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Check on your male friends to see if they need help
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this post was submitted on 14 Nov 2023
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Men might understand that they are unhappy, but I don't think most men blame that on the cultural ideals of masculity that are pushed on them their whole lives. If most men do understand that, then why do they struggle so much to change? The common messaging in men's mental health is usually around telling men that it is ok to have feelings, ok to talk about them, ok to cry and show emotions. If men understand that they are being victimised by other men (and themselves) and the social pressures to conform, why is it so difficult to get those messages through to them?
And I mean, the fact that you feel the need throw blame on women here (who are also victimised by the same system) seems like you're not actually blaming the patriarchy?
You seem to conflate "men" and "patriarchy".
Yup, I was trying to think of a way to say this succinctly, but you've done it. It's sad that the majority of the thinking here is "y'all are doing this to yourselves". I think I've basically given up trying to argue this point with people already. Seems like a lost cause, and not something that will change in my lifetime.