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submitted 2 days ago by tanisnikana@lemmy.world to c/trans_joy

I didn’t shave, I’m in my pajamas, the lighting is dodgy, I’m unposed, I’m wearing my day job headset, and I can’t wear makeup.

What you see here is me at my most middling low-average, when I just can’t care cause most of the time no one will see me, except now you are seeing me.

The big takeaway is that this is what I look like when I’m not trying to be fancy, this is what I look like most of the time.

And I’m still beautiful, at least, to me.

And if ever you’re struggling with your own self-image and you want the outside to match the inside, you’re not alone in that. This is my raw, unprocessed outside.

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[-] brookedSmile 3 points 2 days ago

Ive genuinely thought about doing a post like this. Its great to post selfies all made up and how we want to present ourselves to the world, but i do feel it gives a misrepresentation of our day to day looks. Great example is the photo you took a bunch of time editing of me, i hadnt shaved in 2 days and had no makeup on. 😅

Just goes to show we dont wake up like this, it actually takes alot of hard work!

You so pretty with or without the effort and im sooo looking forward to looking that fem with so little effort. I can still pass male if i just dont keep up on stuff 🙃

Also, you have to let me do your makeup sometime! If your comfy with that. Maybe on a date night with your partner or something lol ❤️🐢

[-] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

We fight so hard, every damn day.

And we’re all so tired.

And you’re beautiful, Brooke.

Someday I’m gonna wear makeup.

[-] brookedSmile 3 points 2 days ago

❤️❤️❤️

this post was submitted on 06 Aug 2026
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