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[-] qooqie@lemmy.world 107 points 1 year ago

I think women should maybe leave these places if they can. I wouldn’t even let a man think about having kids with me if I were a woman in any of those shit states.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 131 points 1 year ago

...maybe leave these places if they can.

These laws are targeted towards poor women who can't fight back. This one is making the news because she's suing. I guarantee that if an attorney hasn't taken up the fight, you'd never hear about it.

[-] persolb@lemmy.ml 29 points 1 year ago

This seems like a good place for a charity… although the cost isn’t just a bus ticket but also probably temporary housing/income as well.

Shit. I just realized I’m suggesting a refugee agency for US states.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Yeah it’s increasingly needed, the problem is that they want all this national

[-] Sternout@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago

Sounds like a good idea

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[-] SirStumps@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

I completely agree with your statement. The issue with OPs statement is that it's ideal for those with means but unrealistic for those without.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

In some ways the opposite. When I left my shit tier flyover village I had nothing. Nothing was connecting me back home and there was no backup plan. It would be a lot more difficult for me to move now given all the roots I have put down.

What we think we control ends up controlling us. That mortgage that was supposed to make us free of landlords, that house we can't sell, that car that we struggle to find parking for, that career we worked so hard on building. I am not advocating giving anything up I am pointing out you have absolute freedom when you have nothing to lose and can't stay where you are.

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[-] Crow@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

If you are poor, wouldn’t it make more sense to be poor somewhere else? Starting over when you never had much would be my top priority rather than stay in these places.

[-] Misconduct@startrek.website 12 points 1 year ago

With what money? You can't just travel across the country for free lol. Getting to another state alone is a good chunk of money for gas a lot of the time. Then what? Sleep in their car? Alone? In a place completely bereft of any kind of support or familiarity?

[-] Crow@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Why can’t you travel the country for free? Or at least bus tickets are very cheap.

[-] Misconduct@startrek.website 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah, you just don't get it and I don't know how to explain how difficult it would be to do that alone with nothing. I don't know if it's something that can be explained to someone that hasn't struggled.

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[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 39 points 1 year ago

those people are so incredibly brainwashed by conservatives, they will happily vote to their own detriment. but yay. fox news. free market. yay.

[-] qooqie@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Minorities and vulnerable populations are in the best position to not be brainwashed. And if they leave those states hopefully they can go to a state that respects them as humans

[-] FraidyBear@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago

Minorities in these places are typically facing poverty levels that most people in the US can't imagine. How are they supposed to move when they can barely afford rent? As for the other women, the white women in these places genuinely don't believe that these laws will affect them. There is this sense that they think that their adjacency to white men will prevent them from being treated the same as others, that somehow it will make them immune. They are getting a massive wakeup call that white men in power only care about other white men. It's a tale as old as time. White women are and have always been our barrer to equality. Once things get bad enough for them they will jump on the side of minorities and equality again. They just don't usually view themselves as one of us, they always think that this time will be different.

[-] qooqie@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah… I know. I just hope their lives can change for the better and they can exit these places. I just want people to have equal rights and be happy. It’s apparently asking a lot of religious old people, but fuck them

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 year ago

How? How are they supposed to leave? I lived in southern Louisiana and I was desperately poor then. Nobody I knew could afford to leave.

[-] Blackbeard@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

reminds me of an old sam kinison bit regarding people who live in deserts and then suffer droughts. but agreed... those most in need of relocation are least capable.

[-] systemglitch@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

The true detriment is a two party system. You are like a dog being thrown scraps by whichever party you vote for, and things are only getting worse while people continue to pick one side or the other and don't overthrow the entire system they keep supporting.

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[-] Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

Perhaps it's different in other places, but in my experience people do give a lot of shits. The system is just built against us in such a way that it's almost impossible to either have any hope of changing anything or see any changes that do happen. A huge cause of that disparity is the party system with it's incessant bickering and corrupt propaganda.

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[-] binomialchicken 3 points 1 year ago

Occupy Wall Street and Black Lives Matter are pretty recent examples of where "showing up in numbers" just wasn't enough. The system is rigged and blaming victims isn't getting us anywhere. Anecdotally throughout my life, I have seen uncountable numbers of people come to work/school/etc. with an "I voted" sticker, and my conspiracy theory is that the numbers are meaningless and the people who rigged the system already decide who is winning before the first vote is cast, unless they abandon the plan because their polling shows an absolute landslide that would reveal their fuckery.

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[-] Dark_Arc@social.packetloss.gg 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The majority party in this country is the party that doesn't vote.

The second major party is the party that complains endlessly about "both sides".

The third major party is the party that votes one way because that's what they've been told to do their whole life.

The fourth major party is the one that actually does research and engages that's being driven mad by the other three.

[-] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 2 points 1 year ago

All revolutions have hurt poor people the most.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 8 points 1 year ago

Lol sure. So why try and improve things? You'll only make it worse. Enjoy the scraps.

[-] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 5 points 1 year ago

Please show me where I said to do nothing. Why don't you try imagining new ways of improving things rather than repeating the mistakes of the past? Of the revolutions in the 18th-20th centuries, I think only the American revolution accomplished anything close to what it was intending. And that's because it didn't destroy all the existing institutions while in the process of implementing new ones.

(Not that I agree with what the American revolution was intending, but we did get mostly what they set out to do without thousands of poor civilians starving to death in the process.)

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

Our current institutions are the problem. Why should we keep them?

[-] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Our institutions are not the problem, our policies are the problem. I want to see a transition to UBI, but a dramatic overhaul that dismantled WIC and SNAP before we got UBI in place would be an unmitigated disaster for the very people we were intending to help.

It's not the reform that I'm skeptical of. It's the lust for revolutionary destruction as a path to reform that I'm skeptical of. It's emotionally satisfying without regard to its actual efficacy in accomplishing the proposed reforms. Because history does not show us evidence that this works out well in the short nor the long run.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago

I'm proposing a revolution entirely led by the people, as that is the only true kind of revolution. The people who would then rule themselves with no intermediaries. Real grassroots organisation.

[-] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 3 points 1 year ago

Well, it better have some kind of mechanism in place to keep the grocery stores full or it's going to fail on its face.

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Couple things for you to look up:

  • Farming
  • Transport

These two things would likely do it.

[-] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 2 points 1 year ago

Do what? Just saying "we'll have farming and transport" is not a plan.

I'm not saying there isn't any other way to accomplish food production and distribution. I'm saying that just overthrowing our current systems without an explicit plan to keep food on the shelves is going to result in regular working class people starving. That has happened in every revolution except the American, and that's because the American revolutionaries already had the Continental Congress in place making plans about how to administrate the country, if they managed to win the war.

But most revolutions were just pure chaos with no plan that resulted in regular people starving to death. I 100% agree we need new systems. But I'm not terribly interested in living through a violent revolution.

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[-] systemglitch@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

It also helped them the most.

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[-] dragonflyteaparty@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago

We could move if we wanted to. We aren't, at least right now, because we'd leave behind our entire social network. Even if we moved where we know people, they wouldn't help as much with our two young children. I know and understand and accept that. They don't have to help with our kids, but we'd lose the people who can. We'd lose our kids friends and the network we are building in the neighborhood, which of course can be rebuilt, but that's also a consideration. I'd probably only see my sister once a year if that because she can't leave the state due to a custody agreement. Funds would also be an issue.

I also worry about too many democratic people leaving and making the state more red as a result and leaving behind those who can't move, like my sister and her kids, who will suffer as a result of increasingly authoritarian laws. Some regressive politicians have outright said that it's their goal to make it miserable for democratic and liberal people to force them to move, make the state redder, and thereby gain even more power.

[-] kibiz0r@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago

Most Americans can't afford a $500 emergency. Transplanting to a new state is off the table for a lot of people, especially women. If you have enough money to move, you probably also have enough money to take a weekend trip to get an abortion in a neighboring state.

[-] Angry_Maple@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago

Unless these things in the US seriously changes, I will never step foot there. I used to want to see all of the beautiful landscapes, animals, and buildings. I really did. Now, not so much.

If I have a medical emergency, I don't want to be somewhere where they'll delay necessary life saving treatment to first check if there might be a fetus.

Nope. Tbh, that also kind of sounds very similar to the things that they get angry at other countries for doing to women.

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