I'm saying it has the same energy as one of those insufferable Christians popping their heads into every conversation at all and saying "And that's why ya'll need Jesus^TM^."

Someone starts blabbering about the "patriarchy" in a discussion about men's issues, they're not contributing to the discussion. They don't genuinely care about the topic at hand. They've found an excuse to insert themselves into conversation.

I might really misunderstand what patriarchy means in this context. But I'm using the definition "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it".

I don't see how this is relevant to the "masculinity that gets taught to men", as this idea is also perpetuated by women, so I don't see how having a matriarchal or neutral society would fix this.

It seems to be more the result of the expectation that men need to be providers and protectors, which can be an expectation regardless of if the society is patriarchal or matriarchal or neither.

Sorry if I'm being ignorant. I'm just trying to understand better