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is there anyway to shift my bi cycle?
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this post was submitted on 28 Jun 2023
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I don't think your attraction per se is a controllable thing, but sometimes I find I need to spend some time in queer spaces/talking with queer friends/consuming queer media/art to feel a sense of connection to the broader LGBT+ community and the community of gay/bi/men who have sex with men subcultures.
Remember, bisexuals in "straight" relationships or outside of relationships who are feeling more attracted to the opposite gender are still bisexual.
So I'd say, relax, don't sweat it, but maybe see about making some bi/gay friends or spending times in LGBT+ spaces?