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[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 115 points 2 years ago

The point isn't that it's impossible.

The point is they act like it's just as easy as it was when they were in their twenties.

Back when you could comfortably support a family with one job working 40hrs/week. Any job.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

I didn't have issues. Saved for about a year, nothing crazy, and asked for a loan. Now I own a nice two-story house about a 15 minute walk from the city center. I don't really get this "buying a home is impossible" -meme, I believed that too before I actually tried and was surprised how easy it was.

[-] travysh@lemm.ee 58 points 2 years ago

When was that? Where?

The house I bought in my 20s (for $275k, inflation adjusted) is now worth $475k.

The house I bought in my 30s ($480k, inflation adjusted) is now worth $800k

In my area at least, home prices are far outpacing inflation. I literally couldn't afford to buy the house I'm in today at its current value.

[-] jasondj@ttrpg.network 24 points 2 years ago

Don’t forget, mortgage rates (at least in the US) are still the highest they’ve been since 9/11/2001.

That makes it even harder to buy the now more expensive house.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

A couple years back during covid, in Finland. House prices here have been creeping up as well but not as aggressively as where you have lived. I doubt that's the case in all of the US, there must be places with more modest prices. I "downgraded" to a smaller city when I went from renter to owner, couldn't have bought a home to my liking in Helsinki due to the prices.

[-] Tavarin@lemmy.ca 56 points 2 years ago

in Finland.

Well there's the issue. Finland isn't experiencing anywhere near the level of housing cost inflation of the US, Canada, and Australia.

And cheaper areas in these countries are cheaper for very good reasons (they suck to live in/have no jobs available).

[-] TigrisMorte@kbin.social 21 points 2 years ago

They have Social Services too if I'm not mistaken.

[-] CurlyMoustache@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago

Sure. If you live in Cuntass, next to a half dead tree and 500 million mosquitoes

[-] Lightor@lemmy.world 18 points 2 years ago

So when you said it's possible to buy a house in your 20s you meant in Finland. Then you make a wild assumption about the US to try to justify what you said? Wut? Dude you are misrepresenting the situation left and right.

[-] ironhydroxide@partizle.com 15 points 2 years ago

Sure there are places houses aren't insanely expensive, but they are generally many hundreds of miles away from where there are jobs available that may pay enough to purchase said house.

Having lived in Europe it amazes me how many Europeans believe that because it's still in the country, it's not all that far. But if you compare directly a few hundred miles is usually in another country in Europe, where in the USA it's more often still in the same state.

[-] The_v@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

I bought my first house back in 2009.

My monthly mortgage payments have been flat for 15 years now. I pay less than 1/4 per month that someone buying my house today would.

Even though we make 2X what we did back when we purchased the first house (graduate degrees), we would still struggle to make the payments on our current place if I had to pay the market price today.

[-] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 41 points 2 years ago

It's not a meme, it's the harsh reality for many in the West. Not just the US.

[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 27 points 2 years ago

And you're what's called an outlier.

I applied for a loan. I was told I don't have a high enough credit score by the bank. So now I'm paying rent instead of a mortgage.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Imma be honest, I'm not from the US so I have only a superficial knowledge of what a credit score is, but I'd reckon that's something you can affect, no?

[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 40 points 2 years ago

Then why tf are you commenting at all???

That's like jumping into a support group and being like "damn that sucks have you tried not having that happen to you?"

If it doesn't apply to you why tf are you even here?

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[-] ironhydroxide@partizle.com 11 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Affect, sure. In the same way that one can affect having rich parents who support you, thus making it easy to be rich yourself.

Being poor is fucking expensive, and the credit score system is a big part of that.

[-] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

The credit score system is the yoke upon which the millennial/zennial generation has been shackled while Gen X and Boomers ride the wagon of home ownership and comfortable living due to not having to deal with that bullshit in the 70's, 80's, and 90's.

[-] Duranie@lemmy.film 9 points 2 years ago

I was born in 1971. I can't speak for all of Gen X, but my experience growing up in the 80s is that I was presented with "everything's fine, you just need to get a job and it'll all work out." So that's what I did, and got nowhere fast. Married too early to the wrong person because pooling our resources seemed to be the only way out, then still struggled to get anywhere. Everything pointed to "I guess we're just not trying hard enough." Follow this with depression, divorce, working multiple jobs at a time to keep a roof over my head...

I think plenty of Gen X were just on the the earlier edge of the wave that became what it is today.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Idk if that's a passive or active you, but anyway that level of effect sounds quite large, maybe folk should find ways to make their credit rating better.

But I restate I have no clues as to the inner workings of this "credit rate" and if it's indeed impossible or otherwise unrealistic to effect, I'm willing to grab an implied L on that one.

[-] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

You positively affect your credit rating over long periods of time by taking out loans and paying them back. If no one will loan you anything, you can't affect your score. If you can't pay the loans back, it damages your score.

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[-] Lightor@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago

I didn't have issues so why would anyone have issues? Isn't everyone's life, opportunities, and circumstances just like mine? Jesus dude, really?

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago

How much did you save in that year and what are your monthly costs?

I plugged my numbers into a mortgage calculator while back and I'd have to save like 20% of the total cost to get the monthly payments low enough. I have an okay salary and I'm still not making enough to do that in a year.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

I can't remember the exact figure, it was around 10k I had saved up, so roughly a third of what I had made that year. This was during covids lockdown phase, so I didn't really have anything to spend my money on other than a savings account. My monthly loan payment is between 700-800€, I was smart enough to get a fixed interest rate which was ridiculous at the time but a literal moneyprinter now.

[-] Taigagaai@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

You might be interested to know that in the European country where I live this is completely impossible. No bank here will give a loan to a single person with that income and only 10k euro saved.

[-] Lightor@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Yeah reading all the comments by this user a lot of things sound a bit sus.

[-] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I know this may be difficult for you to understand, but a whole lot of people lost their jobs during Covid, and had even less to spend. That is why it was relatively easy for those with money to buy housing.

Saving isn't an option when your entire wage is spent before you make it, just to exist. Or when you aren't allowed to work because of external circumstances.

[-] kmkz_ninja@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

So you boght during a housing crisis where people were losing their jobs and the economy was in shambles.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 2 years ago

Yeah, that's about what the figure I came up with was. Oh well I'll keep throwing money away on rent I guess.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Alright mate, I hope for you to someday pass the obstacles in your way. Wishing all the best to you!

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago

Congrats on your success though. Didn't mean to sound bitter towards you if it came off that way.

[-] SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

You didn't mate, it's all good, and I don't consider myself successful for saving money for a year. It appears to have been on a bit of an easy-mode.

Feel like emotions are high here, and I've been looking into this credit rating system during this convo and I kinda start to understand the emotions coming off.

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