives their life. I'm not anti anything but greed, genocide and pushing personal ideals like this onto others without warrant. If it was a "Christian" pushing it would be the same response.

[-] kurumin@linux.community 1 points 9 months ago

Sir, this is a Wendy's.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago

Yes. I subscribe to Linux memes to get memes about Linux, not femboys. It's not relatable at all for me. Guess I'll rethink my subscription. Maybe I don't belong anymore.

[-] kurumin@linux.community 2 points 9 months ago
[-] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

You want me to stay that bad?

[-] kurumin@linux.community 1 points 9 months ago

I doooo pleeeeease!

[-] CAVOK@lemmy.world 17 points 9 months ago

Very weird. Started with Slackware back in 97 or so. Still not a femboy and no desire to be one.

Maybe if I switched to arch?

[-] Allero@lemmy.today 5 points 9 months ago

Was enough for me to move to Manjaro, an Arch derivative, to become a femboy

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago
[-] kurumin@linux.community 5 points 9 months ago

His dick fell off.

[-] EuroNutellaMan@lemmy.world 15 points 9 months ago

Against?

Yes you should become a femboy.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago
[-] kttnpunk@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago

Yes, yes yes! The world needs more femboy dads. That said this happened the other way around for me. Just goes to show how much overlap there is among fringe internet cultures- I really wish we could all play nice more often.

[-] CurlyMoustache@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago
[-] victorz@lemmy.world 12 points 9 months ago

Because I don't want to. And I don't want to be made like I want to, nor should.

[-] turbowafflz@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago

Do you like genuinely think people are trying to turn you into a femboy? No one is doing that, it is just a joke. Be whatever you want, that's kind of the point.

[-] victorz@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I do not, no, I know they can't. I just don't like the attitude. If it's a joke, it's definitely weird considering the LGBTQ community is under constant pressure to conform to binary gender roles from the rest of society. But then here they're doing the same thing? Even as a joke? Especially if OP is not part of said community, but I assume they are.

I just don't think it's funny, because I know they don't enjoy it either. It's distasteful in my opinion, because the respect needs to be both ways.

[-] Huschke@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

So what you are saying is that you are still in the middle of the picture. Got it.

[-] themaninblack@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Really the anime and chicks with dicks on this website. It’s enough to make one explode with sexual desire for a boy toy.

[-] summerof69@lemm.ee 4 points 9 months ago

Well, the OP and at least 600+ people can relate. So clearly something is wrong with you!

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